I’d like to talk to someone about my experience watching my girlfriend cheat on me. Hopefully I’m not too long winded, but the details help me relive it, and hopefully understand it. I’d love to talk to girls who find this interesting, and maybe have a different perspective than me on what happened. Maybe you’ve done something similar, or fantasize about it. I could talk to guys, too. I know this is kind of a fetish for some people. Even though it happened to me unexpectedly.
This happened when I had been dating an absolutely wonderful girl for more than two years. She’s super fun, cute, artistic, popular and she’s a dancer with an amazing body. We met in college and our relationship has always been great, We’ve talked about potentially getting married a few years down the line.
She’s always gotten lots of attention from guys, and I’d gotten used to it. It actually was a joke among our friends how often guys would hit on her, and she made a game sometimes of turning them down or giving them the wrong number. She wasn’t mean about it, it just happened so often that it annoyed her and she had fun with it.
So I was pretty oblivious when a new guy entered the picture. I thought he was just a new guy in our friend group. He got a lot of attention from girls for his good looks, muscular body, and cocky personality, but he was essentially a player. It was pretty obvious that he made a habit of picking up girls just for sex, and my girlfriend commented more than once that that was gross, and that he was a jerk.
I’m happy to be more detailed and answer any questions. But the short version of the story is we were out drinking one night and he was flirting with my girlfriend. I ended up leaving to give someone else a ride across town, but that got cancelled and I came back to a party after having left. The party had died down and the guy was flirting hard with my girlfriend and she was responding. Still, I thought she would turn him down and it would be fun to watch without them knowing I was there. Unfortunately, what I was actually watching was my girlfriend getting seduced and before I knew it she was giving in to him. I didn’t know what to do, and I ended up remaining hidden while I watched them fool around and then have sex.
Pm me if you want to talk about this, and about what happened afterwards! Introduce yourself and ask me anything
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/m6me1v/m_i_watched_my_girlfriend_f_cheat
Did your girl friend ever tell you about it?
Have you told her you’ve seen all yet
Had she done it with other men then or same guy.
You like it or don’t like it y’all still together
She saying why she is doing it
so did you actually see them have sex?
Looking at the comments, the only thing I can give you on the way is that you need some time for yourself to think about if that relationship is actually worth it, since she did it multiple times. The other thing is, that you need to talk to your girlfriend openly about how you feel about it. Maybe not in this particular order, but that’s up to you.
You can feel free to DM me if you don’t know what else to do.
Either this is made up or your mentally challenged