Lately I like to exercise my JOI and tantric massage skills, I love to see a man asking for more and giving him what he needs, edge or rub their dick in my specific ways. The image of a slippery cock twitching for me gives me more pleasure that I could imagine. That’s why before phone sex I always tease and sext a bit, fire the things up, make sure that man will cum a lot for me. My best record was when a man cum in 10 min just from my JOI. Imagine to add a dildo sucking. Did I mention that I am good at deep throating. It is after all part from my JOI vids, I like being in control and make sure I will provoke a lot of pleasure :)
Source: reddit.com/r/eroticliterature/comments/nhoo9s/i_love_to_control_a_man_orgasm_f4m
Definitely agree with the sexting prior part. I think knowing ahead of time and having some time to build things up can makes any sexual experience so much better.