I have been together with my bf for more then 3 years now, he is really loving and caring but the only problem is that he gets really jealous to the point where I had to delete my social media at the start of our relationship.
Recently he started asking me about sending him nudes ( since we both got a full schedule and don’t see eachother daily anymore) and I told him I’m not comfortable sending nudes through messages.
He agreed and I made a new acc on social media (somewhere where my nudes wouldn’t get saved automatically) and started using it normally (adding people, posting pictures and so on).
I haven’t gotten any male attention other than my boyfriends in a while so when I started getting compliments I liked it a lot to the point where I started sending more risqué pictures privately to people. Nothing too much, just pictures where you could clearly see my assets.
Well one guy started talking dirty to me and my submissive side took over and I started to really enjoy it. He started asking for nudes so I explained to him that I have a bf and I could and would never do that until he started offering me money.
I am low on money since I’m still a student, my bf barely makes enough so impulsively I accepted to sending him nudes on the daily if he pays me.
I felt really dirty, or I guess you could say slutty, doing it but I kinda liked it knowing that I could still turn someone on and all around feelings I haven’t felt in years.
Now I send nudes to different people daily, sometimes even when my bf is next to me.
I’m really conflicted. On one hand I feel bad for betraying my bf on the other hand I am kinda enjoying it. I still love my bf and would never think of cheating on him irl.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/tuf2ii/i_f_cheated_on_my_bf_for_money
So you sext to anyone for money.
So you are now a sex worker.
It won’t be long before it all turns physical with a ton of random guys.
Please be nice to your bf and tell him what is going on or leave him.
The lies, the deception and the total lack of respect for someone you claim to love is staggering.
Let him find a truly devoted and loyal partner that does actually love and care for him.
Except you are cheating “IRL” – take it from someone who knows… cheating is cheating. I’m not being high and mighty about it, just stating the fact.
Send me some samples and I can tell you by looking at them if it’s cheating or not. :)
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i would call this cheating but also — it sounds like he is wildly controlling. he made you delete your social media? that is not normal, healthy relationship behavior.
Eh technically cheating but bf sounds like an AH so probably you should keep doing this to get enough money saved up you can safely leave bf.
Wild the stuff women would do for attention… it’s not about money. It’s for attention.
The bf doesn’t sound great. To be honest. I mean you shouldn’t have sent nudes but at least you can and should cut off communications with that other guy. It sounds like it could lead to actual full blown cheating.
And normally I would suggest telling him that you had a moment of weakness and hope that he would be understanding and best case scenario kinda be into it for the money, but it sounds like he would lose his shit if he ever found out you were talking. It also sounds like you think your bf hasn’t found you attractive in a long time which is horrible.
I used to consider myself a jealous guy, but if this bf is just jealous then I am tame. Because yeah when I date a woman I hate other dudes hite on her or whatnot (granted it I dated a girl with an OF I would understand as long as I was the only man who got to be with her) but having you delete your social media because he doesn’t want you to be seen is some real bad behavior.
I see people talking about the bf being an asshole for making op delete social media…but she goes on and cheats on him, and it was only possible because of social media