My wife and I waited for marriage and quickly discovered she suffered from really intense vaginal pain. We thought it was vaginismus, but after seeing several different doctors, a specialist eventually diagnosed it as vestibulitis. That presents a very different problem because it is a nerve issue on the vagina entrance causing secondary vaginismus. The same treatments help the muscles relax but the nerve pain never goes away, so although she can get things in there, it is not enjoyable. Surgery is likely the only thing that would truly fix it. We mostly gave up on sexual activity for a long while and she’s still a PIV virgin (had to do IVF to have our kid for this and other reasons).
Now my wife is very feminine and “girly” and the classic looking “good girl.” You know, the type who just looks like she would not be up for being very adventurous in bed. No surprise that she’s pretty reserved sexually (admittedly I was too when we got married). Ironically, I figured out over the years that I have a butt fetish and would rather have her ass than vagina. I was way too scared to confess that to her though and just knew she would be totally against back door stuff. Eventually my curiosity got the better of me though, and I worked up the nerve to ask about anal as an alternative. I was promptly shot down. She told me she had zero interest and thought it was nasty. I was very disappointed but what can you do. I respected her preference.
A couple of years ago though, everything changed. One morning she was laying on her stomach with her butt sticking out in white bikini panties. My wife is tall, blonde, and thin, but still has a really cute (and surprisingly big for her frame) ass. I reached over and massaged it for a while and leaned over to kiss it. She giggled and I could tell she was enjoying the attention, so I kept going. I kissed it all over and decided to see if she was open to going further. My heart was pounding as I slowly pulled her panties down and kissed her bare ass. Again, no complaint. So I worked my way down with kisses to her butthole and gave it a quick kiss and lick. I asked her if I could keep going and she said it was fine. The next thing I knew, I was eating her ass.
My mind raced and my brain could barely process what was happening. I had never been so turned on in my life. I was in utter shock that she was letting me have her butt. I figured anal intercourse had very low odds but rimming had less than zero so it was blowing my mind. The taste and smell of her ass drove me absolutely wild. Her cute little asshole seemed made for my tongue. I just prayed it wasn’t a one time stroke of good luck. I kept going while jerking myself and absolutely exploded when I came. Neither of us said a word about what had happened.
I feared it was a one time thing, but it happened again in a similar way a couple of weeks later. As it continued to happen, I could tell she really started to enjoy it and liked how it drove me wild (although she was too shy to say it). Her ass quickly became the focus of our sex life and we both got comfortable talking about butt stuff. Most of our sexual activity now consists of me asking if it’s a good butt night, or her just straight up telling me she wants it, giving her a good rimming/fingering, and then her finishing me. She even started looking to kiss me when I’m done. I don’t do anything with her vagina nor do I care to.
I’ve reassured her several times I’m game if she does want to try for anything vaginal again or for me to do anything else for her sexually (which is true, I’m not opposed to it, just indifferent) as I want her to have whatever she desires. She’s never asked for anything else though.
Then, last Friday night, the hottest thing in my life happened. That was a motivation for posting the full story here. As I’ve said, I absolutely lust after her ass and rimming it. When I eat her ass it’s usually right before bed or occasionally first thing in the morning (although that is way more difficult post-kids). It’s almost always dark and under the covers. Last night right after the kid went down, I mentioned I had been so horny all day. She said “well you can definitely have my butt tonight” to which I gave a huge grin. Then she said the hottest thing she’s ever said: “or you can have it right now if you want.” I said really? And she said sure. She has never been the “sex during the daylight hours” type at all (action always happened before bed or first things in the morning), so I was so beyond thrilled. It was so out of left field and brazenly sexual coming from her.
I followed her up to the bedroom and she promptly laid on her stomach and pulled her panties off, showing off her bare ass in the full light. Incredible doesn’t even begin to describe it. Getting to fully view her perfect butt and cute asshole as I kissed and licked it was mind blowing. I was able to really get in there and tongue fuck her the best I’ve ever been able to do, which was amazing. She kissed me deeply when I was done and finished me off, and I definitely came the hardest I’ve ever come in my life.
Last night, I told her I couldn’t get what happened out of my head and how it was so incredibly hot. I reassured her again that if she wants to do anything else sexually though, to please let me know. I could tell she was feeling guilty and seemed to think I was pushing her to put more work in on the vaginal issues again. That gave me the opportunity to finally confess to her that I am satisfied sexually as long as I can have her butt and do not care whether we ever do anything vaginal. I could feel the relief wash over her as she laughed and said “well I can definitely give you that.”
This past year we’ve broken down so many sexual barriers and hangups that we both had coming into marriage. We still haven’t done PIA as the last time I asked her she said reiterated that she thought it was dirty. That was many months back and our comfort with butt stuff has grown leaps and bounds since then. It’s possible we may break through that barrier one day, but I certainly respect her boundary. Hopefully a story for a future time though! For now, I’m just thrilled that I managed to somehow luck my way into turning my (technically still a virgin) wife into my little butt slut.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/vw3cpf/my_m_wife_f_the_virgin_butt_slut
Buy her a plug to use on her own.
Does she cum from rimming? Seems like you should be able transition to PIA after she cums a couple times and is relaxed. Pain has been an issue for her so don’t forget to use plenty of lube