This is less a gonewildstory than a common thread throughout so many of my ‘gone wild,’ experiences asa single guy. But I was curious to know if any other guys or gals experienced the same thing.
When I was in college and a post-grad., I would often meet women at bars, parties, and other venues where I would be on the search with one or more other guy friends. There were also a lot of times I would be asked to accompany a friend on a double-date because a woman he met was only comfortable taking a friend of hers along. Still, other times it would be AOL-related and I or another buddy would chat with a woman who was willing to meet as long as she could take a friend and another guy came along. I always thought beyond the safety issue, a woman wants to see that the man has at least one friend and that they’re not some connection-less recluse.
Whatever the scenario, I would often find myself playing a wingman. At the risk of coming off too boastful, I was the best wingman anyone could ask for. On the (rare) occasions when I was not going to hook up (whether it had to do with me or the woman) I was always very civil and conversational. If my buddy was going to get to hook up with his date, I would sit and talk for hours with the friend even if there was no hook-up in store for the two of us.
The vast majority of the time I did hook up with ‘my date.’ I emphasize ‘my date,’ for a reason. Whoever my friend preferred I would make time with the other woman. There were never situations where we were both going for the same woman while the friend was left out in the cold. The reason for this was I always found that other guys (at least my friends) were far more picky than I was. I was always flexible, finding so many different women of different looks and sizes attractive. I never had a ‘type.’ While the more caustic of my critics said I had “no taste,” I would always disagree: my taste was just more eclectic than theirs (or anyone I had ever known).
So what would happen on numerous occasions was my friend would attempt to hook up with the conventionally more attractive woman. He might get negged. He might hook up, but it didn’t go past light petting. He might get to ‘go all the way,’ but the sex wasn’t very good. And, yes, here and there, he’d get the hotter woman and that hook-up was all he anticipated it would be.
I, on the other hand, had awesome times hooking up with the plainer or heavier woman for whom my friend had no interest. In fact, I can not think of a single time I did not enjoy ‘the session.’ And for whatever reason, even though these were the first dates as it were, I was eating their pussies and getting blown, often simultaneously (69). Sometimes we’d have intercourse, but admittedly, that was rare. Long after my buddy’s hook-up was over, my date and I would be going at it well into the night, giving each other multiple orgasms.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/xm210t/my_hookups_were_better_than_the_friends_i_was