I’ve always been faithful, and at this moment, I still am. I have an amazing gf, but I recently learned that I have an enormous cheating kink. I was approached by a girl I know that told me she wanted me. She said she liked that I was fit, and had heard that I was well endowed. Although I turned her down, I found the offer incredibly arousing and exciting. I said no because I couldn’t do it, but also, I wasn’t really too interested in her. Had it been a girl I was more attracted to, who I knew wouldn’t end up telling anyone, I would’ve had a tougher time saying no.
Simply put, I find the wrongness of being with someone you’re not supposed to to be an amazing turn on, especially if it’s also behind someone’s back. My recent search history has confirmed this for me, to the point where this might be a life changing discovery for me. I have the desire to cheat, and probably not just once.
I could go into great detail about the hottest cheating scenarios I now want to become a reality for me.
So far, I haven’t said or done anything. All my thoughts have stayed in my head, but the question remains.
I’m looking for advice and opinions from anyone. Guys, girls, those who have cheated and those who haven’t. I’m very curious and I can’t really talk to anyone I know about this. Feel free to message me.
Thanks.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/v21hee/32_m_cheating_advice
If you’re thinking about it… You’re already cheating 😂🤣😂🤣. If you don’t believe me, then ask your SO🧐
Don’t do it!!!!
Not to be the part pooper… I find the most exciting, for me is when I get picked up @ the Club or while on a massage table. The thrill of not having to make a commitment. No dinner and/or drinks… Just pure lust🤪
Wanderlust is one of the most common shared human experiences. You might be classifying it as a kink to somehow justify it as your “sexuality”, and so externalize blame.
Cheat if you’re going to cheat, but don’t kid yourself about what it is.
Do your gf a solid and dump her. The emotional shit you’re going to put her through is fucking cruel. Then go fuck the other girl. It’s not a kink, you’re just wanting your cake and eat it too. Tell your gf you want an open relationship because you want to fuck other girls.
If you can’t do that, that will show yourself for who you actually are.
Maybe a threesome is in order.
I used to cheat and find a sick thrill in it. Then I found a man I was madly in love with. He made everything in my soul so bright. We were together for three years and engaged when he cheated on me. Ironically enough he was the first person I never cheated on. It hurt so freakin bad getting a taste of my own medicine and I never did it again. Today I am faithfully with my spouse of 7 years. I could not fathom cheating on them and watching the tears run down their face. How cruel it would be to hurt a person that truly cares about you just to fulfill your 20 minutes of lust. Do your poor girlfriend a favor and either break up with her or ask for an open relationship. You cannot keep a stable relationship and fulfill your desires of ruining it at the same time.