First post here. I’m the male half of an open marriage and I’d like to tell some true stories.

This is kind of a therapy/kink thing for me, and I’m living sort of a secret life. I can’t talk to very many people about this stuff. My wife doesn’t like the gory details, even though we’re in an open marriage.

I’ll just start with my first encounter. Y’all can ask me anything after you read. I’m an open book. If I get a good response, I’ll write more. This stuff is true. So, I’m not going to sugar coat anything for drama. Names are changed, bla bla bla.

Every time I’ve gone out on a date outside of with my wife is VERY nerve racking. The first was probably the worst. I met this woman on Feeld. A dating app for non-monogamous people. Her name is Darla. We hit it off right away. Same age, both married, seemed to have a fair amount in common. She sent me a few naked pics and she was pretty enough. No smoke show, but that didn’t matter. My goal was to fuck someone who wasn’t my wife and she checked a lot of boxes.

She’s probably around 5ft 8in, in good shape, perky tits, and was down to fuck. We decided to meet for tacos and a couple beers in public to see if we were a match in real life. When I first met here face to face, I was REAL nervous. But she had some experience outside her marriage and knew what she was doing. Made it real easy on me. We chatted and had some beers and she invited me to her place, to which I agreed. She warned me her husband was home, but it was all good, not to worry about it.

When we arrived, he was in the kitchen doing dishes. It was weird and I was uncomfortable, but I rolled with it. He was nice enough and did some small talk with us. He agreed to go downstairs to watch a movie and made an off color joke about turning it up real loud so as not to hear us during our pending fuck session.

Darla ask me if I was ready to go to the guest bedroom. I wasn’t. I asked her if she just wanted to chill on the couch for a min while I got my nerves in check. I offered her a foot rub and she accepted. I rubbed her feet for 15 min or so and we small talked. She then signaled for us to get to the bedroom and I agreed. I followed her in, and I sat on the edge of the bed and she stood in front of me. She leaned down and we kissed for a short time and I started to rub her chest over her shirt and then under it. The moaning began. I couldn’t believe what I was doing. I was wondering what my wife was doing/thinking.

After a min of kissing and heavy petting, her shirt was off and my mouth was all over her chest. She asked me to nibble. So I teethed her nipples and neck. She loved it. She asked me if there was anything I wanted and I said, “do what you want, just don’t leave any marks.” She began to nibble a bit on my neck and eventually my pants were off and I was laying on my back on the bed.

She started to suck and lick my cock. I wasn’t even hard at first because I was so nervous. But I got there. She was pretty good at giving head. Once I was fully hard, she got after it pretty good. Deep throating, and moaning. She liked to be degraded and pushed around, and told me as much. So I grabbed her hair and pushed her face down on my cock hard. She moaned and choked a bit. And she asked for more. I basically face fucked her for 5 min. Called her a slut and a whore. She loved it.

After that, I moved between her legs. I licked her pussy as I did my wife’s many times, but didn’t really get much of a rise out of her. She let me have my fun, but it was pretty clear she didn’t like being eaten out. I still tried my best, and she played along.

After it was clear that wasn’t going anywhere I decided it was time to fuck. I grabbed a condom but I was soft again….nerves. She gladly sucked me until I was hard again, and I showed her no mercy. This time I was on my knees, and so was she. I fucked her mouth and she moaned like a slut until I was rock hard again.

I put on a condom and she was on her back, me on top. We fucked missionary for a few min and I nibbled on her neck while we started. I whispered in her ear how much of a whore she was and how only a total fucking slut would fuck some random guy in her guest bedroom while her husband was downstairs watching a movie. She ate it up. We did a few positions…me on top, her on top, her legs over my shoulders, doggy…noting too fancy. I was really having a difficult time staying hard. I hadn’t wore a condom in ages with my wife and I was a wreck from being nervous. But, I got the job done.

She liked to talk while fucking. Like, normal conversation stuff. I was ok with it, but it was weird/funny. To each their own, I guess. After a half hour of that, my condom was off and she was blowing me again. She looked up at me and said, “I really love cum, just so you know.” I took that as a hint. I let go and thrust in her mouth until I came. She deep throated me until I was done and getting soft in her mouth. She didn’t spill a drop. My wife doesn’t like cum in her mouth so that was a special treat for me.

After I gained my composure, I asked her if she had an orgasm yet. She said “no.” I asked her what I had to do to make that happen for her. She said “we can try, but you have to follow my instructions.” I got on my knees and she was on her back. She instructed me to finger her with two fingers…fast. I complied. I kneeled there for a good 5-10 min finger banging her as fast as I could while she rubbed her clit. I kept talking dirty to her. Calling her a slut and a whore, and she moaned and told me to keep going. Eventually she let out a loud moan and I could feel her vagina pulsing around my fingers. SUCCESS!

After that we had some small talk and she playfully told me to get the fuck out of her house. I laughed and was out the door within 5 min. It was a great first fuck without my wife in 20 years.

We met up a few more times before I made my way to a second woman, and I’ll gladly write about those encounters if I can.

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