Recently I can’t get thoughts of my (M, 29) girlfriend’s exes out of my head. This has created a bit of a stamina issue for me in bed. She is cold stone stunner – 28, blonde, big ass, small waist and perky tits.
She has been quite open about who she’s fucked in the past during conversations, but a trip down a Facebook wormhole has put faces to names, making it seem more real.
She’s mentioned in the past that she usually goes for ‘alpha’ guys and that I’m not like others she’s dated (which she says she likes). The thought of a dominate guy having his way with her creates a whole cocktail of emotions (including a hard on) for me.
It hasn’t helped that I’ve come across messages from past hook ups where she’s said the sex was ‘so hot’ and she ‘can’t get it out of her mind’.
Past hook ups are always liking her social media pics/stories too (her posts are usually boner inducing).
I know she’s had bigger guys than me before and the thought of her bouncing on a ‘massive knob’ (her words) makes me shoot my load too early and I think is leaving her feeling unsatisfied.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/rrxphx/m_cumming_too_quickly
Ever considered inviting one of them over to help?
Growing up, I was super awkward with women and probably rubbish at sex. So, I put my reading skills to good use and read all I could on cunnilingus. I dumped all my Exp into oral.
Most women are pretty damn happy with it.
Point is: you should read She Comes First by Ian Kerner. It taught me well.