[MFM] An overview of our hotwife experiences

If anyone is curious how the wife and I got into this lifestyle or maybe looking for a real experience to use as a reference point to get into it as well, this story is definitely for you! However, I will make it very clear that what works for us may not work for everyone, and this is where communication with your SO comes into play more than anything else I may write about; even I can admit that we’re still relatively new to this and learn as we go, finding better ways to do things as we work around our schedules and spend plenty of time focused on each other. This isn’t something we do regularly on a weekly basis, but rather once every other month or so when we’re both in the mood. This post is a very general overview of some of the things we’ve done together in the lifestyle.

It started with a conversation we had 3 years ago about the type of porn we like to watch. When she told me she liked threesome and gangbang porn, I decided to come clean about liking cuckold and hotwife porn, so long as it didn’t involve humiliation or chastity. I also confessed that I tried a few things in a previous relationship but also highlighted reasons it didn’t work out (this last part isn’t really important to this story or post). She was surprised but intrigued. I told her that I would find it hot to share her with another guy and that evolved to roleplaying about it with her toys months down the line. We spent a year or two roleplaying and fantasizing about the idea, never really setting out to make it happen until one day we felt we should try to dip out toes in the lifestyle and see where things go, setting some ground rules to follow for each encounter.

These rules are:

-I make the posts specifically meant to find a third, vett a handful I trust to get to know them better together, and she can single out the ones she finds attractive enough to play with (I can always make a post specifically over this process for those wanting advice)

-We both have to be there together; she’d rather not be alone with another guy anyway, preferring that I be close by to the action or involved

-Condoms are a must for penetration, and they must pull out anyway since we know from years of being together that condoms tend to break sometimes.

Anyway, here’s a post I wrote about our first experience with another guy, this happened a little over a year ago:

[MF] Couple experience their first experience with a third person involved from gonewildstories

We didn’t go all the way until a mutual friend of ours was a little in the dumps about being single and hasn’t had any action in years. We figured since we were having trouble finding a third we trusted, and he was someone we knew well, we might as well do something with him. No stuff between me and that guy happened and it was a straight mfm. We must have had 6 or 7 threesomes with him in the span of a month before things fizzled out and it was time to go back to being just friends again. We’re all close and still hang out together, but never mention the sex; the experience was long ago enough that it doesn’t affect the dynamic between us anyway.

Sometime in the summer this year, I told her about how I’ve always had urges to suck a dick from time to time, and confessed to some experimentation in high school with a guy I knew was a lot more than just light…. I came to fully accept that I am bi and I’ve been lying to myself for years that maybe I was only curious and the things I did were a one and done to solidify I was only curious. Because of some of the other stuff I told her about it got really intimate, since I told her things I never really told anyone else. I was finally able to freely talk about all this and not be judged or called a faggot; she really accepted me for it and wasn’t bothered by it at all, but rather found it hot.

A few weeks after that I told her about recently wanting to do something with a guy since I haven’t in years, so she agreed that if I found a guy we both liked, she’d watch me blow them. After talking to another bi guy for a week who has pevious experience with bi threesomes with another couple in his past, we decided to meet him at his place. She started with watching us then got into it and started blowing both of us within a few minutes. One thing led to another and we ended up in his room. I was blowing him when he would eat her out and we took turns spitroasting her (she also loves spitroasting porn).

The most recent encounter was around Halloween in which I blew a guy in his car. My wife knew I wanted to blow someone again, and this guy was just down to drive to us and ok with not coming into our home. I would have met him a week before this happened on the night we started talking, but she wasn’t having it due to being tired so we agreed that if it were to happen she’d be present (just as she expects me to be if she does anything with another guy). I noticed the guy hit me up again so I replied back and we spoke for a bit before he said he wanted to come by and had time to do so. After asking my wife if she was ok with it, we planned it would only be me blowing him, but this guy would just not cum, and the car was a little cramped. She eventually joined in and let him touch her. That evolved to her getting eaten out until she came. We ended the night with that and returned to the apartment to fuck.

As of now, this is everything we’ve done involving another man in our sex life. Since going down this road, I’ve noticed that my wife is more confident in her looks and discovered that more men than she originally realized find her attractive, something she still has trouble coming to terms with at times. Besides this, we’ve gone to a local swingers club three times, with each visit being a little different from the last but none of them ending in a threesome or hotwife play. If you’d like to read more about any specific encounter feel more than welcome to mention it in the comments and I’ll try to take the time to write about it and make a new post.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/qoa92e/mfm_an_overview_of_our_hotwife_experiences