Now I want to preface this by saying I was not hiding my past hookups from him because I was ashamed or anything. I just didn’t really want him to view me differently. After many times of him asking me, and a few cocktails, I finally told him.
When my now husband and I finally met, we were both 21, I had only been with 1 guy at the time. My highschool boyfriend. We dated from late senior year of highschool until mid-freshman year of college. We had sex but it was not frequent or quite frankly something at the time I really cared about or craved. I do not remember exactly but maybe we only did it a few times. Before and even after him, I didn’t really crave sex. Rarely did I ever masturbate, never really put much thought into it. I guess it probably helped that I didn’t really get alot of attention frim guy’s, and I mostly stayed in my small friend group when it came to socializing.
Then came the summer in-between my junior and senior year of college. The week before I came home from school for the summer I went back home for my younger sibling’s graduation party. At the party my aunt, whom I am very close with, introduced me to a friend of hers (I am going to call him Jay, not his real name). Jay was in his mid-to-late 40’s like my aunt. My aunt introduced me to him because Jay worked in the career field I was majoring in. Jay and I chatted about the career etc. for quite some time. He was very nice, charming and professional. Jay then told me he could get me an internship over the summer at his company. I was ecstatic because I had tried all semester and hadn’t got one. We exchanged contact info and went our separate ways. Next day on my way back to school I got a text from Jay saying internship is all set up if I wanted it. Of course I accepted it.
Fast forward a couple of weeks I believe and I am enjoying my internship and Jay was a nice and helpful boss. About this time too I meet my now husband. My girlfriends and I where out at a local bar and he was their with his friends. Him and his friends went to a highschool on the other side of town but a few of my friends knew his and we all started talking. My now husband and I hit it off, we exchanged numbers. I remember texting and snapchatting him the next couple of days 24/7. It was obvious we both liked each other and where interested in getting to know each other. Well Jay and I had also gotten friendly. And up until this point I didn’t view him in a romantic or sexual way, that wasn’t my style. I just viewed him as a very nice guy that seemed interested in my career. Like I mentioned earlier, he was charming and attractive, but I never thought a older guy would care about me. Especially when up until this point I couldn’t even get attention from guys my age.
About a week or so after my now husband and I first met he asked me on a date. Well literally the next day at work, Jay asks me if id like to get dinner with him, as a nice reward for how well I was doing. Luckily both of these “dates” were not on the same day. I remember telling my friend Meghan about his being like this is crazy. I went from no attention to a cute/nice guy asking me out and a guy double my age asking me to dinner. Of course both dates were vastly different. My now husband and I went to a local pizza place and a movie, a really good first date. While jay took me to a very high end restaurant in the city and told me to dress nice. FYI nothing happened after either date.
This post is already long and there is alot more. So to just scoot this along, my now husband and I continued to “date” for the remainder of the summer. He also had an internship and was super busy. We texted and snapchatted all summer. And would hang out probably once or twice a week. But we did not officially become boyfriend and girlfriend until summer was over and we both went back to school.
Jay and I on the other hand after he took me out to dinner started to hang out alot more. At first nothing weird, just hey after work do you want to get coffee and finish this project, or hey want to grab dinner. Around this time he started to get flirty with me, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t enjoy the attention. One day after work he invited me back to his place for pizza and to finish a big project we had. We had some wine, ate and finished work. We started talking and It got a little flirty. I don’t remember exactly how it happened but next thing, I was sitting on a stool at his counter, Jay was next to me kissing me and feeling my breasts (I have 34DD’s). We ended up having sex. It was my first time since my ex-high school boyfriend. And with all the flirting and attention from Jay and my now husband I wanted it.
This kicked off Jay and I fucking for the rest of the summer. Really until my now husband asked me to be his girlfriend. I guess looking back you could say our relationship was a friend’s with benefits. Jay did ask me to be his girlfriend at one point, but the age difference and the fact that I really felt strong about my now husband and I, I declined. We would fuck quite regularly. He would buy me lingerie or some skimpy dresses he would like me to wear out to dinner. We would go out then go back to his place and fuck. The sex was great, I obviously had little experience and he had lots so he taught me alot and experimented with alot.
Again to fast forward since this is already too long. 2nd to last week of the summer, Jay and I are still fucking. And at this point my now husband and I are fucking too when we hang out. My good friend Abbey invited me to her lakehouse for the weekend. Abbey’s family has a massive house with a pool, a bunch of bedroom’s. I was looking forward to it since I love Abbey and it would be a nice relaxing weekend before school. We get there and her younger brother Trey was there with some of his friends. Trey was 18. We poured drinks ASAP, changed into our bikini’s and went into the pool. We probably spent all day in the sun drinking, that didn’t help. Trey and his friends joined us later in the evening. Trey was talking to me and kept looking at my boobs. It didn’t help my bikini top probably showed them off more then I would have liked. We all get out and order delivery. Abbey and I pretty tipsy at this point in the night and still in our bikini’s. Trey starts fliting with me. Trey was a high school athlete, so he was built. I enjoyed it, but I felt a tad bit weird getting hit and checked out by Abbey’s brother with her in the room. Abbey and I after some time decided to go to bed. I had my own bedroom. I came out, still in my bikini, to get a bottle of water for bed. Trey and one of his friends were still in the kitchen. Trey starts trying to compliment me and my body, bikini whatever. He came up to me and said he has always had a crush on me. I remember thinking what the hell is going on. He then kisses me. After the kiss I looked and his friend was gone. Trey then asked if I had ever seen a BBC. I said no, he asked if I knew what that meant. I said yes. (Trey is black btw). He then pulled down his shorts exposing his dick. And yep it was what i’d call a BBC. Biggest one ive ever seen. I remember yelling Jesus Trey. It was kinda weird and cheesy but also kind of hot. Again I was pretty drunk.
Trey put my hand on it and he started kissing me again. We stopped after a few seconds and he put his hands on my butt and said come on. I followed him to his room and we fucked. I slept with him in bed that night. We woke up in the morning and did it again. His dick was by far the biggest ive had. I remember leaving his room in the morning and going straight to the bathroom to shower, getting out of the shower and Abbey came in with a huge smerk on her face asking how my night was. We stayed for morning and then left to go back home.
The following week I went back to college. The night before I left my now husband and I made our relationship ‘official”. Jay and I stopped. There was no hard feeling with it. I finally confessed this to my husband a few weeks ago. He was surprised and laughed. I was relieved he wasn’t angry or thought of me as a “slut”.
Sorry if this post is too long….There is alot more detail so I guess if anyone has any question do not be afraid to message or PM me!
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/qyarmi/mf_my_slutty_summer_when_i_met_my_husband
If your husband is anything like mine, he might enjoy that you were out having a blast! I’m significantly more experienced than him and he’s only enjoyed my knowledge!
Good thing he took it in stride and speaks to your choice in him being your husband. Congratulations!