[F] I (F45) had a secret affair for 8 months. It revitalized my sex life with my husband.

I want to tell the whole story some time, but right now I just need to get this off my chest. I’m a happily married mom 45yo whose sex life kinda dried up when we were in our late 30s. Small kids, careers, the usual. I’ve always been super against infidelity, but when I was 40 I ended up in a very intense affair with a younger (28) colleague at the school I teach at. It last 8 months and I managed to end it before any one found out.

I felt guilty and still do but the thing is, it completely reinvigorated my sex life with my husband. We’re happier now than ever. So it’s hard to say I regret it. Sometimes I miss it.

NOTE: I posted this initially on r/sluttyconfessions (I’m new at this reddit thing) but I now this this is a better place to tell this story. It’s going to be long. I want to use this forum as a place to examine my own choices, emotions, sensations and so on, and if it interests and/or turns on readers, great.

I’m always happy to entertain questions and conversation but only if it’s respectful and intelligent (that includes being respectful to my husband).

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/u336s1/f_i_f45_had_a_secret_affair_for_8_months_it

5 comments

  1. Life can be messy sometimes, but I’m happy this worked out the way it did!

  2. Looking forward to hearing more. I hope that you get the respect you deserve here.

  3. Did you mean to post this twice to the same sub? There’s a second one posted 39 minutes after this one.

  4. It you were in a open relationship it the story would turn me on.
    BUT
    Can’t wait to see a post from your husband in a couple years how he is having a secret affair with a younger more attractive woman with a firm body to suitand don’t know what to do.

  5. It’s tough but at times it’s what helps. Appreciate you and glad you’re happy 👍

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