[FM] My husband and I tried mutual chastity to make our sex less frequent and more special. I liked it too much now idk if I’ll ever get out (or if I even want to deep down).

I just turned 23 (F), my husband is 25. Ever since I switched from birth control pills to an IUD, I’ve been insatiable. Even before we were having sex multiple times per week, now it’s turned into an every day routine. It’s pretty common for us to do it twice, before and after he gets home from work, and there are definitely days we do it 3 or 4 separate. It’s been a couple months, and he’s able to keep up with my sex drive although it takes a lot more energy out of him than it does me.

I’m currently unemployed (going back to uni next semester, taking some time to mentally recharge) so I have plenty of time to think about him and edge during the day. I’m super submissive and I like to keep myself horny 24/7, so I’m pretty much always ready to go, and just waiting for him to be ready. As a result I’m always trying to seduce him to speed up the process (it’s usually successful).

We’ve been together for 2 + 2/3 years, married for 7 of those months and we never dropped out of the honeymoon phase. We have a very healthy relationship, but we both agreed recently that it’s been taking over too much of our time and relationship. Every time we fuck is better than the last, and the best time is the next one. While this is an absolute blessing, it also comes with a curse, because it sort of kills our ambition to do other things. Especially when we do it in the morning.

We’re both ambitious people, educated and professional, we both have masters degrees and I’m going back for a PhD. We both love the outdoors and exercise, but nothing can really compare to the 30 minute feelings of ecstasy we can produce with nothing other than our bare bodies. We would both wake up horny every day, and fucking in the morning would only make us want to do it again later in the day.

We talked about this, and decided we should try to not let sex dominate our life so much. We have a long, long time left to spend together and there’s no need to wear ourselves and make ourselves sick of it by doing it so often. The crazy solution that we thought of while drinking one night, was to experiment with mutual chastity. We would both stay locked up most of the time and then just have one intimate session at the end of each day, so we could let the intimacy build up throughout the day.

Although we’re both open-minded and switch sometimes for fun, he’s naturally the dominant and I’m naturally the submissive in our relationship. While I’m insatiable at times, nothing trumps the feeling of being submissive for me. I crave to be used (within my limits) for his pleasure. Having his needs prioritized over mine.

We had gotten a chastity belt for me a while back, but not gotten much use out of it. We decided to start using it, and also decided that we would buy a cage for him to wear.

It took a couple days of brainstorming + trial and error to figure out a good system, but we worked out one. I stay locked up pretty much 24/7, but I have opportunities to free myself sometimes. He stays locked about 11-12 hours per day, from when before he leaves for work until after he gets home. I sleep in mine, he doesn’t.

He locks up in the shower each morning before work. I usually wake up from him showering, and then when he comes back into the room, I get out of bed and we get dressed together. Usually we’re both pretty aroused already at this point so we tease each other a bit while we’re both locked, we have breakfast and then he leaves for work around 6:45

He takes my key with him to work, and his stays with me at home. This leaves us both horny and frustrated, but also hyper attentive, observant of detail, more extroverted, and more appreciative of smaller things since we have no access to our main pleasure buttons. We pay more attention to the outside world when we’re locked up. We go out of our way for each other more, doing non-sexual favors and appreciating each other more.

He gets home around 4:00, but stays locked up until 6:00. At 6:00, he gets released, but I don’t. This allows us to still fulfill our needs, my submissive ones and his dominant ones.

The first night, he gave me the option at 6:00 of 1) be released at 9:00 to be fucked and maybe cum, but endure whatever he has in store for me for 3 hours, or 2) I get to suck his cock right then and there, but then I would stay locked until 6:00 the next day instead of getting out that night.

Not wanting to wait 3 hours, and feeling needy since I wasn’t sucking him in the mornings anymore, I chose option 2. I love sucking his cock; I love to just turn off my brain and focus on pleasing him. So I got the instant gratification of pleasing him, and then after, I returned to my needy and desperate state, not having received any stimulation myself.

He teased me for the rest of the night, and then I have to try to fall asleep as a horny mess while he sleeps peacefully with his balls drained. Trying to fall asleep is the most wonderful torture in the world. Somehow I always manage, and then I wake up hornier than ever to repeat the process.

Each day, he gives me the same choice at 6:00 pm. I’ll spend the whole day thinking about how I don’t want to pick option 2. *I have to wait 24 hours each time anyway. What’s another 3 hours from 6:00-9:00 to finally be released?* But every time he gets home from work, he starts to tease me early, and I know that by the time 6:00 rolls around I’m not going to be able to resist instantly getting my lips around his cock. And then every night trying to fall asleep, I regret my decision, even though I know I’m going to make the same one tomorrow.

Every minute of every day, I crave the feeling of his thighs against mine and his hips against my ass while he’s deep inside me. I have to bring a change of panties everywhere I go, and change everyday, sometimes multiple times, because of the constant flow of wetness. We started this arrangement two weeks ago, and I still have yet to actually find out what he has in store for those 3 hours from 6:00-9:00. He says he’s just going to start leaving my key at his office.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/rwufkj/fm_my_husband_and_i_tried_mutual_chastity_to_make