[MF] I wanted to let my girlfriend live out her fantasy and it turns out praise dom works perfectly with orgasm denial

So my (20’sM) girlfriend (20’sF) has in the past told me that she is into orgasm denial and dom / sub dynamics but never experienced it before. So this experience is something I wanted to give to her. But I could not see myself as a mean or strict dom. Instead I would see me trying to be a praise dom, to be encouraging and give praise while still being dom. I was j sure how well praise dom and orgasm denial would work, but it turns out that praise dom works 100% well with orgasm denial and I wanted to write down and also share my first experience with it.

So in the morning we were cuddling and making out in bed. I love to give massages as a “before foreplay” activity. I gave her a long back rub, and when I started to rub her legs I gently let my hand slide up her thigh, slowly but surely moving it closer to her crotch with each rub. After some 30 minutes of gently massaging her back, legs and gently teasing her by brushing my hand against her pussy, I grabbed her favorite little vibrator. I softly asked her to spread her legs for me, to just relax, and let me take care of her. I turn the vibrator on. and place it against her pussy while with my other hand continuing to rub and massage her body. She starts to moan as I apply more pressure on the vibrator while kissing and biting her lower back and butt. After a while I can tell she is getting closer and closer to orgasm as her breaths and moaning picks up. Her body starts to tense up and I can tell she’s close to cumming. I turn off the vibrator and look her in the eyes and say:

“Oh.. did you think you were allowed to cum?” I said teasingly.

Her jaw dropped and I could tell she was not expecting me to say that, and I could see the mixture of excitement and frustration in her eyes and body language. I asked her to sit up in bed, and I grabbed a rope made out of silk and gently tied her hands behind her back. I placed myself behind her and let her sit in my between my legs while resting her head against my chest. I then continued to play with the vibrator while she was sitting tied up in my lap.

I don’t know for how long I edged her, time really disappeared when she was sitting in my lap, legs spread and hands tied behind her back when I continued to deny her the pleasure her body was craving for over and over. I repeatedly told her what a good girl she was for not cumming, teased her for how frustrating it must feel to be so close to the edge and how proud I was that she was giving up her pleasure for me. But we couldn’t lay in bed all day, so I had to stop. As I got up of bed I said,

“I would be so proud of you if you didn’t cum today”.

“That’s not fair!” She replied.

“I know.. but for my sake?” I said while giving her forehead a kiss.

“Okay.., this is really really hot, but much harder then I thought, but I will try” she made the most frustrated facial expression and you can clearly tell that her mind was really begging for release at this point.

Now the entire day she tried to get me to touch her, rub against my leg or my hand. It was so hot, seeing her frustration, how she was craving my touch but still didn’t give in to the pleasure for my sake. She repeatedly mixed between telling me how hot this was, but also how mean I was. But I must admit I did tease her, it was just too fun, seeing her squirm and whine in frustration when I touched her for just a few seconds before stopping. And as the hours went she got more and more frustrated, I even had to give her a firm spanking at one point because she wouldn’t even let me make one phone call.

At one point I had to run an errand, and when I was sitting on the chair in the hallway, tied my shoes, she once again tried to get me to rub my hand against her crotch. Instead I told her to sit on her knees, and I gently rubbed the tip of my shoe against her crotch, slowly back and forth, she was moaning and I just got so turned on by imagining the frustration that was pent up inside of her, how it reached to a point where she was even happy to be on her knees rubbing against my shoe for pleasure and stimuli. It was so addictive and hot that I had to undress my pants and start touching myself in front of her there in the hallway when she was rubbing against my shoe. I repeatedly told her what a good girl she was, rubbing against my shoe but not cumming. After a few minutes I really had to run, so I went down on my knees, gave her swollen and frustrated clit and pussy a few kisses before putting her panties on again, giving her butt a spank and telling her that I will see her in a few hours and she had to promise not to cum when I am gone, otherwise I would have to punish her when I got back. She was jumping up and down out of frustration, and tried to make me stay. I simply said no, that I had to run, and reminded her to be a good girl for me while I was gone.

When I came home again she was so proud when she told me that she had not had an orgasm, she admitted to being very close to just touching herself but still managed to not do it for my sake. I was so happy and turned on that we had the most amazing sex afterwards and I have never seen someone have such a strong orgasm before.

Afterwards we were laying in bed and cuddling agains and just discussing the experience and how we both thought it was so hot and exciting. It turns out that I am also really turned on by orgasm denial and I guess I am just really turned on by her frustration? This has really been an eye opener for me and we will definitely explore this further.

I would love to hear your input or experiences when exploring orgasm denial in the beginning, we are both quite new to this stuff. So any own stories or ideas of how we can explore it further! Or if you have experience of any pitfalls that one should

Hope you have a great day!!

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/wfzpr7/mf_i_wanted_to_let_my_girlfriend_live_out_her