If you’ve read my earlier post entitled ‘My go-to move when performing cunnilingus,’ you know that I would subtly turn my body to cum somewhere on my partner’s body when getting a hand job while going down on her. Perhaps that was sneaky and ungentlemanly, but where I always tried to be a gentleman was with head. If I were getting a blow job, either on its own or in conjunction with 69, I would always announce before ejaculation, except this one time …
I was on a double date with my friend, a woman he was dating, and a friend of his girlfriend’s. My buddy told me his girlfriend’s friend told her, “He’s kind of a nerd. Maybe if I was really drunk I’d hook up with him.” Sure enough she got pretty drunk that evening and ended up coming back to my apartment. We got naked, she sat on my face, and we started 69-ing. Her blow job was more than competent and I felt like I was ready to cum. In all prior instances (and frankly all blow jobs that followed) I would announce, “I’m cumming,” (or some alternative warning), but with this woman because I didn’t care for her earlier comment I thought, “I’m just going to remain silent and ejaculate in her mouth.” I orgasmed, ejaculated no less than seven spurts of semen, and she swallowed with no complaint or comment. I just felt badly afterwards because: a.) Even though she didn’t mind, it was mysogynistic to break from my regular pattern, and not give her the choice to swallow or stroke; and b.) She was pretty drunk so I also felt like I was taking advantage of her inebriation. I didn’t share any of this with her because she did not seem to have an issue with its why raise one, but I always thought it was ungentlemanly of me.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/mgqtkh/the_one_time_i_m_did_not_announce_before_a_f_got