Had [M]y first orgy, and heard the eight most glorious words I’ve ever heard uttered in my life [Group]

(**Note:** All names have been changed. All events are true, although given I was under the influence at points, the order/sequence might be out of whack.)

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**Optional Backstory:** A few weeks ago I met a woman from a kink- and group-oriented dating app. I’ll call her “Crow”. She’s in a poly-amorous marriage and has a few kinks which overlap with mine. We were supposed to go for a drink with an option to come back to my place, and had arranged it for a Monday, but on the night she messaged me saying they were closed, she was right. Worse, all the bars along that street were closed for a Monday except for one, which I knew nothing about and was quite far from my house. I suggested if she was comfortable, just have a drink and a chat at my place, no expectations.

She came over, and when I greeted her at the side street where people park (I’m directly on a busy road) the first thing I noticed was how she moved in a seductive way; like she was already tuned on, like she completely owned her sexuality and new what to do with it, I was instantly attracted. Taller than me and with a fantastic body. She came in and we had a cider, chatted for maybe twenty minutes. The sex was absolutely top-shelf, although we’re both pleasers, and would get caught in the ‘pleaser trap’ of each trying to figure out what the other wants. Familiar ground. One thing I did notice is that each new thing we did, she would ask, “can I…: or “would you like it if I…”. I just wanted to give her free reign, but if that’s her thing then I can dig it.

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**Still Kinda Optional Backstory:** **The Lead-up** – The following weekend was Crow’s birthday, and before she left Monday night she told me she was having a house party for it on Saturday. and I should come; I’m an extrovert and make quick friends with new people. She added, “it might get a bit sexy near the end of the night”… well OK!.

I arrived later than most and by motorcycle, and pulling into her driveway I ran into a guy called Adam who looked a lot like me; a bearded, bearish guy with glasses. I introduced myself, and I could tell he was nervous. Walking in I’ve never seen more cleavage in my life. On top of that, lots of weird and wonderful types, rainbow flag apparel, sequined shirts, one girl randomly in unicorn fancy dress, and lots of skin. Outsiders, my people. Crow had set me up in one of her spare bedrooms so I could ride home in the morning, and I left my helmet, jacket and backpack there. I had brought gin and sour mix to make gin sours, if I needed to busy myself with a task. I got chatting with and making drinks for a very goth woman, slim and big-boobed with ferocious eye makeup I’ll call DragonTattoo. The chemistry was good but I got no signal that she was interested in anything physical with me., so I made a mental bookmark of her to maybe send my own signal to her later if the vibe was right. I’d continue to make drinks for her throughout the night and we talked and laughed. The girl in unicorn fancy dress had a tail which kept getting in the way as I went in and out of the kitchen.

Generally, the party was fun, there were randomly four guys named ‘Adam’ there, so I made a running gag that everyone can be called Adam. It was a great alibi when not remembering names. Crow offered me some edibles, she had non-vegan brownies and vegan choc-crackles. I was the only dedicated vegan there, she’d made them just for me! I had half of one, then an hour later the other half, and didn’t feel anything. I met Crow’s husband, he looked like me, and like Adam from walking in, a bearded bearish guy, only without the glasses. It was a little strange, I’d never met the husband of a woman I’d slept with before. I did notice though, that nobody was really hooking up, this was meant to be a sexy party, but aside from the bounty of cleavage and fishnets, there wasn’t much physical action. Oh well. Having just come out of a non-monogamous relationship myself I had some great conversations and learned a lot. *I guess it’s not going to be a ‘sexy’ sexy party, but this has still been fun.* I got plenty of value from the night, it was almost midnight and lots of people started leaving around the same time, including DragonTattoo. But then, a blonde I’ll call Alice wanted everyone’s attention for a moment…

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**Worth-it For Context Middlestory: The Turn** – Alice asked “shall we have the conversation? It’s time for the conversation right? Let’s have the conversation”. *Uhh… what conversation?* Crow said ‘Just a minute I’ll get changed. I noticed then it was just after midnight, and Alice was in just lingerie, including a wide loincloth type thing that draped down past her knees. She was short and blonde with fanastic breasts. Crow came back wearing a nightgown, but through it I could see bright red lingerie. She stood in front of the hearth and the room was roughly arranged in a circle of people,

“So it looks like this is everyone for the after party” Crow began. There were about 8 people left. “So what we’ll do, we’ll go around the room, let each other know our boundaries, hard limits, what we want out of the night, which genders we’re open to… does anyone want to begin?” *I want to begin* I thought. I’m the guy who yells ‘hip hip’ during the happy birthday song, so yes I wanted to begin, but I wanted a sample of what it sounds like and how long I should talk for first. “OK I’ll start” Crow said. She explained her boundaries and desires, and invited anyone to go next, so I jumped in “Hi I’m Corrects_Maggots if we haven’t spoken tonight, I’m open to both genders, I’ll put a hard limit on anything anal tonight, I’ll also put a boundary on anything involving risk or danger, I’ll enthusiastically watch, but I don’t have the experience to do anything like that safely”. “So, what do you mean by ‘danger'” Alice asked. “Well, any sort of choking, rope stuff, any, I don’t know, knife play anything like that”. *Was that enough? Were there some things I should have also excluded, but haven’t considered?* “OK that makes sense” Alice responded. That was my turn over.

A guy in a sequined shirt who turned out to be Alice’s husband said he was only watching for tonight. A lot of people talked about whether they were dommy or subby or switchy. Alice put a hard limit on anything involving her mouth, as she had recently had a cold sore and didn’t want to spread it if it was still spreadable. Then, one girl I’ll call Fifi decided she’d leave all together. “What we were talking about earlier,” she said to me, “made me think I should go home and talk to my boyfriend”. *Ok, corrects_maggots, you’ve already made one girl leave, don’t fuck this up any more from here.* Adam who I had met on the way into the party nervously began, he seemed to miss the point of the conversation and spoke about how it would be too hard for anyone to dom him, he’d need a professional. *OK, sport.* Crow’s husband went last, he spoke confidently and precisely, as if he’d given this spiel a thousand times. Then, Crow invited everyone into the master bedroom…

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**The Beyond-Meat-and-Potatoes Frontstory:** I had quickly dashed off to the spare bedroom to get a handful of condoms and a boner pill from my backpack. I didn’t think I’d need the boner pill but given the alcohol and pot I had consumed, let’s play it safe and not miss a great opportunity. There were chairs in the bedroom and Adam quickly took one, he had retrieved a plate and brought out some coke which he started chopping up. With no more chairs I sat on the far side of the bed on the very edge.

Crow’s husband and Alice began with a spanking session. He started with his hands. She used a “green orange red” method of indicated whether to continue or if she needed a break. She had mentioned using this in the conversation. Crows husband went on to use a riding crop and then a sort funny shaped wooden paddle. It was amazing to see proper power-imbalance play in real life, it’s nothing like the porn. The care and attention he gave her when she said ‘orange’ was genuine, but still didn’t feel like ‘breaking character’ if that makes sense. At times she said ‘light/bright green’ or ‘dark green’ and I wasn’t sure what the shades meant, but it was fascinating. She was extremely bratty with her words but compliant with her actions. Afterwards, Adam had some coke ready which by this point must have been finer than talcum powder. A few of us did it off Alice’s and Crows bodies, in various places, I chose Crow’s butt cheek.

Crow’s husband continued with Alice, first fucking her, and then saying his erection wasn’t playing along instead went down on her. Crow was dancing in front of Alice’s only-watching sequined-shirted husband, and after a while sat on the bed and reached down to play with her own husband’s cock. I was still sitting on the edge of the bed, not yet participating. I was wearing a buttoned shirt and in my boxer shorts. Crow’s husband came up from Alice’s thighs and started kissing crow, and Alice rolled over facing my direction. *If you don’t make your move now, you never will.* I laid down facing Alice, and she looked at me. “Hi” I said. “Hi” she responded with a big smile

I asked, “Is it OK if I put my hand here, like this?” and gently stroked her arm. “Yes, it’s very OK”. She had put her mouth as off-limits, and I began kissing her neck, liking up behind her ear, and then gently holding her ear lobe between my teeth and pulling away, a move I’ve done for as long as I can remember. She reached down and brushed her fingers against my rapidly growing erection through my underwear. “Is it OK if I touch you here?” she said coyly. “Yes, it’s more than OK”. She reached under my boxers and grabbed it firmly. “Ooh, hello!” she said; I’m fairly well-endowed and welcome anyone to check my NSFW posts for context. “Would you like me to put a condom on?” I asked. “Yes please”. I had dumped a handful of condoms on the bedside table nearest me, and quickly rolled on on. I started by teasing, rubbing the head of my cock up and down her pussy. I could feel her getting wetter. I could sense her anticipation. Then, the plunge. There’s a certain expression I look out for in this moment, I will wait until a woman is very wet, and then slowly go all the way in; the look of ecstatic surprise is an absolute feast for my ego, and I saw it on Alice’s face.

Not to last, though. The combination of alcohol, cocaine, and possibly the edibles seemed to be stronger than the boner pill I’d gulped maybe 20 or 30 minutes earlier. Feeling myself drop from 100 to 80, I decided I’d have a turn of going down on her. Adam was crushing some MDMA, Crow’s husband was sucking Crow’s tits sitting on the edge of the bed, and sequined shirt was watching. I kissed my way down Alice’s body, stopped at her stomach and licked from her ribs to the underboob up to the nipple, and flicked it with my tongue, another move I’ve been doing since forever. I kissed back down her petite bod down her left leg and gave her a playful lick behind the knee, and slowly started kissing up her left thigh/ “Be gentle” Crow said, watching what I was about to do, “Very gentle, only one finger”. I gave her the performance of a lifetime. This was my Olympics, my Royal Albert Hall. I could feel her writhing in pleasure and struggling to contain her moans. She built up to a crescendo with one orgasm, I stopped the motion of my tongue and finger and gently pressed my tongue to her clit while her legs shook, but after she did not settle back down. *Alice is the sort of girl who can chain a few orgasms together, perfect.* I started motion again, first with my finger then slowly with my tongue. Her moans became less controlled and frantic, and she came to a second orgasm. I wasn’t looking, but I knew Crow was looking down at what I was doing, and then Crow said the greatest and most beautiful thing I’ve heard anyone say:

“Mmmm… I told you he was good at that”

I’ve been told I’m getting promoted and/or getting a raise. I’ve been told I’ve won competitions. I’ve been told “I love you” by a person whom I’m in love with… but never have I heard anything quite like that. *Be still my beating pleaser heart!* The idea that two women are not only in admiration of what I can do sexually, but discussed it positively when I wasn’t even in the room, might be the most satisfying thing I’ve ever heard.

After a third, she told me she was feeling overstimulated and needed a break. I sat up in the bed against the headboard, generally feeling like the emperor of all existence, and Crow suggested to her husband “Why don’ you and Corrects_Maggots have a play?” He climbed over on the bed and I gave him a deliberate look of enthusiasm. We started kissing. I grew up in a homophobic town with homophobic friends, and there’s something about kissing a man that still feels naughty and wrong, like you’re breaking a rule or giving a middle finger to some stuffed un-sequined shirt somewhere. I decided I wanted to round this out, I had a feeling of debauchery and I wanted to lean into it, I asked if he would like it if I went down on him, and he said yes please. I kissed my way down his hairy body, and took his whole cock in my mouth. I showed his balls a lot of attention and worked my tongue around the spot on the underside of the knob where it connects to the shaft with that flap of skin. He was moaning with pleasure. I asked Crow “would you like to share this?” and she responded “No, I’m really just enjoying seeing this”. From conversations earlier, when doing this sort of ‘continuous consent, several people had said it’s important to hear the occasional “no” to make the “yes”es more meaningful. I don’t think I’m particularly good at giving men head, but Crow’s husband through the moaning said “Crow… I really like your new friend Corrects_Maggots”. *Wow, have I become the Belle of the ball here?* I let him know it was OK to cum in my mouth, and a minute later he did. I looked up at crown and we kissed, her husbands cum sloshing around both our mouths.

At this point Crow decided she wanted a spanking session for herself. She wanted to straddle me whie she was getting it. *This beats the edge of the bed.* I played with her tits as Crow’s husband looked through their box of goodies for some different toys. “I’m probably not going to interact much” she said. “That’s OK”. I looked into her eyes, trying to be seductive. Adam was still just watching as was sequined shirt. She used the same ‘green orange red’ signals as he went.

After, Crow’s husband had another go at fucking Alice. Ironic he was really railing her now after having cum. I asked if I could help and he asked me to suck on his nipples, I was happy to do so but the angle wasn’t ideal. I reached under and brushed my fingertips over his ballsack as he was fucking her; it was difficult to do that and suck his nipples, but he was clearly loving it. *I know I fucked your wife, mate, but I hope you can enjoy this.* They both were clearly enjoying proceedings. After, he got up to do something else and I lay next to Alice. She made a familiar face that suggested she really wanted me to kiss her, and I made a similar longing face back. “I really wanna kiss you so bad!” she said. *Me too, babe.*

Crow’s husband climbed back on the bed and laid on his back. Alice got off the bed and I think attended to her sequined-shirted husband. I wanted to keep up the feeling of debauchery by going down on him again, which I did. With his cock in my mouth, Crow started playing with my dick, long gentle strokes mixed with hard, full-strength squeezes at the base, something I’d told her I really liked a week earlier. She started dirty talking to her husband while doing it. “Corrects_Maggot’s cock is so hard, he’s hard for you, he’s hard because he’s sucking you off”. *Yes, this is the feeling of debauchery I was aiming for.* But things started to get a bit blurry. After Crow’s husband came in my mouth again, I could feel both Crow and Alice climb onto the bed. I raised my head up, maybe a little too fast, and that’s when I finally felt the edibles kick in.

Things really get a bit fuzzy at this point. The four of us when on the bed, I had my hands over everyone, I felt everyone’s hands on me, Adam and sequined shirt looked on. I’m not sure what we did, but I had a moment of lucidity when both Crow and Crow’s husband started going down on me at the same time. *A double-service blowjob! I never thought it would happen for me*. more stuff happened before another moment of lucidity, I remember thinking I really want to be hugged–squeezed even–by Crows husband. I generally prefer women to men, so it’s rare for me to have the option of both and chose the man, but I just so badly wanted to be little spoon to him. Problem was, I couldn’t form sentences at this point or express my thoughts. After a while of looking at him, I bizarrely just said “… …hugs”. I can’t remember what he did.

“Corrects_Maggots!” I heard Crow’s husband say, sternly. I sat up awake. I was on the near edge of the bed almost falling off, Crow and Adam were fucking; the poor guy had waited about four hours to get involved. I had fallen asleep at some point. Crows husband was on the chair which Adam had been on earlier, casually playing with his dick. “You should probably go to bed, hey?” He said. Alice and Sequined shirt had left. I took my leave and went to sleep in the spare room.

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**Aftermath:** The next morning I rode home. The sun was shining, the roads were wide and empty, and the future was bright and shiny. I realised that I had caused the most orgasms of the night, that felt like a big win, but I had not cum myself at any point. I messaged and asked for genuine feedback from Crow, including any negative feedback, and she didn’t have anything negative to say, or at least was willing to say. It would have been good to hear something mildly negative so I could improve, but I can’t be disappointed with all-positive. She gave me Alice’s number, as she wanted to see me solo. She also hinted that the group might be visiting a sex club later in the month …but that will be my next post.

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