Girls with low self esteem are still quite confident when going out or hooking up with a guy .. our confidence disappears the first time we find out that the guy really only wanted us to fuck and had no feelings or attraction to us compared to our feelings toward him… and usually we find that out when we are naked on all 4 and him roughly fucking from behind with no mercy or care about our feelings until he empties himself and leaves us with his mess and just goes home !
That’s when we kinda realize how unwanted we are and maybe how unattractive we are compared to the rest of the girls … when we are left naked with a guys load inside, a guy that we were attracted to but he just dumped his load and left without even caring about our own orgasm … then the first big hit that our self esteem would take… is when we start masturbating right after, not because we liked how he treated us, but because we were so turned on with that person that we need to release it. So we masturbate after being used that badly and once we finish its when we kinda realize how pathetic we are for masturbating after that and for allowing it to happen.. which lowers our self esteem..
Then there’s 2 types of girls from there , both girls realize that those guys are lying and only want to cum and leave … there’s the type that’s trying to gain confidence back and refuses guys like that… and there’s the other which has her self esteem very low that saying yes to those guys knowing that they are just lying and are going to leave her once they cum . And she’s going to feel pathetic again after they leave but she lets it happen cause her self esteem is so low and that broke her …
And that’s when a girl is at her lowest and that’s when guys usually take advantage of it to push her to do all messed up things for their pleasure and she will end up doing it even if she hates it cause they know that she has no self esteem..
That’s what happened with me and happen with a lot of girls and it’s our own fault for being weak.
I wanted to share the concept with men cause I thought a lot dont know about it and I bet it’s funny to look at from your POV ( also I was bored so decided to write something )
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/rwlwfq/f_girl_with_no_self_esteem
Man who treat a girl like that aren’t real man in my opinion
I don’t care if a girl has low or high self esteem. However I ignore / leave girls fast when I discover they tend to date shitty guys. Because they won’t enjoy being with a nice guy and always looking down on him and running back to the AHs the moment they get a chance.
Yeah I’ve noticed low self esteem attracts the worst type of men. Stay strong girl and know your worth these men ain’t it.