Am I the Asshole for Not Paying my Ex for Sex [MF]

Disclaimer: This is not my story, but a crazy story a friend recently shared with me. I am a reddit user and fan so I asked them to document it for posting. This is NOT a throwaway account.

~♡~The Story~♡~

I can imagine that the title stands out. Okay so this is what happened. I (23m) occasionally text my ex (21f). She would sometimes hint at the possibility of us having sex sometimes, of course with no strings attached. Let me also mention that she does have a boyfriend(24-26?) and a kid (3) with that same boyfriend.

We were texting and I straight up asked about her coming over or if I could see her and she said I would have to pay her $150 for her company and she was dead serious. She even made it clear that she has no problem cheating on her man if she’ll be paid for it. I have a shit job so I’m making like $200 fortnightly so I thought that was way too ridiculous to consider. But I played along and spoke as if I would be okay with it. She said I should send half the money to her account like it’s some sort of down payment on the coochie and the next half after we smash. I told her I won’t be sending any money but I will pay in cash after the dirty deed was done and she agreed.

The next day I drove and we met up early. By the way she left her kid home alone. She hopped in the car and I drove to a secluded enough spot. She asked to see the money first and I showed her the cash, she wanted me to put it in her bag so she would be more certain that I’m not trying to scam her. I reluctantly put my whole wallet in her bag and put her bag on the dashboard. We then got around the back of the car and I started to fondle her and strip. We started having sex and continued for about 15 minutes until I busted a nut.
I put my clothes back on as she was wiping up then I hurriedly went to the front of the car and removed my wallet from her bag. She got dressed and came to the front and asked for the money and then I laughed and told her that there’s no way I’m spending that much money on 15 minutes of coochie. She thought I was joking for a while then when she saw that I was serious she started to get pissed and told me that she has plans for that money and she needs to go shopping especially since there was going to be a COVID lockdown for the weekend. She made it clear that she was not leaving until she got HER money. I drove to a plaza and told her that I’ll go to the ATM and she should come to the ATM with me so that she’ll get the money. She told me that she was not going to exit the car and that I should go to the ATM alone and come back with the money so that she could go on her merry way. I guess she saw through my plan cause I was definitely planning on getting in the car and getting the hell outta there.

We were at a stalemate for about 20 minutes there. I resisted the temptation of dragging her out of the car because the plaza has a great amount of people around, including security guards; and I can imagine that a guy dragging a woman out a car would attract a lot of attention and videos being recorded. I got back in the car and drove to a bus stop that was somewhat more private because the roads were mostly clear. We were still pretty much at a stalemate with her refusing to leave until she got her money and me refusing to give that ridiculous amount of money.

I got out the car and went to the passenger side and tried to tug her out the car and she climbed over to the back, I then went in the back of the car with her and opened the door from the inside and proceeded to push her out. We were tussling for a few minutes, I held back in an attempt to not cause bodily harm or damage the car. She started crying and eventually fell out. I got out and locked the doors immediately to prevent her from getting in. She attempted to pull the passenger door but failed. So the first part of my mission to get her out was a success, now I just needed to drive away.

She was not letting go of the passenger handle, if I tried to get in the driver seat then obviously all the doors would be unlocked and she would just end up inside all over again. So I had to think of a way to get in without her getting in. So I pulled the trunk and dropped the back seats and hopped in and closed the trunk, then I climbed to the driver seat. So now I was safely inside while she was outside tugging at the handle. I started the car and drove off ASAP. Then I blocked her on social media and calls/SMS to prevent hearing anything from her ever again. In the night I did unblock her for a minute to check if she had blocked me too and it seemed she did.

~♡~ Story ends ~♡~

P.S. Was going to originally post on r/AITA but the rules seem to prohibit this category.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/mp4pje/am_i_the_asshole_for_not_paying_my_ex_for_sex_mf