I fuck around a lot. I’ve always been attractive (don’t believe me? pics on profile. i’m 23 (20 when this story happened), a 34D and 5’10”. tell me you wouldn’t LOVE me to ride you), and I’ve usually had my pick of men or women in any number of hookup pools. It helps my cause that I’m totally obsessed with sex. My personal favorite role to play is the femme domme because I’m damn good at it, but if I’m being honest, the reason I tend to default to it is because…
…when I tell guys I *really* like to be degraded, they… don’t know how to handle it. I assume this is most guys’ thought process:
*What, the woman in front of me wants me to… insult her? But she’s so domineering… it would be like insulting a teacher.…*
or
*Okay, well, I don’t want to go *too* far. I don’t know what her limits are.*
or
*I have no idea how to do that.*
And it usually results in something like this:
“Uh, okay… you’re… such a slut. You like that, slut?”
Gawd, that’s cringe. Or this:
“You’re a dirty girl sucking my dick like that.”
I’m a *dirty girl*? What, do I need a bath? Is that the goddamn best you can do?
No, no, no. That’s not *real* degradation. But when I went home with Dan, he understood what real degradation was.
We’d been at a neighbor’s party and decided to hook up. As we took an Uber back to my apartment, he asked me if there was anything in particular I enjoyed in bed. First off, the assuredness he had that we’d fuck was *really* hot. Usually, the guy I go home with is kind of sitting there wondering if he’s really lucky enough to be getting laid or not, doing whatever he can to keep from blowing his chances, and texting his friends to see if they’ve been lucky too. But Dan just… knew. He was in control tonight, I sensed that at the party. It’d be fun to take a night off from playing domme.
I told him of my extreme degradation kink, and he just nodded and looked at the seat in front of him. I hadn’t even fazed him by saying that. It was as if I had said something as innocuous as, “please wear a condom.” He eventually asked if I wanted him to be physically dominant too. I said he was free to do whatever. Again, he just nodded. Didn’t even look at me.
Upon getting back, we sat on my bed. I leaned in to kiss him and he got up, suddenly, and said, “Fuck no. You’re disgusting. Who knows where that mouth has been. I don’t want it touching my mouth.”
At first I thought he was being rude. “Are you trying to throw hands?” I asked him, upset.
“Bitch says she has a degradation kink and can’t even be told she’s disgusting? You’re a fucking disgusting joke. I don’t even remember what your name was.”
I nodded slowly, realizing that not only was he playing into my kink… he was really damn good at it. He took his pants off, already hard as fuck, turned on my TV, and started watching Colbert. I’d guess his cock was about… six inches? No complaints there.
He snapped at me. “See this?” He pointed at his erect cock. “Use it. I don’t mind your trash mouth on here.”
Oh, FUCK yes. I immediately began sucking his sumptuous cock, but after a few seconds, he grabbed the back of my head and shoved my throat all the way down his shaft. I did the best I could, but I wound up choking after a few seconds. Dan grabbed my hair and yanked me off. While I sputtered, he looked me dead in the eye.
“You’re trash. Fuck you.”
Oh goddddd. Now I wanted him MORE.
“Please let me suck your cock. Please.”
He explained that he wanted to watch my slut pussy get wet while I did, so I should suck it with my pussy is his face. An admittedly cool position I’d never tried. As I began to go up and down on his cock, I felt a mouth on my vagina. I let out the tiniest of moans (it’s infrequent that I get oral during a hookup, honestly), and from behind me I hear, “Louder, whore!” I moan again as his lips go to fucking town on me. “Louder, whore!!” I’m really really moaning for him now.
The story isn’t over, but I’d remark later, as we fell asleep, that the things he said and did weren’t revolutionary or all that different — well, except for the final one, which I’ll get to — but just that he seemed so certain about everything. No hesitation, no consideration. Confidence. And when you’re playing the part of the sex-crazed slut, that’s what you want. It helped me get into character so much more than if he’d hemmed and hawed.
So there I am, giving this man the best blowjob I know how, and getting some admittedly mediocre oral in return, when he smacks my ass and yells, “BITCH! Get up, I wanna fuck your disgusting pussy.” He really loved the word ‘disgusting’, but it worked for me, so I did as I was told. He got on top of me and fucked me, continuously telling me things about how unworthy I was, how whorish I was… it was very very good degradation.
He didn’t last long inside me. He finished and I didn’t, so as he lay there catching his breath, I asked if he wouldn’t mind if I got my vibrator.
He said, “No. Get on the floor. I’ll tell you when to come.”
I did as I was told.
“Now finger yourself. Stick some fingers up your pussy. You’re a slut, you know what to do.”
I did that while he watched.
“Lick your fingers, whore.”
I tasted even better with someone staring at me.
“Okay, rub your clit or whatever it is fuckdolls like you do.” He used the word fuckdolls which I found INCREDIBLY hot. Like, not only was I degraded to the lowest form of human life — now I was just an inanimate object to him? Fuck yessss.
After maybe 30 seconds, he told me to stick three fingers into my pussy. Mind you, the voice of Stephen Colbert has been on this ENTIRE time, interviewing some star — I think Krysten Ritter.
“Now just… fuck yourself… whatever your name is. As far as I care, you don’t have one.”
So I… do. I continue to fuck myself. But after a few minutes, I’ve edged myself right up to climax, so I shakily ask, “Can… I… come… yet?”
He mutes the television, looks dead at me, and says, “I couldn’t care less. You’re not even worth my attention.” And he unmutes the TV and Krysten Ritter continues to talk about knitting or something.
I’m just sitting on the floor, speechless. I was the most turned on I’d ever been in my life at that single comment, but I couldn’t figure out why. I had an insane orgasm in an instant.
We actually had a really nice, albeit brief, conversation afterwards. He told me he doesn’t really think anything like that of me. I told him how insanely hot his last comment got me. I told him I wasn’t sure why it got to me the way it did.
He said (and this is paraphrasing because it was a few years ago), “Well, you were on the floor, begging for attention. And that’s usually how these things go — people want attention during sex, even if it’s negative attention. You sure did. So by taking that one thing away from you, I reduced you to even lower than a whore, I guess. You were nothing without my negative validation, and it looks like you had fun with that.”
I really did. Ladies and gentlemen? Take a look at what it means to truly degrade someone. Dan, even though I never saw you again, you will always have a special place in my sex dreams.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ok6b7z/i_fucking_love_being_degraded_but_most_guys_i
Goodness, I love your story telling style. Really enjoyable read.
Emma, that was incredibly hot. Thank you! A great story and a great lesson.
That’s an incredible story! After seeing your handful of pics I’d give anything to degrade you and treat you like the worthless fuck toy you enjoy being.
Really cool! Enjoyed reading that. Respect
Man, this is all good to know. The whole thing about degradation is counter intuitive to everything about me so it would take some practice for me and getting to know a woman and what she wants. I imagine that’s an issue for most guys.
Fuck, that was so hot. I came imagining pounding my cock balls deep into that pussy of yours. I can only imagine what your tits look like, I bet they are yummy. Thank you for being such a good little slut ;)
There’s no better fuck than a mindfuck.
Up vote and saved for later. Fucking hell 🥵🔥
I am certainly going to borrow some things from this story, so thank you for that. My wife and I have a hot date in a few days with an amazing woman who looooves to be degraded. Can’t wait!
Interesting. Thanks for sharing.
I had a CNC hookup last year (story on my profile) where she wanted to be dominated and verbally degraded, within some rules. For example, she wanted no negative words about her physical body or features.
It was my first time doing such, and I enjoyed it. I did a good job, because she arranged another session a few months later.
However, it is appreciated if a woman would clearly say what she liked and be explicit in explaining it. I’m the kind of guy who struggles to observe hints and read subliminals. My CNC date was weeks in the planning where we discussed everything thoroughly before she was sure that I understood exactly what she wanted.
Awesome story telling and most importantly, good insight.
Great super believable story I hope to hear more!
Edit: damn mami ur gorgeous!! 😍😍
Since we’re on the subject, and you’re apparently an Amazon, what’s the best way a shorter guy has ‘knocked you down to size’, physically and/or verbally?
Damn, sometimes it really is that simple… whatever ur name is ;)
Really good post. I’m not into the degradation kink myself at all, but I love learning about all the different kinks out there – so it’s particularly fascinating for me to read such a well-written piece about what it’s like in the mind of someone who IS into it. Thanks for sharing that with us!
But based on your profile you’re not into guys anymore? :/
Wow. That was hot as fuck. I love sadism and being mean as fuck in bed. This guy definitely gets it. Did you see him again?
This is some next level story and i fucking loved it
Meh…
I don’t find you attractive, and I doubt that I would be able to execute the dom roll in this kind of situation, but damnit if this isn’t the hottest thing anyhow.
Taking notes and slinging tokes
Your writing is 🔥!!
Attractive? If I let my dog lick peanut butter off your ass I’d have to make them sleep outside. Try again
Um shit.. this is.. fuck you got me sooooohkt and hard omfg 😍😍😍😍😍😍🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🥵🤤🤤🤤🤤
I did degradation play with my last sub. I’d never done that before and it’s not in my make-up. I had her give me a list of words and phrases that she liked and what was off limits. (No mention of appearance, weight, etc.) It took about a year for me to get comfortable enough with it for it to sound natural and start going off-script. It’s a lot of fun now especially when I make her gush during PIV. What I found that really worked, for her, was to interrogate her about men that she’s fucked before. I’ll make her give me details while I point out that she was a slut, a cum-dump, etc.
The day I teach my SO how you do this, I will have a thousand orgasms a day.
Wow, such a hot story!
love hearing about this from the other perspective. sexual psychology is so fucking interesting to me
Question : do you think the lacklustre head on his part was part of the play? Acting disinterested? Would great head and you orgasm have lessened the experience?
You’re trash Brock
I like degradation, but you go way more hardcore degradation than I do haha.
1. Good for you.
2. Want to find men to degrade you over the longterm? Get involved with the some kink communities. Learn the rules a bit. I’ve never met any of my verbal punching bags in a “hookup pool” , though that might work a little through college. My advice is date some majors in writing and other wit/word related stuff. You’ll find one.
Have fun!
The fact you think you’re attractive makes you unattractive..
Great read, but this is what it means to degrade you personally. There is no true meaning of degradation, everyone has their own buttons—ones which cause incredible pleasure and others that shouldn’t be touched.
holy fuck. this is anazing. saving for later.
Well that got me hard as fuck… dunno about anyone else…
That’s cause it’s one phone call away from me being in a jail cell for having consensual sex…
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“Uh, okay… you’re… such a slut. You like that, slut?”
Gawd, that’s cringe. Or this:
“You’re a dirty girl sucking my dick like that.”
I’m a dirty girl? What, do I need a bath? Is that the goddamn best you can do?
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is this a common way for men to degrade? or is this just an exaggeration? because shit, if many other men degrade like this, I’m better than I thought I was.
Not into the degrading so much. Sure I like to be talked naughty to. But other than that, this was really well written. You didn’t describe obvious details of your surroundings, but I was able to visualize everything. And other than what was going on, I enjoyed that. Thank you!
damn, i bet you’d love to be in bed with gordon ramsay lmao
I enjoyed the story. I’m a Dom and sadist, and the idea of degredation like this is super hot. I’ve been into the idea of mentally breaking someone and putting them back together for awhile, but I do think you need to learn their strings first. Sounds like he had the right words and content that worked for you, but to a decent degree, that’s luck.
I think it’s fun earning how to really take someone apart first. If I had been in his position I would have taken it as a challenge but I would have also tried to understand what works well for you or what you fantasize about. Don’t want to hit words that trigger people and want good reviews, amirite? :)
You’re also gorgeous, so most men have a hard time because they get nervous.
Hopefully you’re ok with this, since now I spent some time playing with your flavor of degredation in my head. If not, my apologies.
As for my attention? You’re disgusting and not worth it, especially since you can’t even hold off on cumming. You should be able to accept the satisfaction of knowing you did your fucking job… but for some reason you think your pleasure matters? Sickening. He was watching tv, so why should he have to pay attention to a stain on the carpet?
Hopefully I got your flavor of degredation right? :).
This is why I read these stories. It’s hidden gems in each story if it’s detailed enough. Different positions. Various forms of degrading but this one takes the cake so far. I haven’t encountered this but I’m sure as hell taking some notes for the future!
It’s really kinda something you have to talk to your partner a out and communicate clearly what you want this guy loved disusting you probably have a word you like more example
I’ve met plenty of people who love being called a dirty slut you clearly don’t its alll preference and kinda near impossible to guess
Why do you think it’s cringe when someone isn’t instantly good at something they’ve likely never done before?
For the first time ever, I’ve just identified my kink, thank you, OP.
Glad to hear you found proper treatment 👏🏼