Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 3 years. We don’t have enough time to have sex when we see eachother and I’m literally always horny and I play with myself twice a day. I’ve been thinking about cheating and going out and get fucked hard and rough. But I’m scared to do it cause I don’t want him to find out. I love flirting with guys and sometimes role play if I’m horny enough
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wnvc1j/21f_im_in_a_long_distance_relationship_and_im
Sounds like your horniness is about to explode. I’d love to help 😉
I think you should have a talk with your bf and see what you guys can do to combat your extra horny body. Like maybe buy a vibrator that your bf can control long distance for example a lush vibrator. Have him send you nudes and stories or role play ideas of he’d do to you and or even tell you what he wants you to do while in public to make the rush more interesting and powerful. If all else fails then talk to him about an open relationship that’s just sexual so you can let off a little steam. But please don’t cheat on him because that hurts someone to an amount that’s almost unrepairable. If someone did it to you I’m sure you’d be hurt as well especially after 3 years so please think about it carefully before you do anything. :)
Well cheating doesn’t help. Clearly you want to experience life. May be have a Gangbang. The moral thing is to experience is break up and experience life.
Leave the relationship bruh
Relationship is already over. You’ve done enough to let it end. Save him the heartbreak and stress of being cheated on and end things. Coming from someone who does LDR. Not ok to just cheat
See if you can work something out – your boyfriend is probably horned-up too. I had a friend like that in college, at about your age; she worked out an arrangement w/ her boyfriend no penetration. They eventually broke up anyway but that’s not uncommon at that age.
If you can’t work something out consider ending it because you’ll eventually cheat and holding those secrets and telling the lies that come with that are mean to him and emotionally erosive to you.
Just leave and get dicked down: o
Just break up with him. U’re not afraid because u love him, u’re afraid he’ll find out. Why waste him time and urs ?
You are scared to do it because you don’t want him to find out but you want him to have PTSD, crippling anxiety, suicidal thoughts and broken self esteem…..please help me make sense of this???
Start with a discussion. Sexual frustration is no joke.
If either of you is the jealous sort, then stop here, it’s not for you.
If he’s in the same boat there are a few rules you could consider using:
* FIRST: Nothing for one or two weeks before you see each other, you want sexual tension when you meet, not just tension.
* Never at your home, you don’t want surprise booty calls or worse.
* Never with the same partner twice to avoid strings. Not exchanging phone numbers helps with this one.
* Safe sex, it’s not cool to infect your significant other.
* No lies and don’t volunteer. If you don’t want to know, don’t ask. If it’s a kink, then it’s cool.
The idea is you’re using a tool for relief, not dating someone.