So, I’m 28 with 2 kids. My husband and I are happily married. To be honest the sex is rather vanilla but I normally don’t mind.
Since the gym opened back up I’ve been going alot more, and staying longer than usual. So I’ve started getting to know some of the other people. And to be clear I talk about my husband alot and always wear my ring.
On guy in particular seems to have the same schedule as me. He is athletic and tall a little more muscular than I normally am attracted to. Certainly more than my husband. Anyway he also can’t walk around in his workout shorts without everyone noticing his bulge.
Normally I don’t really care about size my husband is only about 4″ so when I see this guy is bigger than him soft I catch my self staring.
I’ve tried to keep it platonic but he is a massive flirt and he’s probably noticed me staring. It doesn’t help that I’ve started watching bbc and large cock videos, even started looking into hotwife/cuckolding lifestyles while I release tension.
Anyway, he has started offering to help me stretch and spot me on some of the free weights. He always gets this shit eating grin when I get all red when he stands over me with his package so close. I leave the gym now wet and horny as hell I barely get home before my hand is on my clit. I think he is teasing me pushing me to see how turned on he can make me.
And to be honest I love it, I’ve never thought about cheating but God I want to so bad. But maybe I’m just easily turned on. I don’t know
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/mg5h6x/fm_am_i_over_thinking
Hey. Give it a shot. You know he won’t deny you. Just keep it sexual and don’t let it ruin your marriage. Start to tease the guy back. Accidental rubs here and there.
A great way to ruin a marriage is by spoiling your fun with your husband from going after a guy who will eventually leave you for someone better. Don’t do this. Figure out how to get your husband more involved with satisfying your needs.
Let him get you worked up and go home and fuck your husband. Fucking this guy will be fun, but it will fuck your marriage too
Great story. Turned on and cumming is fun. Easy to make the next step. But be patient with your thoughts.
I’d say you’re not thinking at all. Instead, you’re listening to the more emotional part of yourself. And that is great. Probably what you need.
These erotic feelings, so powerful and all encompassing, may be your psyche’s way of asking for more attention from you toward you. You, the healthy, attractive, young woman, an individual, not a wife or mother or daughter, sister, cousin or friend. You, the female with sensitive breasts a more sensitive vagina, and an even more sensitive clitoris, with needs and wants, hopes and dreams, many that have not yet been explored.
My recommendation is that you set aside some time each day that’s just for you. There’s the gym of course, but now you have a distraction there. So something else, a walk, meditation, a drive, perhaps five minutes without your phone in a local garden or a cup of tea before bed. Something that helps you feel more like yourself. A few moments wrapped up in your womanhood, like a perfectly fitting dress or a comfy sweater.
Do this regularly and allow the inner you that’s yearning to become known to come out. She’s got surprises you don’t realize are just below the surface. As you discover them, the next steps in your life will become more clear. If it’s to be a torrid affair with the guy at the gym, so be it. If it’s to be consensual flirting with no lines crossed, that’s fine too. Whatever you choose, be true to yourself.
I agree with most of the comments here. Set a boundary and don’t cross it. If that is unbearable then maybe you should not hang out with your friend.
If this is the beginning of a cuckhold fantasm, then good story.