[MF] A Married Life Experience [Part 5?] What happened last night

8:30 last night. 

I went out for a walk, sitting watching the NFL Network and NY Jets youtube Jake Azman vids just isn’t distracting enough. 

No text from her yet.  It’s been over an hour and a half already 

What happened on the date

After 22 years of marriage, there is definitely a level of trust that has been built up and is very hard to break.  And, the marriage no longer is about me and her but instead is about US.  Sounds cheesy but it’s true. 

For a long time I was the nice guy beta male. Being kind and gentle but also hiding and concealing a part of myself from my wife.  A big part of that was addictive use of porn.   For a while it got in the way of our relationship. But, I experienced something a while back that shifted things in me.  She has a lot to do with that healing. I started to earn more money too.  A lot more 200K + a year when years past I was only making 70k.  

Needless to say, with bigger responsibilities at work came a bigger feeling of manliness. A gradually began to feel the shift from beta male to alpha male.  I read books on the topic, listened to podcasts.  Really immersed myself to the point that I truly believed it. 

This brings me to the subject of this week.

The fantasy that I carried around with me  took up real estate in my head for almost two decades.  As I started feeling more Alpha, I began taking charge of our sex life.  At that point, we were in our 40s we were having the best sex of our marriage. And it only got better and more connected.  No more secrets, I came clean on the porn addiction years earlier, went to counseling, etc ..

I say all this because this is what it took for me to realize that I did not want to go to my grave never having experienced the fantasy, ecstasy and sexual high that I knew our marriage was capable of. 

I had dropped hints here and there over the years but it took some growth and feeling alpha for me to finally come out and tell her what I wanted.

it took a few weeks of buttering her up.  For Our afternoon delight sessions I started telling her what we’re going to do.  I had different things planned at different times. All low pressure and without expectation. But, my favorite by far was: we placed towels down on our bedroom floor.  Enough that we felt comfortable sitting naked on them. We sat criss cross like a pretzel and talked, caressed, kissed, etc…. Sometimes we played couples board games. 

The time that sparked everything was when we were sitting like that and I told her that I want to share our fantasies. That’s when it all eventually came out and things unfolded.  I shared my fantasy.

I told her that there was no pressure and to just think about it.  I basically gave her the keys to her imagination and allowed her to fantasize about the idea.  Wonder what goes through a woman’s head when their spouse says you have permission to fuck other men.

I never asked her if she would be interested in having sex with other men, instead I TOLD her that I WANTED her go out on a date with another man and then she can tell me if she liked it or not.  We could take it from there.  

She took her time and I was hoping that by getting a job she would feel more independent and valued.  She did and then some. We are in our 50s.  I keep saying that because it’s easy to forget while reading this.  I imagine many of you, who are in your 20s and 30s are placing your own moral compass and boundaries on my narrative.  I’ve read the comments, I understand but please understand that I love my wife and I know that she loves me more.  We are a team.  We are more deeply connected than ever before.

Ok, on to what happened last night.

It was insane. I left work not knowing what to expect; simultaneously wanting and not wanting extreme things to happen. 

When I got home, she had already left. I expected that. She texted when she got to the restaurant but then silence. No text or call for over two hours.

I was DM-ing with a few REDDIT readers while all this was going on.  They were basically keeping me company and sane.  My nerves were on high alert.  I had some bourbon and a six pack handy too. That helped.  My hand was also on my dick at times, the intense erotic overload proving to be more than I was prepared for.

I thought that 2 hours was a long time to eat dinner. I wasn’t sure what was going on. She finally texted but only after  they got to his place.  He lives in walking distance to the restaurant they chose.  

I asked her about the long dinner and essentially asked about what they’re going to do now.  I may have dropped the word naughty in there  She texted me, teased me and said that they were already naughty at the restaurant. Smile facewink…  a pulse of horny electricity shot through me  That’s why it took longer than usual. She said.  I thought she maybe meant touching under the table.  I was wrong.  

Apparently, she coaxed him into going to the women’s bathroom with her.  They went into a stall.  She later sent me a selfie of her sitting on the closed toilet.  Then she told me had another pic to share from the women’s bathroom but first warned me that I should be prepared.  That she could be very naughty.

I told her I was prepared and to pleas send it. This kind of sexual teasing and text play was a big part of the experience after all 

She sent it.  She was squated on the floor in front of him in the stall. His dick was out and it was hard. She was gripping it in her hand and her mouth was pressed up against it. Kissing it. Getting ready to put it in her mouth.  OMG. I couldn’t fucking believe it.  She even had a flirty smirk on her face too 

It was for real now.  She sucked his cock in the women’s bathroom. Turns out that she instigated it too, not him.  She was the horny one. 

She went on to text me how thick it was.  And how much she loved feeling it. L

I jerked off to completion within a minute of seeing that pic. I couldn’t believe how erotic it was.  She was being so naughty and it was the hottest thing I’ve ever experienced.  Someone I was DMing asked how I feel and I replied that it’s like needing to puke and jerk off at the same time. 

Unbelievable night so far 

Then she texted about him and his place. Said he was very Bohemian. Kind of like you imagine someone may be who’s really into yoga, tantra and the whole Eastern philosophy of body, mind and spirit.  Said his apt was very dim. Red and green lighting. Very viby.  I know the type.  Women love that type. I think if guys like Sting, for instance. I was still in shock over the blowjob in the bathroom as she was telling me this. I couldn’t believe this was all really happening.  That it was my wife who was doing it.  To see that mature face juxtaposed with his youthful dick. 

Then she said that he’s going to show her some tantric yoga and I may not hear from her for a while.  True to her word,  I didn’t. It was close to midnight when I got the next text from her. 

I continued chatting with guys from the group, sharing my thoughts about the night, about the insanity of how things were unfolding.  If they thought she was fucking him. Etc…

The thought hit me that she could be moaning out loud, her head back and making an O face as his dick was pounding her pussy right at this very moment.  

Turns out that I was pretty much right.  Based on what she shared with me  They got naked together and rolled around on his bed kissing. She later told me that he is beautiful and sexy. Said that she can’t wait to feel his cock in her. 

She eventually sent me photos that he took of her. Said he actually took video and she took screenshots of it to send me. 

Honestly, she looked so beautiful.  It was dark though and a little hard to see the pics clearly. 

A photo of her lying down on the edge of the bed reaching forward and holding his dick as he stood at the foot of the bed. It was like she was getting ready to guide it in to fuck.

Another selfie of him still standing at the edge of the bed Her legs spread and his dick clearly in her.  Again was dark And I couldn’t actually see it but I could tell What was going on.

Another pic of her face while she was getting fucked. It was obvious that that’s what was happening and I completely lost it. Her face was all scrunched up, her mouth open in something between pain and ecstasy.  I came within seconds. I couldn’t contain it.

I’ve never felt so horny.  My stomach was in knots. My groin ached with masculinity.  An incredible rush of hormones. More than I could handle.  More intense than anything I’ve ever known 

A few minutes later she sent a last pic of her head popping out from under the covers, gripping and kissing the head of his cock. 

I felt like I was sharing the moment and feelings with her. 

A little while later I texted her back about the plans for the night. .. it was raining out and she was about 15 blocks away. Other side of the highway.   We live near LaGuardia airport and the roads are very Y axis there. She was also exhausted.  She suggested that she stays the night and come home in the morning. 

I felt safe about that.   We spoke on the phone. Shared our amazement of the night.   She couldn’t believe that she fucked a much younger guy but I could tell that she was loving it. She kept asking how I was, if I was ok. 

I reassured her that I was and that I loved her; how amazing she is.  She said the same about me.

Then she thanked me for encouraging her to try this. She never realized how much she would love it.  She said it was so fun being naughty and she would love to do more of it. 

I wasn’t exactly sure what she meant by that.  But we will talk about it.  More of it with him or cast a wider net and try other men,,?

I haven’t heard from her yet this morning. It’s 9:20 AM as I’m writing this 

We shall see

As for me, I am very happy, horny and thrilled with how the night turned out.  I was really nervous at first to the point that I felt sick.  I still feel that way but it has eased up, especially because we texted throughout the night. I never felt in the dark or forgotten about 

I can’t wait to see her.  I hope we CAN Have reclaiming sex later butI I imagine that she fucked him a few times last night.  She may be sore. 

Gosh, it feels so weird talking about my wife fucking another man. Surreal.

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