I work in a coffee shop. It’s relaxed and most of us are around the same age and I’d say very open. The professional boundaries are a lot looser than most places. People confide in me/each other about relationship and sexual type issues/pursuits.
To cut a long story short – I showed a colleague (m28) my Reddit page. He was expressing recently receiving kink-based stuff from FWB, vividly describing what he’d been sent. He then asked if I sent stuff to guys I talked to.
I don’t believe he’s familiar with Reddit and I loaded my profile without him seeing and scrolled for around 10-15 seconds. Then quickly put my phone in my pocket.
He was speechless and then asked to see the page again. I joked and said I’d maybe show him another time, so I don’t think he knows how to access the page.
He shared kind compliments about my back muscles and ass. I told him he was handsome and had an impressive physique. There was sexual tension. We got busy with customers after that and the conversation ended.
Part of me regretted it, however, the bigger part of me feels incredibly sexually liberated. I don’t know where this will go from here, if anywhere, but either way, I haven’t had a thrill like that in some time.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/w8yq45/f_32_in_a_conversation_about_sexual_self
Not sure how you feel about having personal relationships at the work place but, if I were the guy I’d love to follow someone from work on reddit or see their content. I personally wouldnt pursue anything sexual with my co worker unless it was mutual but I’d be so turned on by the fact that I have access to such content that no one else at work does. Definitely masterbation worthy.
I bet it is sexually liberating to expose that part of yourself to people you spend 40 hrs a week with. I’ve had fwb relationships with former coworkers, never while we worked together. They all know I’m in the lifestyle though, I just usually don’t fish at work for free of drama. I wouldn’t regret it if I were you, it’s who you are. Nice that you own it. 💋
Fuck. I want to be your coworker. Your ass and back muscles are incredible.
That’s one of the most liberating things. Bravo for showing him!
Good on you for feeling secure enough to show him! I hope that the part of you feeling liberated only continues to grow. By the way, I love your name and profile picture. Probably the most apt ever.