We have been posting some images of our adventures, but end up with guys always asking the same questions, so it is time to write down what people want to know; The first story is how it all started, the open relation between her (21) and me (49).
The main reason lies in the age gap: we were (and still are) deeply in love. We met in a pub, we had both broken up with our previous partners for some time and were … open to new love and adventures. As a couple: the chemistry was immediately there, and we had a passionate first few months together. Now, the thing with an age gap is that you cannot expect of the younger person to give up things like party’s, going dancing, flirting even … And she could not expect from me to join her in her nights out. We enjoyed the mix of living our own lives, and of living together a few days in the week, with hot sex and dinners and lots of love.
With an age gap it is also crucial that you not become jealous, especially when your gf is extremely beautiful. Other guys will try to hit on her, you have to trust her. Now, She also only wanted older guys, so I was never worried when younger guys flirted with her. But, it also kind of made me proud (that she was my gf) and that men hit on her. I was not jealous at all and in bed when we talked about her nights out, this particular feeling appeared …. That I imagined her being hit on, her flirting and teasing with her shining eyes.. One of these times she went with her hand to my cock, and gave me a handjob while teasing me and telling me: “imagine how I flirt with someone and what could happen …”, I went crazy .. I ended up telling how i would love to see her nude with another guy, that it would be so hot if she would be a slut, that she was my porn queen while the tension inside me rose and rose, and erupted out .. All in the heat of the moment. Yet … It meant something.
Afterwards we talked a little bit further, and we kind of confessed that we had both enjoyed that. So … I blurted out that I would give her a free pass (carte blanche) to do whatever she wanted to do when something happened on a night out.
She accepted. Nothing happened initially though. It was the end of the Year, Christmas etc,the cosy days, cuddly, family, we were not busy with lust.
But then in January, there was this party she went to with a gay friend of her. And nothing happened at that party itself, but over there she started to text with this guy on IG, with whom she had flirted a bit online. The party was in his city, so there she was: free as a bird to go wherever she wanted, close to him, excited by the prospect of adventure, knowing that I would be aroused if she’d took it a step further. By two in the night, they had flirted in such a way that he texted that he would come over to take her to his place.
I myself was fast asleep, so everything happened without any contact between her and me, but she knew I had meant it when I gave her the free pass.
I received a first text from her when I woke up the next morning, together with an image of her holding the cock of the guy that had taken her home … It had happened, she had done it, she had had sex with another guy…
So we needed to talk, and she traveled to my place (over here in Belgium cities are very close to each other). There she kissed me, gave me a hot blowjob, magnificent sex … And told me what had happened, how she had had this lust to give in to flirting, to open up to this guy, because she knew I wanted her to do this, and to surprise me with an adventure as slut (“hotwife” was not a term we knew yet) .. She had given her best to him, blowjobs, impressive sex, anal even … And a new blowjob all the way in the morning, after which the selfie had been made that they had sent me.
I was horny, extremely horny, yet also a bit anxious but the lust won and I not only reclaimed her but told her I wanted more of that. Since then we knew that this was something we both wanted to explore further, and that it was all right. Lots more happened afterwards, but that is for another story
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/rsrwml/mfmfm_the_start_of_our_open_relationship_her