[FM] How my masseuse (39F) and I (30M) became extremely kinky friends with benefits.

It’s not what you think from reading the title.

**There is some hard content in this post.**

It includes CNC and raceplay. If that’s not for you, I really recommend you skip this.

First off – this is legitimately one of the best things that’s ever happened to me, and I haven’t told a soul IRL. It’s been killing me to keep this to myself and I’m so, so excited to share how this went down. You can jump down past the dotted line if you want to skip the backstory and get straight to the sexy stuff.

The backstory:

In 2018-2019 I started taking my health more seriously. Eating better, regularly going to the gym, etc. It’s taken me all of that time, but I’ve lost 50 pounds and put on a decent amount of muscle. I am by no means ripped, but I’m objectively in good shape, healthy, and my self image is in a really solid place.

In order to help with some of the massive soreness I would deal with, I decided to get a massage once a month. That’s where T comes in. She owns a chain of 3 massage parlors in my city, and ended up being my first masseuse when I ended up booking at one of her places. And no, these are not the gross “extra service”, sex trafficking massage parlors. They’re quasi up-scale and the staff are all extremely professional. In any case, T and I hit it off talking during our massages – there was never anything remotely flirty or sexual, it was mostly just shooting the shit/talking about how massage techniques work/whatever. The point I’m trying to make is that we slowly ended up being very platonically friendly. We’d see each other around town occasionally and chat/catch up every once in a while.

Physically, T is a 4’11” Vietnamese woman. She immigrated when she was a kid and has a very slight (and quite attractive, imo) accent. She has really long, smooth hair that runs down to her waist that she almost always keeps braided, and is a bit of a mix between a petite/athletic build. She has small, perky teardrop breasts (which I love) and absolutely perfect teeth that come out to a radiant smile. If you can’t tell already, I really like this woman.

I, on the other hand, am a 5’11” white guy. Brown hair, blue eyes, former chubster but now definitely more on the athletic side. Dick is a hair over 6 inches and probably about average or slightly above average thickness. I consider myself blessed and I’ll run with what I’ve got.

Anyway, Covid was rough on T’s stores but they all made it through. She has excellent business acumen, but there’s a rub – in the fall of 2021, she and her husband divorced. They’d apparently been rocky for ages. He worked in some sort of management/admin position for a large hospital ($$$) and expected her to be a stay-at-home wife, but that was never going to work – this woman is a straight up firecracker. So he ended up giving her some money to start **a** massage parlor to keep her busy and she ended up running 3 very popular ones and making almost as much as he did. He wanted her to quit running the stores and spend more time at home (they never had kids and she would have been bored to tears). On top of that, they had apparently been pushed to marry by their parents when they were 18/19, and by year 4/5 they were only having sex once every 3-4 months. It was a pretty rough divorce, but it ended up working out. She kept the stores and could support herself just fine, and her husband kept their original house and kept doing his own thing.

Again, zero flirting or innuendo during the massages, but we were definitely growing a little closer during T’s divorce. Then, back in February, she made a direct pass at me. I was the last customer of the day, and we were chatting as she closed up. We walked out to the parking lot, and she asked me what my plans were for the rest of the night. I said something along the lines of “not much, just going to watch some Netflix and get to bed.” She looks right into my eyes and says “Why don’t you come over to my place instead?”

Y’all, I swear my brain was making the internet Dial-up noise. My final, prevailing thought? “Fuck it, why not?” So I went over to her place, and that’s when everything kicked off.

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Our first few times having sex were really good, but the incredible stuff started developing once we had started to become more comfortable being intimate with one another.

This woman is an **absolute freak.** She had been stuck in a semi-sexless marriage for two decades, and by default always had to be the assertive, dominant one in her relationship. But T is 100% a dyed in the wool submissive, and that side of her started coming out **fast**.

We started kind of slow with that – at first she just loved having me pin her down while we fucked, along with some light slapping and dirty talk – “good girl”, giving her commands, stuff like that. But that rollercoaster accelerated **very quickly**, and T started to discover a laundry list of kinks that I was (mostly) thrilled to indulge, including:

– Anal. T LOVES being fucked in the ass – the harder the better. At this point, we have anal sex probably 75-80% of the time. She orgasms super hard when she plays with her clit while I fuck her ass, and she clamps down on me like a vice when she does. I had done anal a few times before we started seeing each other, but I had no idea that any woman could love it as much as she does.

– Daddy Kink. Hoooooly shit, the daddy kink. Once we first tried it, there was no going back. It’s one of those things that I didn’t think I would like, but I ended up **loving** it – and so does T. She calls me “Daddy” any time we’re together – it instantly puts her into a submissive headspace, and it’s an instant turn-on for me as well.

– Breeding Kink. This one is particularly fun because I’ve had a vasectomy, so once we both had clean screenings we lost the condoms and never looked back. When we do have vaginal sex (which isn’t as often anymore because of how much this woman loves being railed in the ass), there is no pulling out. Ever. As soon as she wraps her legs around me and lets out the classic “Please cum in me, Daddy”, it’s all over. The way she says it almost makes me wish I could actually knock her up. Almost.

– Race Play. I was reeeeeeeally hesitant about this one, and it was definitely something I felt uncomfortable with for a while. I was willing to experiment, but it was something I had to warm up to with a lot of reassurance from T. She asked me to start with some “lighter” stuff, like calling her “my little asian slut”, and she eventually asked me to call her a ch*nk during sex. It took me a while to get there, but I was eventually able to reconcile that it actively brings my partner pleasure, isn’t hurting anyone, and hasn’t compromised my personal values. It’s still not my favorite thing to do, but it makes her really, really happy, which brings me a lot of pleasure :)

– CNC. This was another one that took me some time to really get into, but we’ve been having a **lot** of fun with this recently. She’ll go to sleep, and I’ll come over to her place and let myself in (I have a key at this point), head upstairs, and completely have my way with her. We have a safe word, but she’s never used it. This part of our sex life is slowly evolving into a free use situation, which we’re both really enjoying.

The sex with T has been absolutely mind-blowing – I’ve never had a partner actively desire me like T does, and every time we fuck is a uniquely visceral experience. I’ll leave you with some of my favorite experience/memories:

– She always whimpers “thank you, Daddy” every time I cum inside of her. Every single time. So fucking hot.

– Whenever I spend the night, I almost always wake up to her sucking my dick and fingering herself to orgasm. T loves to take me out of her mouth so that I cum all over both of us, then she licks it all up. I really want to wake up before her so I can eat her out first but she always manages to beat my alarm.

– She has a sort of mantra whenever I cum in her pussy. She wraps her legs around me, pulls me in, and whispers in my ear. It’s always some variation of “Please cum in me, Daddy. Please put a baby in me. Get me pregnant. Make me a mommy. Pleeeease give me your cum.”

– Our CNC adventure began when she made a Freudian Slip when I was fucking her in the ass. We were going hard, she was talking dirty, and accidentally lets out a full-volume “UGH, RAPE MY ASS, DADDY”. We both immediately stop and it is **dead** silent, followed by some nervous laughter by both of us. It ended up leading to a really constructive conversation about the CNC kink, and we’ve revisited that particular line a few times since ;)

– I once had her pinned down and was fucking her ass in the prone position, and T said “Daddy, my ass feels so good!”. I replied “No baby, this is my ass now. This is Daddy’s ass. Whose ass is it?”. I felt her shiver and she cries back “It’s your ass Daddy! It’s all yours! It belongs to you!”. That set a new high for dirty talk that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to top.

– A few weeks ago I was coming back from the airport late, and I knew she’d be home because we’d been texting earlier. When I was about ten minutes from her house, I texted her: “I’ll be at your house in ten minutes. I want you naked and bent over the side of the bed with your ass lubed up for me.” She just responds with “Destroy me <3”.

I’ve absolutely loved my time with T. At this point, we don’t know what the plan is. She never wants to get married again, and I’m not a huge fan of the concept of marriage in the first place. We’re good friends and our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but we’re just taking everything one day at a time and waiting to see how things shake out in the mid/long term. I’ve never been this sexually compatible with someone, and it feels really special that she’s been willing to trust me to help her explore some more risque kinks. I don’t know if I’ll ever have an update, but this entire experience has been really special and I wanted to share. The best part of all of this is that it hasn’t effected the massage situation at all – I still go to the parlor as usual, pay for my massage, and leave a happy customer (again, it’s *really* not that kind of place).

Thank you for reading :)

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wh9nvr/fm_how_my_masseuse_39f_and_i_30m_became_extremely