My friend (we’ll call her Mel) and I casually hooked up for almost 5 years. This time period happened while we were between ages 19 and 24. Around the time I turned 19, I had only started to thrive in my dating life. Newly out of my shell, I was keen on experimenting, and was very direct about not wanting a relationship. Around the time Mel turned 19, she was of a similar mindset, but she had been living this way for years up to that point. She had a “high school sweetheart” (her words) but was in an open relationship with him since she was 17.
Given that we had similar mindsets, our casual hookups became a steady part of our routine. Her high school sweetheart went to another school, so she would spend weekends with him. But during the week she spent her time sleeping around with a handful of guys at our school. We had university lectures together, so we’d spend long days on campus together. I picked up on the fact that I was her favorite hook up on campus given how much more time she’d spend with me compared to her other hook ups. She would make a point to make sure we hooked up amidst our really busy schedules. If we had breaks between classes she’d suggest we skip the library and go fuck. When her period tracker app showed her period was coming in roughly 5 days, she’d text me a screenshot and set aside time in the next couple days to fuck.
A few months into this arrangement, she decided to she wanted to focus on her relationship with her high school sweetheart. We ended things but kept in touch as we still had classes. She explained that she had enjoyed having casual sex for years, and wanted to transition into being in a steady relationship and building a future with someone. I knew I’d miss the sex but understood where she was coming from.
3 months went by before she told me she broke up with her high school sweetheart. We met to talk about what happened, and she explained why she had to leave. While I couldn’t help but wonder if we’d hook up again, I had no intention of making a move. Given the fact that she had so recently been through a break up, and I knew she was no longer looking for casual sex, I thought it was inappropriate to think about fucking her. We spent that day just talking, and the next day, she invited me over to continue chatting. The conversation ensued, but the energy was different this day. Then all of a sudden I was completely blindsided by her. While we were standing around in her kitchen talking about her feelings , she bent over her kitchen counter and said “I know a way you can make me feel better”. In hindsight, I can pick out little things she may have done or said that were signs she wanted sex. But in the moment, I was surprised. A lot went through my head, but it was all dominated by the fact that I knew I really wanted to fuck her. We had sex and continued hooking up for another 4-5 months.
It all stopped again when she met a guy that was 4 years older than us. Her last relationship fell apart because of her high school sweetheart’s immaturity. So naturally, she was enthralled with the idea of an older guy, and got into a relationship. This relationship lasted 9 months before she realized they had very little in common, and she was sticking around mainly because the sex was great. She broke up with him and continued to casually hook up with him. This breakup was a lot less emotionally charged, and she was very direct about wanting to fuck me. I noticed that this time around she was definitely kinkier. She was okay with me taking pictures of her naked, and even letting me record sex. She had a couple new positions she liked and even gave head better. I didn’t ask for details but I imagine this last relationship was an eye opening experience sexually.
She stopped hooking up with the ex boyfriend 6 months later because he gave her an ultimatum: either get back together or it’s over. She broke that off and she spent a brief time only fucking me. While she was only fucking me, she reached out to a guy that was in love with her early in high school before she met her high school sweetheart. They re-connected and she began to wonder if he was the guy she was supposed to date all along. By now you know the drill, we stopped hooking up and they started dating. Some added context here, I genuinely thought this was the end of us. The way she talked about this guy, she made him seem perfect for her. I also met another girl I was head over heels for.
My situation unravelled horribly, the girl I fell for decided to move back to her home country. I didn’t have Mel to make me feel better the way she had me. I couldn’t help but think about the amazing sex we could have been having to get my mind off heartbreak. Around this time while I very well could find a girl to fuck, I found myself watching our sextapes and masturbating. Lucky for me, it would only take another year before she broke up with the 3rd boyfriend. His parents were some of the worst people she’d ever encountered and he refused to go against them. This ruined any long term potential she saw, and she broke up with him.
We both knew what was gonna happen, and while she took her bra off the first time we fucked since the breakup, she said to me “are we going to just keep doing this?”. Just like last time, she came back a different person in bed. She grew interested in sex toys, things like vibrators, restraints, nipple clamps. The big new change was she lost her anal virginity to this boyfriend. We had plenty of new things to experiment with, and we’d make the odd trip to a sex store. On my birthday I fucked her ass for the first time.
We had our fun for a summer before her high school sweetheart hit her up presenting himself as a changed man. They gave it another go and started dating. She later told me that she felt like she needed to tell him about the sextapes she made and the fact that she lost her anal virginity. Apparently he was really bothered and would be passive aggressive about these things. The worst instance was when he found old pictures in her phone of her ass with bruises on it. She took the pictures to send to me, so I could see the aftermath of the spanks I gave her. He freaked out and berated her. He called her a slut, among other awful things. Naturally, she told him he crossed a line and that things were over.
I never understood how a guy that agreed to an open relationship could act like this. I suppose he wanted it to be open primarily to fuck other girls, thinking she wouldn’t find anything better than him. His arrogance is why his world came crumbling down the more he realized just how much she enjoys sex with other men. So this time, she made a point to fuck me that same night. While he was blowing up her phone trying to explain why he didn’t mean to call her a slut, I was giving her the dick she loved being slutty for.
This time when we were hooking up, neither of us were hooking up with anyone else. Things changed, it felt like we both let our guards down. She told me “sexually I’m in love with you”. She said during her last relationship there were times she’d think of me during sex. I told her about how I watched our sextapes after my break up and thought about when I fucked her through her first breakup, and then we made another one.
Not too long after this we began dating. It was nice to know I was the only one fucking her, we finally started fucking raw. Unfortunately the relationship didn’t live up to the sex. The reality is, we never identified eachother as romantic partners, and there were reasons for that. No amount of good sex could overcome those reasons. Things didn’t end badly, we tried to make things work but eventually she decided to pursue a masters and a phd in another continent. That prompted us to break up and go our separate ways.
Who knows what the future holds, but I think it’s genuinely the end this time. It’s for the best, we both crave stability at this point in life, and separately we have a chance to find it. Regardless of what the future holds, neither of us will forget the memories we made together.
TLDR: this story has too many little details to do a meaningful tldr beyond what the title says lol. However it’s very hot, so I’d suggest you give it a read.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ss9j2j/mf_i_was_my_friends_first_fuck_after_4_of_her
Great story! If you’re up for it, this could definitely be reposted as separate entries for each post break-up hook-up with Mel. I found myself wishing for more details. Thank you.
I enjoyed that! Thanks for sharing.