After having the conversation with my work girls today. It was a bit crazy to me to hear that out of the full team of 12 women, 10 of them said they are either a pretty quiet/ silent or fake their noises of pleasure during foreplay and sex, in which all 10 of them say they only make involuntary noises of pleasure when they actually orgasm.
What makes me sad is 2 of the 10 said their partners/ husbands have never made them cum at all during any sexual activity, they’ve only came during lone masturbation.
Out of the remaining 2, one said she couldn’t control her moans during oral and orgasming and the other said she is very vocal and can’t control her moans during any sort of clit stimulation, penetration or orgasm.
When I shared my experiences with them all, only the fact that some of them have known me for over 8 years in work (some of them are now my personal friends). Did they believe me, as I am so far on the other end of the spectrum compared to them.
I honestly don’t know if it’s that fact that I have a hyper sexual mentality, to be the reason I have absolutely no control when it comes to my involuntary pleasure sounds!
For me, even with any sort of external foreplay I.e nipple sucking, neck kissing, toe sucking etc. The sensation takes only a couple of seconds before I can’t help but release some moans.
With any direct clitoral stimulation, whether that be rubbing or oral sex, I can go from anywhere in between deep moans and then when it’s super sensitive and swollen I will generally slip a few ‘squeals’(granted I love how sensitive my clit actually is and even when it’s ‘too much’, I just bite down on whatever available).
With pussy penetration (I am on the tight side so I’ve been told) it could be a finger or a dick, especially the first insertion, it always seems to have me grasping for my breath! I kind of then have a few moments of moaning if I’m being fucked or if they put a second finger in as it’s stretching me out. Once the motion really gets going, I always seem to become ‘animalistic’. My moans tend to end up becoming deep grunts and I just hold it in by biting my lover during. That tends to help a lot!
I am a screamer when it comes to anal. Screams of pleasure mostly though, this pleasure is just so much different compared to any other acts! I’ll leave that there ;)
There’s so much I love about the journey to an orgasm as much as an orgasm itself, but when it does hit. Oh it hits so hard every time. I don’t know what you would call it, but the moaning, grunting, screaming and squealing all just rolls into a bliss. Most of the time I can’t even recall all of the noises I make, only when I watch it back if we are recording, do
I actually see my state of mind during the pleasure. It’s such an out of body experience!
Last but by no means least and also my boyfriend’s favourite. If I have a really strong orgasm, even for me. For maybe a minute or so afterwards, without any touching, I seem to get tiny, what I like to call after shocks, which makes me contract and pulsate. He described it to me by saying it’s like soft whimpering. Something he’s never come across previously. My special talent!
For all of this to be involuntary for me, from the very first sexual experience I had. I had always just assumed this was the norm. But after my conversation today, I must just be extremely lucky x
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/x844bu/f28_involuntary_sex_noises
Meaning your partner is very lucky too. There’s not much hotter to me than listening to the moans and screams while I’m pleasuring a woman. It gives me more of a drive! That being said… would love to hear those moans of yours!