I’m asking you because I’m assuming your versed in what women want. Well, I want this girl who ghosted me 3 times and hasn’t added the unfortunate 30 or so accounts I made over the past week, I had a 2.5 day gap and then another 2.4 day gap will this morning between making new accounts. The times she added me back I said something equivelant to I’ll leave now. But I said that a bunch since the last ghosting and was never able to. I assumed she didn’t want me chasing her and said this is wrong ill go now or u dont want me or some shit… But that was one of my major problems all along, I assumed she didn’t want me and it made me super insecure and childish. Anyway, I am scared she is scared, she never said anything, how do I know what she is thinking, I don’t know if I keep trying if she will accept me if I try correctly or if she will call the cops on me or something… I can either wait a week, 2 weeks, month, 3 months, 6 months, a year before adding her again, I don’t know. What do I do. Note that she hardly talked to me just read all my messages, and sent me daily some times 2-4 times a day snap photos… One time I asked her for a more sexual one and she complied with naked shoulders and like 1/3 of a tit… xD (telling you that to indicate at least some minor interest on her part) did she add me back those times because she wanted to give me another try or because she thought I was going to kill her if she didn’t. I never did anything overtly abusive, aside from my somewhat unconciosu manipulation to get her to stay…
WOMEN PLEASE RESPOND TO THIS EDIT: I was considering adding her in a week with “PplSayImStalkingYou” “IsThatTrue?” “IsMyPursuitUnwanted”
Source: reddit.com/r/eroticliterature/comments/plhxbv/i_need_personal_advice
Bruh this is just harrassment. Leave her alone. Don’t force relationships if they don’t happen easily and naturally – it’s never a good time for anyone.
Don’t re-add her. Don’t message her. And don’t do a similar thing to any other person either.
Leave her alone………
At the risk of being blunt, please stop harassing this person.
Making thirty accounts is not normal behavior, and being so insistent is bound to make her extremely uncomfortable. You need to accept that she might just not be into you, and that it’s completely within her rights to not be.
There’s nothing wrong with shooting your shot, but respect her right to ghost you. She owes you nothing and you are just making her day worse by acting like this; probably even making her deeply uncomfortable.
I understand learning to handle rejection can be hard, but you need to work on yourself if you think this is acceptable behavior. Leave the girl alone.
One piece of advice I’ll give you is to never, ever be this insistent. It makes you look desperate, lacking in self-confidence and it’s also not healthy for both parties involved. Work on improving yourself and be a considerate person towards others instead of trying to force, manipulate or pressure someone into giving you attention.
Also if you feel like getting dragged through the coals you could post this on /r/amitheasshole