Roughly a year ago, a few months into the pandemic, my husband and mine’s relationship hit a sour point. We were spending too much time together as a result of remote working and constantly getting on eachothers’ nerves.
I also had started to watch some porn, mostly hotwife and swingers type porn.
I had always casually worn yoga pants but one time I went to the grocery store and the attention I got was off the charts, men and women alike.
We went to a resort one weekend and not many ppl seemed to be wearing masks or social distancing, and one night we went out for drinks and struck up a conversation with another couple.
After multiple rounds of mai tais and other tiki drinks the topic of yoga pants came up. I told the couple about how every grocery worker was super attentive with me and people treated me so nice, and my husband was like “what?? You never told me that!”
Fast forward to the next afternoon and we run into couple again and they invite us out for dinner and drinks. I wore some really tight black leggings when we went out and the other couple brought it up and were like “trying to get free drinks huh?”
Well, when my husband went to the bathroom, the couple were like “lemme feel your butt” and the wife was like massaging my butt and the husband was playing around with my cheeks and when they saw my husband on his way back they stopped.
Fast forward again and they offered very slyly to swap and my husband was like “wait … no I’m no ok with this”. He stormed off to the room and I followed him but not before the wife smacked my ass.
Long story short, I kept asking my husband that it could be fun but he was totally against it and blamed it on my pants. Naturally, it’s all I want to wear now.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ogoc3e/my_husband_hates_it_when_i_wear_yoga_pants_in
I think you should respect your husband’s wishes. You are his, and he is yours. Things like this will eventually break down the relationship. It’s the exclusivity of a marriage that makes love so special. You two are for each other, and I assume you vowed as such. You should ssek to honor your words, and his requests (as should he) when it comes to something to with sexuality. Sex is supposed to exclusive to one’s life partner.
What I am saying doesn’t have to be taken into consideration, but for you both I ask that you do. Doing sexual things outside of a marriage can really mess that other person up, and it sounds like it is starting to get him. Not to mention what it could do you without even realizing it! Please, be careful whatever you do.