This happened a few days ago and I needed time to process things lol.
I won’t lie, I have jerked off to my best friend’s Instagram and facebook pictures.
We re connected during COVID last year, and went out to eat recently to catch up. Silly me, I didn’t realise the cafe was not open on a Monday, so we went to a pub instead to eat and have some beers (wine for her). She was giggly and constantly touching my back which felt good…weirdly.
We took an uber back to her place and she had some leftover jelly and custard that we ate, so I thought nothing was going down :(
Wasn’t until after a few wines and dessert (she LOVES wine) that we took a selfie together for her collection. She kinda moved so my hand was touching her boobs a bit and leaned into me form the side and kissed my cheek.
I had a massive boner the whole time, being near her and she smelt so good (girls perfume is nice). She got on top of me to make out a bit and I grinded on her. She moaned a bit.
Now this is where I kinda saved myself:
She gave me a handjob and kissed me for a bit, and I was moaning because I never ever imagined this would happen. I was already ready to cum for her just from a HJ…
I kissed her body and she wanted me to fuck her. I went in and I could feel after a few minutes I was gonna cum, and I just said “ahh you feel so good” but I wanted it to last so I pulled out and ate her for 5-10 minutes while she moved her hips with my tongue.
I find her incredibly attractive and I knew I didn’t want to let her down, so I fingered her and teased her a bit. I got her in doggy again and went so fast that it sounded like a 1 man applause with me moaning her name. I came inside her and my last words were “fuck…” and she cracked up and playfully hit me.
Looks like I just got a FWB. Gonna need to learn to compose myself for her because I was already gonna blow and disappoint her after 2 minutes.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ls1n2j/i_m_just_had_sex_with_my_long_time_best_friend_f
Good for you on boning your friend. Sounds like it worked out well for both of you.
The sooner you get out of your own head and get over your anxiety about pleasing her/lasting longer then you will last a lot longer as performance/anxiety loops are self-fulfilling (i.e. the more you worry about it then the worse it gets).
You have already proved to her that you can get hard again after the HJ and you’ve gone down on her/fingered her to please her, so you aren’t selfish in bed. Ask her what she likes when you are going down on her and fingering her. Some women like it slower, others faster. Some girls love a finger or two up their ass as well. Experiment.
Here’s a strategy. Next time you see her, tell her that you have been thinking about her hot body and how horny she makes you that you need her suck your cock right then. Tell her what you want and be dominant but not demanding. She will (highly likely) be down for it and will be turned on by your desire.
After you blow your load, return the favor and suck on her clit and tease her g-spot with the “come here” motion until she comes. You can probably get hard again in the interim and after she comes, she won’t care very much if you last 1 minute or 15 minutes.
Why just a FWB, why not a GF?
What could be better than advancing a relationship to romantic with your best friend.
I’ve been married to my best friend for over 40 years.