First time BDSM and first time anal [MF]

FYI, I wrote this more for us than a public audience. It’s long. Sorry, not sorry.

“Go upstairs, clean yourself, and wait.”

And with that, my wife of 5 years left the room. We’d agreed in advance that this would be an extended “play” session, rather than the typical “have sex, go to sleep”. The tension was building all weekend and it was finally time to release.

But first let’s take it back a little bit. My wife and I had been together for several years. Over time that sexual spark had faded a little bit. After a miscarriage earlier this year, we decided to make a conscious effort to reconnect.

We refreshed our toy box, redecorated our bedroom (thanks Netflix!), and started reading erotic books together. Through this we decided to begin experimenting with D/s dynamics. Honestly, I’m not a naturally dominant person so I started reading and watching content that gave me ideas to implement. Tonight would be our first planned out scene.
After the shower stopped, I waited another 15 minutes or so until I quietly crept up the stairs to our room.

“Turn around and face the wall.”

I came up behind her and slipped a soft blindfold over her eyes. I placed a cushion in front of her and told her, “Kneel.” Once she was kneeling I placed earbuds in her ears. Gentle hip hop beats droned in her ears to drown out any noise.

Next I fastened black leather cuffs around her wrists, slowly biting into her soft skin as I tightened them. I hooked the cuffs together behind her back and got to work setting up the rest of the session.

I switched our new lights over to a red-orange mix (the default Chinatown scene for Hue bulbs). Next, I grabbed our full toy box from under the bed and carefully selected my tools for the evening: a golden plume feather, a fly swatter, a bullet vibrator, and a purple 6” dildo. The stage was set.

Removing the earbuds, I firmly directed, “Stand up. It’s time to get started.” I walked her over to the foot of our bed and pushed her back into a reclined position on her back. Her feet planted firmly on the tufted bench at the foot of our bed, and her knees spread wide baring everything.

We’d found that sensation and light impact play was a major turn on for both of us. I started by tracing the feather along her body, lightly brushing her curves. Snap! The first hard swat right on the top of her foot. This continued on for some time, mixing feathers, swats and barehanded slaps all over.

One hard swat to her nipple sent her shooting up, sucking air through her teeth. After a few more slaps right on her vagina, the juices were flowing. Literally. I could see and smell her wetness. It was time to change the pace.

The second act of our play was ready to begin. I grabbed the bullet vibrator and clicked it to life. The powerful buzz found its home right on her clit. Slowly moving it around her nub, I began cycling through the vibration patterns. A hard dot-dot-dot dash-dash-dash had her on the edge of climax.

At the moment of no return I slammed the dildo all the way in, filling her need and pushing her off the cliff. The thing I’ve come to appreciate about dildos is I can pump it harder and faster than I’d ever be able to sustain with my cock. To her delight, I absolutely pounded her with it.
During the come down, as I was planning my transition to act three, my wife flipped the script on me. “If you want, I think tonight would be a good time for butt play.” I was caught off guard. We’d played around a little bit—a tongue here, a finger there—but never any real successful anal play.

I tossed my ideas out the window, grabbed the lube and a small set of beginner anal beads from the toy box. I switched her cuffs to be bound in the front and flipped her over onto her knees with her big curvy ass pointed up. A quick lick of her asshole and I was ready to go.

Slowly I inserted my lubed finger in her tight hole. Honestly, lube was everywhere. Could not have enough. Once the finger was gliding in, I switched to the beads. It worked ok, but the finger was doing better. With her hole worked a little bit, she suggested trying to use my cock.
I lowered my tip to her and let her back onto it at her pace.

Cries of pain and, “Ow! Fuck!” filled the room. I reassured her as calmly as possible

“Just breathe. Breathe in, push out.”

A few minutes later my cock filled her ass for the first time. Slowly picking up my pace, I reached up and ripped the blindfold off.

“I want you to see this. I want you to see me fuck your ass.”

Less than a few minutes that seemed like hours later, I’m asking, “Do you want me to cum in your ass?”

“Yes, cum in my ass!”

“Say it again!”

“Yes, baby, please cum in my ass!”

That was all I need as I shot ropes of cum deep in her. It felt like I was cumming for a full minute.

Sweaty and a bit out of breath, I pulled out and undid her cuffs. She got up to shower the lube off. I followed suit a few minutes later. Afterwards we cuddled and debriefed as we lay in bed talking about what just happened.
It was by far one of the most exciting and fulfilling experiences we have ever had together.

If you stuck around this long, *hat tip*.

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