So I’ve posted all lot of a stories of my sexual exploration and evolution from the time I was 20 to when I started exploring the hotwife lifestyle. My stories have been mainly focused on specific experiences and I try and share as much details as possible because that seems to be appreciated but it also excites me to share. ???
But a lot of people have asked different questions about the broader details of my sex life so I’ll try to address that and where I am now in my sexual evolution.
The one thing I can say is that becoming a hotwife has been the most amazing part of my evolution and the lifestyle I categorize myself as being in currently. During the time my husband and I predominately explored the swinger lifestyle (which we still do) my experiences with guys were not many. I only slept with 3 new men during that time. My husband connected with the wives more than I did with the husbands. But he also discovered becoming a bull in some hotwife scenarios with other couples. Because of that he connected with at least 12-15 other women, which is why we began dabbling in my exploration of the hotwife lifestyle myself.
We love the swinging lifestyle and there is nothing hotter than sharing each other with another hot couple we connect with. But finding that 4 way connection where everything just clicks for all 4 people is more difficult than most people might think. We love sharing each other and watching each other with other people but we have found that we still find great excitement and pleasure from exploring on our own and sharing details with each other after. And that has opened a much easier way of finding the right people, individually, to connect with.
Once I started to dabble in being a hotwife though I did fall in love with it completely and as I have always been with things that provide me with euphoric sexual pleasure, I let myself explore it to the fullest. And my husband Evan is incredibly supportive of it all. After my first hotwife experience 4 years ago with a hot US military man I have had many more hotwife experiences. I’m 32 now and have been lucky enough to fuck 31 new hot guys as a hotwife. Most of which were all in my first three years as this past year has been rather tame, quiet and a year where we focused on ourselves, our health and our safety.
During those 3 years I joined websites, created hotwife profiles, continued to chat online with US military men overseas, flirted with men at the gym, hotel bars when I traveled, always dressed sexy and striking, often wore an anklet which is seen by many as a signature sign that a woman is in an open relationship. And I’ve never taken off my wedding rings. I’ve had many threesomes with Evan and other men, fucked 5 other military guys I met chatting online when they returned home from deployment, I fucked guys in hotels almost every time I traveled alone for work, fucked guys in my truck in the parking lot at the gym, fucked guys we met while traveling to tropical destinations…..
I became immersed in being a hotwife, I loved it, I loved getting slutty, and I especially loved having Evan reclaim me after my adventures. Most of the guys I met, other than the guys I met while traveling for work or when we traveled to tropical destinations, became regular sexual partners for me. I fucked my chiropractor, my personal trainer, two of the bartenders from the local bar we always went to……. and I fucked them often. When it comes to having sex with other men, there is nothing I love more than having them cum inside me. Something about letting another man fill my married pussy just elevates the entire experience to the next level. I generally only fuck men I have gotten to know well and see frequently without condoms however. Most first experiences and random one time events involve condoms. I do have an immense weakness for big cocks, and even if it’s the first or only time with a guy that is hung, (8” or more) I do generally find myself pulling the condom off in the heat of the moment if the sex is good so I can feel that big cock bare. I love fucking local guys and then heading home to Evan, and having him fuck me like a total slut while I tell him all the naughty details. This has always been my favourite part about fucking other men.
We don’t live in California anymore, that’s a long story, but while we did is when being a hotwife developed quickly and was the hottest for me. I would have sex with at least 2 or 3 different men other than my husband in any given week. Some of them I’d sometimes fuck daily. It was amazing, I miss being able to jump on opportunities easily, having access to a lot more men I found attractive and living in a sexy and sexually elevated state of mind just because of where we lived.
We live in Canada now, and have been now for almost 2 years. We have lived in 2 major cities since and I’ve found exploring the hotwife lifestyle here is not as easy. It does not help that more than half the time we have lived here we have lived in a pandemic. Not to say I have not had great experiences. Because I have. But it’s
different.
The last year has been especially different of course. We moved away from our place in the big city when the pandemic hit and settled into our remote cottage in the middle of nowhere to ride out the chaos. But it’s been a year now and we have embraced living at the cottage and only head back to our place in the city when absolutely necessary to check on things as the city is still in lockdown.
I still however have met a couple of hot guys from the bigger town closest to our cottage, but it’s still 1 hour away lol, so I’ll sometimes head to town alone for groceries and supplies just so I can meet up with one of them and get fucked for some afternoon fun. Those experiences are few and far between for my liking though. Maybe once a month if I’m lucky. So in the last 4 months I have sometimes fucked two of them the same day when I go to town because I want it so bad and I want to get as much as I can during my limited opportunities.
Living in the city definitely allowed me more opportunities to get naughty and be a hotwife because we are able to lead a very social life. Which we love and miss. And currently living at the cottage limits those opportunities. So I am anxious to hopefully return to normal life. Return to going out, hitting pubs and bars and clubs, meeting men, hitting the gym and flirting with new guys and hopefully meet a few more hot guys to get naked with. ??
In a nutshell I guess this captures my life as a hotwife and where I am at in my sexual evolution. I still have some memorable experiences I will share in detail with you guys as I have been doing.
I have had a few hotwife experiences that are worth sharing and it seems everyone is appreciative of the details I share as well, plus I do enjoy writing them. ?☺️?
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/m81tvw/f32_my_last_4_years_as_a_hotwife
Your stories are so hot, I can’t wait for your next one
I love hearing your stories but what strikes me the most is how happy you and your husband are. I think it is great that you have the type of relationship that allows you to embrace who you both are fully. I hope that once the pandemic ends that things will pick up again for you!