I have had a lot of quick and orgasm-focused handjobs for my boyfriend with the goal of making him ejaculate as quickly as possible to relieve him from his arousal. There can be a lot of circumstances for them. For example you’d be at the swimming pool and don’t want him to be clingy because of his arousal, or you’re less in the mood but still want to help him out. A quick, efficient handjob can be both fun and convenient!
I would like to write those experiences down, starting with the situation in which he’s distracted by his arousal during studying and need for it to get away.
When my boyfriend and I were still in university/college, he often had evenings in which the entire focus was on studying. He wanted to go for hours when he was studying for an exam or writing his thesis since he found it to be hard to get back to work again when he stopped in the middle of it. There would be the obvious breaks for getting a drink or a bite or having to pee but those were very short and often (in the case of drinking and eating) still during studying.
There was one thing though that could still distract him: out of nowhere he could get aroused and the feeling wouldn’t go away. He had struggled with that before we met and he usually ignored it (but was much less concentrated) or masturbated (but since he liked to edge he found it difficult to keep it quick an it would still be hard to go at it after he was done). Since we were together though we developed a bit of a routine in which he said that he was horny and then I would solve the problem for him.
I just shoved my chair next to his, unbuttoned his pants and pulled them down and going straight at it. I never start out fast since ironically that usually makes a guy slower. Instead I start out with slow moves and I slowly move up the tempo. In the meantime I’m quite talkative. Both he and me have grown to like the purpose-driven nature of it so when I did that for him I mentioned that out loud as part of our “dirty talk” and it always makes him go off faster. I would say things like “I will help you out now so you can ejaculate quick and go on with your studies” or “I know you can come fast for me, just spurt it out, it’s okay!”. I always like to encourage him to ejaculate.
I’m usually mostly clothed during these sessions. In the summer I’m often wearing a dress or a long pyjama shirt so I could remove my panties and give him a look at my vagina or give him a look at my boobs by moving my shirt down, in the winter it could be fully clothed. It doesn’t matter much though, he would often be done in about two minutes.
I make sure I have a paper or cloth towel ready beforehand and make him ejaculate inside my hand on the towel. He thanks me, I tell him I’m always happy to help him out and I check if he still has something to drink. If he doesn’t I fetch him something to keep hydrated or make him some coffee. He goes back at studying right away and after that I go on with what I was doing before too (which also can be studying but I’m easier to start up again). All in all it was a five minute break max. Let’s just say that some chores or ways to help him during exam weeks are more fun to do than others ;).
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/pfipbh/when_hes_distracted_by_his_arousal_during
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