Adventure at middle age and expansion of my sexual horizons [FF]

This week has been a whirlwind and my head is in the clouds right now. I have a lot I’m processing in my brain. I’ve read other’s stories on here before and felt sharing the sexiness happening in my life was the best way to clear my brain. Although to be honest, I’m not sure how much I really want it cleared as I’m quite enjoying the rush.

First some background. I am 41 years old and married with 3 kids. I am the typical busy stay at home mom, shuttling kids around every day and keeping things running on the home front. My husband and I have been married for a long time. We have a wonderful relationship. It isn’t without it’s ups and downs, but when I compare it to others I know, especially those who have struggled during pandemic, I feel pretty fortunate to have a loving husband that is also a partner in crime.

Last year we brought up the idea of swinging. Really though, it was more harmless fantasies during sex that we would talk about to turn each other on. We joked about the idea, but obviously when pandemic was at its worst last year, that wasn’t even a possibility. Going into this year, our talks about it intensified and we got more and more into the idea during sex. One aspect fueling it is I have always had an interest sexually in other women. My husband has known about it for a long time, but neither of us ever thought about exploring it beyond sexy talk.

As summer approached, our conversations evolved, and finally we got to the spot that we decided that if the situation presented itself, we would take the opportunity. We discussed boundaries and fantasized about how it would play out, but realistically, we both knew that the odds of meeting a couple we were attracted to and in the right situation would be rare. Amazingly enough, it actually happened. Earlier this summer, we got away for the week without kids at a resort and met another couple that we clicked with. Things progressed, we gave signals to them and found out they were already well experienced with this. We ended up having an evening of fun with them that was a good experience for all of us. My husband and I talked about it extensively afterwards and both realized we very much enjoyed it. The only downside was the other woman wasn’t really into doing anything with me so nothing happened between the two of us. Having said that, it was still a fantastic experience.

We’ve talked about that experience a lot over the last few months. We’ve spent time online researching swinging and learning more about it. A few weeks ago, we finally made the decision to intentionally look online. We got very lucky and found a couple who lives not too far from us and also has kids around our kids age. We spent about a week messaging back and forth. I took things into one on one conversation with the other wife and we quickly connected with each other. The conversation led to my interests in having an experience with another woman. She was much different from the first woman in that she is very into that and describes herself as “100% bisexual.”

Eventually, the 4 of us met over zoom and hit it off. This last weekend, their kids were going to be at a family member’s house and we planned to go out to a bar together on Friday night and then go to their house to take things from there.

Sadly, they called us Thursday night to let us know their family member was feeling sick and they made the decision to keep their kids home as a precaution. We told them no worries and we would look forward to rescheduling. They suggested we all go out to lunch on Friday anyway so we could at least meet in person. My husband was planning on working from home anyway that day so it worked out.

Lunch went almost 2 hours long. We had an instant connection with them in person. They are attractive, fun, but very down to earth and real. It was a great time. We were trying to be discreet, but conversation eventually got sexual and flirty. The wife kept touching me a lot as we sat next to each other and I was getting really turned on by it. When it was time to go, they walked with us back to my car and when I got in the passenger seat, she leaned in and kissed me. The husbands just kind of stood there completely silent while we kissed/made out for a minute. It was soooo hot. After they left my husband asked me how I felt. I didn’t know what to say but it got me so turned on. I was just kind of in a daze. We immediately went home and had sex before the kids got home and it was very intense.

I texted her later that afternoon and told her we thought they were great, really felt connected, and were disappointed we couldn’t see them that night but couldn’t wait. I also told her how much I loved the kiss and how I wanted more from her. We texted back and forth for a bit and then I didn’t hear from her again until later that evening. She texted me back and basically said, “So, (husband’s name) and I have been thinking. I know all 4 of us can’t get together yet, but how would you feel about you and I getting together one day while the kids are at school?”

I was floored at her suggestion, but it made me instantly wet. I pulled my husband back to the bedroom to show him the text. He got an evil smile and asked me what I wanted to do. I was worried he might feel left out, but he said not to even worry about it and he was totally supportive and that his only request was that if it happened, I send him a sexy video. I was a complete bundle of nerves and it took me a bit to respond to her. I think the delay in response killed her enthusiasm a bit because a bit later I got another text and she said something like “but if you aren’t ready for that, totally don’t worry about it.” I really did want to, so finally I said what the hell and went with it. I texted her back and told her I loved that idea and what day was she thinking. She said Tuesdays were the best day for her with her kid’s schedule. I told her that was great and I offered that she come over to our house. I told her the kids are gone by 8 and she could come over anytime after that. I told her I make really good mimosas. She laughed and joked about the timing and alcohol and sex for breakfast but I told her to just consider it brunch.

In the midst of all this, my mind was a complete mess. I honestly couldn’t believe this was all progressing like this. I couldn’t process it all quick enough, but I just kept telling my brain to shut up and go with it.

My husband and I had some of the best sex over the weekend we’ve ever had in anticipation of Tuesday. He talked about it non-stop. I was a ball of nerves all weekend thinking about it, and it took all I had to stay mentally present with the kids on Monday while they were off from school for the holiday.

Tuesday morning I was a wreck again. I asked my husband if he could leave a bit later and take care of getting the kids off as I wanted to really be prepared. I am usually an early riser anyway, but I got up even earlier that morning. I showered, shaved, cleaned the house up and picked some fresh flowers from the back yard and put them up around the house and lit some scented candles. I got everything ready for drinks. I like to do my mimosas with watermelon juice and mint and do them frozen. Kids were off and husband came in one last time while I was in the bedroom doing my makeup. He tried to get frisky and kept grabbing my ass and I had to shew him away telling him he couldn’t mess up my hair and makeup. I was trying to keep it casual and was in yoga pants and a t-shirt, but I wanted to look good. I had told her not get dressed up and just be comfortable when she came over.

He laughed and got the message, kept making dirty comments about how he couldn’t believe I’d be here getting it on with another woman without him. I reassured him he would get some pics/videos (we had both agreed ahead of time we would send that to the husbands).

He finally left and I was alone in the silence of the house and my crazy thoughts sick with anticipation She texted and let me know she’d be there shortly. About 9 I heard the doorbell ring and it felt like lightning shot through my nerves. I could feel my fingertips go cold.

I opened the door and she couldn’t have looked more beautiful. She was just wearing thin sweats and a tank top, but she looked so cute. Her boobs were bulging out of her tank top and I couldn’t keep my eyes off of them. I invited her into the kitchen and let her know I was getting ready to blend the drinks. She asked if she could help and gave her the knife and cutting board and told her she could chop mint leaves if she wanted. She sat on the bar stool chopping mint while i was up standing at the counter putting things in the blender. We started chatting it up and my nerves eased. She was so engaging and she just really made me feel comfortable. I finally blended the drinks and poured them for us both and sat next to her on the bar. The alcohol helped calm me even more and we sat sipping our drinks, laughing and chatting. We actually sat talking for a while until I got up to go top off our drinks. When I walked back over to the bar next to her and filled her drink, I set the blender down and she reached over and put her hand on my hand on the counter. She brought up the kiss from the car and asked if I enjoyed it.

I just laughed, smiled, and told her I thought it was amazing. She asked me if I’d like to try it again. I told her I would. She stood up, pulled me in close and kissed me again. We kissed and it just got more and more intense as she moved her hands all over over me. I had a very tiny buzz from the drinks and I don’t even know how long we stood there against the counter making out. Eventually her hands found there way up my t-shirt. Her hands were cold on my stomach and when I jumped a bit from the shock she pulled them out for a minute while she got them warm. We kept kissing, but eventually she tried again. I wasn’t wearing a bra so it was easy access for her. Her hands were all over my tits and the temperature in my brain went up to red hot levels. I leaned back at some point and told her I wanted a turn with her as well. I kissed down her chest and reached up under her tank top. Her tits were amazing! Well, I think its that tits in general are amazing. I loved loved loved playing with her boobs. Just feeling the softness and sucking on her nipples and the whole experience blew my mind. I was hooked on boobs!

At some point she asked if we should go back to the bedroom which we did. The whole experience was mind blowing. I couldn’t get over the sensation of the softness of her body against mine, the smell of her perfume, all of it. I was so very different in so many ways. I loved it. It felt so natural. In the bedroom, clothes quickly came off and she had me lay face down on the bed while she gently massaged my body and stroked my skin with her fingers and explored my more private areas with her fingers which eventually turned into her kissing up and down my back. The feeling of her lips and tongue on my bare back and bottom while her soft hair fell down across my skin was a sensation I had never experienced. It was other worldly.

It was different than sex with my husband. She just took forever exploring my body and making me feel at ease and turned on and sexy. The things she said to me made me feel so good. I want to be clear that it’s not like it was better than my husband, it was just different. It was different to wait for direct pleasure on my pussy. Instead, she spent time pleasuring other parts of my body. I eventually turned over because I wanted to visually take in her body. She is gorgeous and seeing her without clothes on was so wonderful. I couldn’t take her in enough. Eventually we ended up tangled around each other kissing and feeling each others body with our hands up and down.

I don’t want to really get super graphic about the experience, but I’ll just say that she eventually went down on me, and when she did, it was like fireworks. I’ve never had as an intense of an orgasm from oral as I did from her. And it wasn’t just one orgasm. It kept going and going and going like one long wave. I eventually did the same for her and it was amazing feeling her body respond as I pleasured her.

The thing that struck me the most though about the whole experience wasn’t the orgasms or individual details, but just how the whole morning and what became afternoon went. After we both came the first time, we continued to lay in bed cuddling and quietly talking. It was so relaxing. It was a nice morning and the breeze from the ceiling fan felt nice as we lay in bed connecting more. We talked about all kinds of things. Kids, hobbies, and went down a really long rabbit hole talking about baking and cooking. As we lay there, we just talked and snuggled but would occasionally feel each others body, rubbing hands over each others tits or stomach, someone would slap the others ass and we’d get playful and wrestle around or tickle one another. One of the best parts was when we were spooning with each other and she was behind me running her fingers through my hair playing with it and scratching my back (I love having my back scratched) while she reached around cupping my tits occasionally. We got sleepy at times and would fall in and out a little snooze. Eventually, with the cuddling and touching and talking and teasing we would both get horny again and would pleasure each other when we felt like it. There were soooo many orgasms between the two of us.

Lunch time eventually came and we got up and I told her I had some things to make a simple charcuterie board. It was a little surreal both of us standing naked in the kitchen, snacking on cheese and fruit and talking like everything was completely normal. But really, it DID feel natural and comfortable. We were both more hungry than we realized, but when you are standing there with a beautiful woman naked in your kitchen, it’s hard to resist the allure of her boobs which eventually my hands found there way back there again. Desire overrode the need for food and we ended back in the bedroom again. Finally I told her I needed to shower before the kids got home and invited her to join me. Showering with her was amazing. I tied my hair up as I didn’t have time to wash it, but playing with each other in the shower with water and soap was so sexy and fun. We got done and finally dried off and sadly had to bring our day together to an end. We kissed a bit more and finally got dressed. As promised to the husbands, we took a few videos and pictures along the way and even face timed them. My husband had meetings going on and he had to sneak off but it was hilarious seeing his reaction.

When he got home that evening, after the kids went to bed, he was greatly rewarded for his patience and support. I’ll just say I didn’t get a whole lot of sleep last night. I’ve got a bit of a headache today from the hurricane of yesterday and last night, but I love thinking about the whole thing. When she left, we both agreed we needed to get the husbands involved ASAP, but she wants to have another day time play date at some point. I honestly worried about this a bit because I don’t want things to become too disjointed from my husband, but we talked it through and for now he loves the idea of me pursuing this. I don’t know when that will happen, but I do admit I want to feel her body again and repeat yesterday’s experience.

I know this leads to a bigger question of my sexuality, but I think it was just a confirmation of something I’ve known was there all along. I don’t really care about getting into all that or feel a need to let others know outside of my husband. It’s something I enjoyed (and will hopefully continue to enjoy) and will leave it at that.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/pkii59/adventure_at_middle_age_and_expansion_of_my