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  2. If your nose is touching his belly button you’re doing a good job!

  4. Sloppy, get your hand mouth and his cock and balls completely coated in spit. take time to appreciate the balls, change up the pace abd intensity and enjoy it

  5. Do it in the mirror, check yourself out and be confident. Or buy a dildo and practice, or ask a neighbor…..Are we neighbors?!

  6. 1. play with the Penis head of the lucky man,
    2. Strong suction (if he likes)
    3. Eye contact
    4. Begging for his cum
    5. Touch yourself so that your really moan on his cock
    6. Licking the underneath of his shalf at times
    7. Actually enjoying your time sucking his

    And if you’re feeling extra naughty and kinky

    5. Place his hands in your hair and let him control the pace and depth. This is my fav thing to do. Kneel down with his hands in my hair, and begging for degrading use while addressing him as “sir”

    Hope it helps!!

  7. Enthusiasm is key.
    Next, pay attention to his reaction. Try lots of different things and go with what works.
    Finally, Practice. If you don’t have a guy to practice on, a dildo can help you with your gag reflex and technique.

    A few other things to try.

    Start with running your tongue over his cock, balls, and genital area, to find the sensitive spots. An important one is usually on the underside just below the head.

    Use your hands, your jaw will get tired. Your throat produces nice slick saliva. Coat his cock in throat spit and start stroking.

    Don’t be afraid to let your teeth touch his cock. As long as you are not biting down on his cock it should be ok.

    Squeeze the head between your tongue and the roof of your mouth, apply some suction and bob your head up and down.

    Tell him what a nice dick he has.

    You have nice large breast, let them rub against his inner thighs as you work on his cock.

    Once he gets close, keep doing what you’re doing if you want to cum. Change the pace if you want to torture him.

    Be creative and have fun.

  9. Finish him with your mouth. When he starts to cum keep sucking, don’t stop until he pushes you off his dick. Then swallow every last drop. I’ve had a couple women that used this method and it is always a mind blowing finish.

  11. Def enthusiasm. It’s a form of art so enjoy it.
    Eye contact. Look up into his eyes. Hand movements are also key.

  13. Eye contact ( enthusiasm ), playful tongue, really WANTING his cum

  16. Whatever he wants it to be. You gotta ask him or go through the chore of making a list of everything recommended and going down the list with “did you like that? is this better or worse, OK first one or the third one” and you wind up sounding like a goddamn optometrist.

    If you want to remove his soul through his penis, then you are either have to experiment a lot or just flat out ask him what he likes. Tell him to give you guidance. If he likes something he will tell you. He will tell you what he dislikes even faster.

    I am afraid all this sex stuff seems to boil down to communication. How weird is that? Yeah, it is weird. If I was better at that part I probably would get an occasional blowjob. Hell, I haven’t had any physical contact with a woman for almost two years now. Because I am a shitty communicator and therefore not a great partner. So take my ramblings with a big old block of salt.

  17. Finding the sweet spot under the head of the penis.

    Hold the skin down at the base of the penis to keep the skin tight at the top to increase sensitivity

  18. Effort, enthusiasm and enjoyment giving a BJ to the point it’s cock worship make for great BJs. There’s a huge difference when someone enjoys giving versus perfunctory going through the motions.

    Don’t forget the balls.
    Coordinated hand and mouth motions
    Frenulum is often a key spot
    Eye contact
    Provide a variety to keep things fresh

    There are several books with lots of techniques described, exercises to build strength and stamina, including learning how to deep throat and face fuck. “Tickle his pickle” and “Blow him away” books are both pretty good.

  19. You will find that men have differences in what they like/don’t like. For me, I like a lot of variation, don’t do the same thing over and over.

    I will say that a woman can can do so many things with different combinations of lips, tongue, suction, throat, and genuine enthusiasm. All of them are amazing.

  20. I really like a finger teasing my anus during a bj. Also having my balls firmly held/squeezed a little. Some guys might hate this but damn does it do it for me.

  21. Most advice above is great. I would add to remember that it isn’t all about the part when his dick is in your mouth. It is also about the kissing and licking around his dick, balls, and thighs to drive him crazy. Mixing that in with sucking will drive him crazy. Swirling his head and licking the tip. My wife will zig zag her way up my shaft and it is amazing. If you can make it down to his base, try licking his balls while his dick is in your mouth.

    Moaning or even cumming while you give a blow job is extremely hot, and, not to be repetitive, but enthusiasm really makes it.

  22. As above…enthusiasm. I want to know you love sucking me like I do going down on you. We can fell the desire and passion! Obviously, there are skills to learn…the pace, slow at first like a massage with your mouth, then going faster at the right time. You have to learn to know when. That comes from experience and reading where he is at. Use your hands. One of the best I’ve had grabbed the base of my cock like a cockring. It made it harder, but also gave me the feeling like this cock was her’s at this moment, and she wanted it more than anything! I’ve only had the one girl do that, and it was amazing. You can squeeze harder than you think. Look me in the eyes and own my dick! Faster isn’t always better. Tease and edge. If you can figure out the timing, you are going to be amazing. The most sensitive spot is near the head, but don’t ignore the rest. You don’t have to deep throat (though that’s nice) but focus near the top. I’ve found that most go too aggressive because they think that’s what we want, but slow is nice. Think of it like a massage for the penis.

  25. Do it in front of a mirror where he can see your ass and pussy while you suck him.

  26. Taking your time to get well aquainted.

    The first time I tried this, we were watching something on tv that was boring me, so I whispered in his ear “I’m a bit bored. Is it ok if I play with your cock for a little while?” He gave me this funny smirk and just nodded. That “little while” lasted about 2hrs. I just stroked, squeezed, licked, sucked, blew very gently all over and then just under the head, stop/started, gobbled up, spat on, dribbled on … basically I just got well acquainted. I listened to the way he was breathing, any moans, any indicaters that he was enjoying (or sometimes not) what I was doing. I basically just focused on his genitals and forgot he was there. At one point I looked up at him, and realised he was watching me. I grinned with his cock still stuffing my face and my fingers lightly tapping his balls and he said he nearly came then and there!

    I think he appreciated the fact that I was 100% focused on what I was doing and happy to do it.

    Plus, ask him what he likes. Every man is different.

  27. Make it sloppy. Make all the noises too, look him in the eyes, be as enthusiastic as possible. When you need a break from sucking wank him off. And if you can deepthroat, do it.

  30. if you’re “all ears” you’re using the wrong body part..

  31. Think of the blowjob as a massage, you have your lips, your tongue, your hands, your throat if you’re willing, use them. Depth is good but that’s not what makes a good blowjob.

    Most important: enthusiasm. Get your acting talents out and make them believe they’re doing YOU a favor by letting you suck their dick. Think of their dick like your most favourite desert that you haven’t eaten in years.

    And don’t ignore the balls.

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