Over the weekend, I (husband) had my first solo play experience. Its something my wife and I had talked about extensively to determine our comfort level. Truth be told, she was probably more comfortable with the idea of it than I was. There was a couple we’ve had several play dates with that we had great chemistry with. That couple had an open relationship where they each dated other people and it provided a great opportunity for us to dip our toes in the water of solo play with my wife out of town on a girls trip. The other husband and wife have their own dynamic going on that I don’t think it’s my place to dive into here but suffice to say it was okay with me going over to see her 1-on-1.
I reached out to the other wife who we’ll call K and she was similarly excited at the idea of having a date. The time got moved around a few times with her busy schedule but eventually landed on me going over to her place last Saturday evening. I spoke with my wife and set some ground rules including her not wanting me to stay the night, which I was fine with.
My friend had an order of marijuana ready for me that I’d been meaning to pick up, so on the day of, I drove over to my buddy’s to grab that and spoke with my wife one last time on the phone during the drive over just to touch base. Outside of K’s place, I hit my weed pen a few times to take the edge off and then knocked on the door.
She excitedly answered and led me into her apartment (which my wife and I had been in before on Valentines day) (that was great night!). I was quickly greeted by her giant bear of a dog who is a lovable winy baby begging for pets and attention. We sat on the couch, passing the weed pen back and forth and talked for about an hour about her busy crazy life and experience dating other people.
Eventually we both just locked eyes and both knew things were about to heat up. Our kissing started slow and smooth and then quickly picked up the pace in urgency and movement. She climbed on top of me and I ran my hand up her back and unclasped her bra in quick movement. Those quickly went flying off and I learned an hour-or-so later that she actually work a specific Lacey bra that she wanted to show me and I didn’t even get to see at first! Once I pulled her yoga pants, she excitedly turned around to grind against me and show off her thong which she knows I have a mild fetish for. The quick lap dance got me fully ready to go, as intended.
I tossed K down to the side of the couch and slid up on top of her to start at her head and kiss my way down her body until I landed at just her soaking panties. She’s a very tough cookie to crack, so it was really rewarding to bring her to climax with my tongue and fingers to get the evening really started. She eagerly swapped roles and go her knees in front of the couch to get my dick nice and wet. She does this with great enthusiasm, which in itself is sexy, but it made me think of my wife who is one of the only people who can put all of my into her mouth. It was then I got a little uncomfortable again thinking of my wife while hooking up with K and all of my anxiety around the situation came back up.
Thankfully I feel comfortable with K, and it was nice that we’ve both had sex with my wife, so it was easy to fold it into the dirty talk and we both excitedly talked about how we wished she was there with us and which positions and roles we wish she was in while K slipped the condom onto my dick and climbed onto my lap once again on the couch. She rode me there for a little bit and then leaned back to give me access to finger her clit while she grinded back and forth on me.
I picked up her and carried her over to the wall and then turned around to fully control her from behind. At first she supported herself with both hands against the wall and then started using one hand to finger her clit and supported herself with one hand. An idea came to my mind so I grabbed both of her arms arms and held them facing back towards me so that I supported her full weight as she leaned completely forward. She was literally dripping onto the floor, making a puddle, by the time her orgasm finally finished.
Our bodies were pretty exhausted at that point so we took a quick water break and then went to the bedroom to lay there for a minute and catch our breath and let our legs rest. After that I slipped another condom on and climbed on top of her. Her breathing and moans are always best when I’m on top of her with her legs fully up in the air and pillow under her hips, where I can fully push into her and she feels the full length of my dick. For the first time, we both came at the same time, her saying that it was my breathing and moaning that brought her to her peak.
Afterwards we laid there and cuddled for a bit and then moved back to the couch to eat snacks I had brought over and get some more water in us. I went to leave around 3am but realized I was still a bit too high to feel comfortable driving so we chilled and talked about some of our favorite sci-fi and fantasy books. I non-soberly tried explaining my favorite fantasy series in far too much detail but we had fun munching on pistachios and cookies until I finally felt comfortable driving home around 4am.
I got home safely and had a discussion with my wife the next morning. She was a bit upset I had stayed as long as I did, given that we talked about me not staying over but I tried to explain that I was just trying to be safe and not drive while high. We talked it through though and she was excited for me that I had a great night. As good of a night as it was though, I explained to her much I missed her there with me and that I probably wouldn’t pursue a solo playdate again. This all started with us wanting to experience this journey together and I really missed that portion of it. My wife was very understanding and supportive of the idea that next time, we can all get together as a group again. K is awesome though and my wife and I are so grateful to have met a friend like her through this journey!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/t501lp/mf_first_solo_play_experience_last_weekend