First off, I have never posted on reddit before, but I will try and make this easy to read. I’m going to refer to my wife as Jane for privacy. I’m not 100% sure if this story would be a cuckold story or a cheating story. Honestly, it’s a little bit of both.
So, it starts off with both of us as bf/gf before we were married. I introduced my wife to the cuckold lifestyle by asking her if she would ever be interested in sleeping with other men. She, like most women who are first asked, rejected it pretty hard and did not like the idea behind it. I made it clear that I was not interested in having sex with other women, I just wanted to have sex with her.
Before Jane and I started dating, she had racked up quite a body count with different guys. I have asked her in the past who she slept with to see if I knew anybody and to see if they were good at sex or bad. A couple days after I asked her about the cuckold lifestyle, I started bringing up other guys names who she enjoyed fucking when we were having sex. She actually played along with it at first, but after post nut clarity she hated me talking about it. However, every time we had sex I would poach her with the idea trying to get her to think about fucking them.
Jane also has a nice body. So she can definitely be a tease. After fucking about 30-40 times like I previously mentioned, I started to get on her phone and like pictures of other guys on Facebook. Especially the guys that sometimes text her when they are drunk (which happened frequently in the early stages of us dating). This went on for about 3 months of the sex we were having and me liking some random and not random guys pictures on Facebook.
Roughly 3-5 months had passed and I picked up her phone one night while she had gotten too drunk and was going through her messages. I saw some text messages with a couple of different guys and they were all super flirty and sexual. Now, at first I was kind of annoyed because this whole lifestyle/fetish isn’t supposed to be a “behind my back” thing. I confronted her about it the next day and as you can imagine she was mad I went through her phone lol. Both of our frustrations died down. However, I also thought this was a good step in the right direction. I started to do a little more to push her into that lifestyle. A big one was I stopped fucking her like I know she likes. I started only entering her half way and acting like it was as far as I could go in. I also purposely became more submissive and I know she doesn’t like being dominant. I think this is kind of what pushed her over the edge. I also stopped hanging out with her around the house (we lived together while we were dating).
Another month had passed and I picked up her phone and she still was texting this guy very sexually. At this point I was uncomfortable with it and told her to stop. She said she would but rarely every truly did. She would snap him too and send half naked nudes. Their flirting continued for 5 months… until one night she was drunk and let it slip to her friends that she had been having sex with this guy on the side. Her friends never knew about my fetish or anything like that. She told me the next day that she had been fucking this guy. Now when she apologized, I knew I had two ways to approach the apology. I could tell her it wasn’t her fault and I liked that she did that. Or, get mad at her and scold her and basically throw the cuckold lifestyle out of the window. As you can imagine, I chose option 1. I told her that it was okay and that I liked it. I did admit I didn’t like not knowing, but that it was okay if it continues as long as I know about it. This actually played out in my favor for about 3 months. She would tell me when she goes to fuck this guy or suck him off. Then she would come home and tell me about what they did and how we came and so on.
This was all going well for awhile until she started getting feelings for him and he had very strong feelings for her. She kept telling me she didn’t know what she wanted while continuing to sleep with him on the side. This continued for awhile, until the guy she was fucking got a girlfriend. Which honestly, probably saved our relationship.
Fast forward about a year. During the past year, she was still flirty with guys at bars and sent some thirst traps that I had approved of. We also ended up getting married. It seemed like the actual physical cuckolding died down a bit and was just teases. At this point I kind of was wanting to push it and try the physical cuckolding side again, but at the same time didn’t want to push it too hard because I almost lost her once. However, I thought since we were married I can probably get away with pushing it more. So, we started to get back into it and she was also getting more into it. She would call me by the name of the person she wanted to fuck when we fucked. She would start to mess around with more guys at bars and flirting on social media. Even when I wasn’t in the mood for her to flirt at times, she would take my dick out and get me in the mood so she could convince me to let her.
This escalated a bit and I starting liking pics of this one guy on her Facebook. They ended up going to dinner together. My wife said her friend was going to be there too so it would be my wife, her friend, and this guy. Turns out my wife’s friend never went and they flirted heavily. My wife did text me and asked if she could fuck him that night and they did. I actually knew the guy too so it was a little awkward seeing him around town. He never knew that I knew, but just the fact that he knows he fucked my wife was a little degrading. They only had sex once, but my wife was now all in on this cuckold life. She would snap multiple guys nudes and she would start to like being dominant in the bedroom telling me who she was going to fuck next.
This kind of got a bit out of hand to the point where she starting flirting heavily with a guy I truly did not like. I told her not to do anything with him and not to even text him. She knew how to work a guys mind. We would have sex and she would get into my head calling me his name and snapping him pictures of her waist up while I was eating her out. This is when I slowly started to get turned off by the idea of cuckolding. This whole cuckold lifestyle lasted probably 3-4 years before I had an ounce of regret. I basically begged her not to do anything with him. I voiced my opinion to her a few times and she didn’t care. Luckily, they actually never had sex because he lived 3 hours from us. However, they flirted SO much to where my wife and I basically took a “break” during our marriage. She had developed feelings now for this guy. My wife and I stopped sleeping together, stopped having sex, and just basically put a pause on our marriage. To make things worse, she was the one who initiated the break. I basically was holding on by a thread. It was a terrible month of a break. There were lots of therapy session. I finally kind of put my foot down and started sleeping with her again and trying to hang out with her even during our break, as that is what my therapist told me to do. She didn’t like it and kind of shoved it in my face Facetiming this same guy in bed when I was sleeping next to her.
That break in our marriage was about 3 years ago. I’m not 100% sure what made her come around, but she eventually did. She had stopped all communications with that guy on the last week of our break. She apologized sincerely and we did a lot of couples therapy to work through everything. We haven’t had an ounce of cuck talk or desire for cucking for 3 years. It is a bit odd though, my wife is still dominant in bed so I have learned to like that lol, but nothing cuckold related. However, a couple of nights ago we were both very high and very drunk and we started fucking and idk what hit me something triggered in my head to maybe push for cuckolding again. So, I started talking dirty to her like I used to and she started doing it back. I think it has something to do with her being dominant now that is bringing me more to my submissive tendencies. She would say things like “I bet deep down you still want me to fuck other guys.” Or, “God you’re pathetic and I need a man who can fuck me better.” Whenever we both came we both said we would not go down that road again, so I guess we’ll see. You think I would have learned my lesson. Lol! Someone please tell me not to go down that road again.
TLDR: My wife cheated on me and it turned into a cuckold relationship two different times. Both times she almost left me for the guy. Now, 3 years later nothing cuckold related is happening, but when my wife is super dominant in bed we both start imagining starting it up again. I don’t really want to start it up again and neither does my wife, truly, but the temptation is starting to consume me a bit and I may make a dumb decision and bring it up.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wgore7/cheating_wife_100_true_story_mfm