I’ve always been an exhibitionist. To me, there’s something powerful about making yourself vulnerable and exposed, and it’s one of my biggest turn-ons. I’ve let dozens of women see me naked, wearing panties, masturbating, or some combination of all three. But it was always a bucket list item to do so in front of a larger crowd of people.
Fast forward from my previous story on this sub from about four years ago. I wear panties daily, and probably have more pairs than my wife does. Sometimes we shop together and she makes suggestions for me (as a sub, she never outright makes a demand). Our sex life is amazing because we communicate and try new things. I had brought up my fantasy of being so exposed in a public place, going so far as to research a local dungeon for us to go to where something like that would be legal, safe, and fun. We talked for probably a good hour or two about it all. She wanted to understand what turned me on about exhibition, and to read reviews and vet the place for herself. As their website spelled out how seriously they take consent, I also promised her I wouldn’t so much as ask her to try anything she felt uncomfortable with.
Ultimately, she agreed to give it a try. We found an under 40 night on their calendar, which made her more comfortable, and we made plans to go out on Saturday (two days ago). The morning of, I laid out a few pairs of panties I was considering and asked for her opinion. We eventually chose a [lavender high-leg string bikini from Pink](https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/pink/panties-catalog/pink-high-leg-string-bikini-panty-1119891900?brand=pink&collectionId=0c3271bb-3ae2-4950-a329-1c9b06716617&limit=180&priceType=regular&productId=486c10e6-608f-4934-98be-2e99f74e66cb&stackId=e4069e28-279e-462f-a133-108d6d66d69c&genericId=11198919&choice=5HP8) that ends up being extremely cheeky. She puts on matching black underwear despite not planning to remove any clothing or participate. More of a just in case she decided to, or to feel more confident wearing something nice.
We arrive around 9 and fill out the membership paperwork, pay our dues, and rent a locker. I was surprised to see not only the woman renting lockers was wearing only a bra and thong, but another girl in the lobby was already topless, wearing only a lacy hot pink thong and a harness. I was expecting I would need to take a lap around the place before disrobing, but seeing two people already nearly nude before even entering the dungeon itself gave me the confidence to dive right into the deep end. We went straight to the locker room to drop off a towel we had brought and I said to my wife, “Well, I didn’t come all this way not to do it.” I stripped off everything but those lavender panties, put my clothes and shoes in the locker, and we made our way into the main dungeon.
Someone was finishing up a presentation that we missed, and going over the rules one more time. We stood in the back, as all of the seats were full. The presentation ended, and everyone packed up the chairs to clear the dungeon floor. My heart was pounding. There had to be close to 100 people here, all of which were about to see me (a 6’4” man, built like an offensive lineman) wearing nothing but panties.
Before all the chairs were even put away, someone was being spanked in a side dungeon. People were practicing whip skills in another. It was culture shock for sure, but this is what I came to experience, and I was every bit as turned on as I thought I’d be.
Most of the night was just walking around, watching scenes, and getting a feel for the environment. We agreed fairly early on that the vibe was good, and it was nice to see a lot of variation in body shapes and looks, and we for sure would come back another time and my wife would want to be more involved. Most of the people undressed to varying degrees were women. I saw one guy wearing tight boxer briefs and another wearing a jockstrap, but no one else wearing panties. Oh well, I stood out.
After about an hour and a half, knowing we had about an hour still to drive home, we knew we had to wrap things up. We went back to our locker and grabbed the towel I had brought in, and looked for some space in a side dungeon. The room with the whips had two couches. One was occupied by another couple, the man in business casual attire and his wife in lingerie. We took the couch next to theirs and I made myself comfortable.
I put my arm around my wife and we started passionately making out to get the blood flowing. I stuck my hands down my panties and started rubbing and stroking my cock. When I felt comfortable enough, I pulled it out into the open and started stroking. What an amazing rush to masturbate in a public place. I quietly asked her if anyone else was watching. She told me yes and I kept going. Wanting to give my wife some fun and some control, I told her to tell me when to finish. She gave me a sly smile and went back to watching me jerk off in this room where anyone could see me from the doorway. After a minute or two, she told me to finish. I stroked harder and faster, and it didn’t take long before I shot a massive load on my chest and abdomen, the second burst nearly going over my left shoulder.
I wiped myself off with the towel, made sure I didn’t leave anything behind on the couch or wall, and we went back to the locker to gather our things and for me to get dressed. Once we were back in the car, my wife told me a few people had walked in and out and had seen me masturbating, but that the couple on the couch next to us had watched the whole thing. And it appeared to get them in the mood to play – while I was cleaning up, the man had started using a crank on the wall to lower a suspension device for themselves. I actually felt good in a sort of wholesome way that my devil may care attitude may have helped another couple out of their shell and given them the desire to have a wild night of their own.
All in all, it was a 10/10 experience. Easily the craziest and sexiest thing I’ve ever done. Next time, I’ll wear a sexier (maybe satin, mesh, or lace instead of cotton) or otherwise more revealing pair of panties, and maybe get the Mrs to test her boundaries a little.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/uvzun3/my_m35_wife_f31and_i_check_off_another_sexual