My ex-girlfriend was a sexsomniac [FM]

This is a completely true story, and one of my fondest sexual memories.

I dated a girl for a year and a half who was a sexsomniac.

I used to have no idea what a sexsomniac was, and if someone had told me, I wouldn’t have believed it was a real thing. But apparently it is, as I would soon learn first hand. For the record, a sexsomniac is someone who participates in sexual activities when they are asleep. It could be masturbating, oral sex, or actual physical sex – all while they’re asleep and have little to no recollection of the sex act they performed. It’s not well-understood, and it only affects a very small percentage of people.

Now, on to my situation. My girlfriend at the time was a cute asian girl in her 20s (I was also in my 20s). She was just over 5 feet tall and had a very sensual, goth vibe. She had a gorgeous body, pierced nipples and tattoos, and hid it all behind baggy black clothing. I was blown away when I saw her naked for the first time. For all the issues our relationship had, our sex life definitely wasn’t one of them. She had a very high sex drive and we had a good time in the bedroom, sometimes even bringing other women in with us.

Still, what stood out as the most exciting part of our sex life was when I was the “victim” of her sexsomnia, which I did not know about when we started dating. Her normal blowjobs (i.e. when we were both wide-awake) were good, but one night she gave me head in her sleep, and it introduced me to a level of oral pleasure I didn’t think was possible.

The first time this happened, we had been dating for almost a year. We were asleep in my bed. I was in the middle of a dream, and the dream suddenly turned very sexual. I awakened, blinked the sleep out of my eyes and looked down to a sight I will never forget as long as I live. My girlfriend – to put it bluntly – was attacking my cock like a wild animal. She was aggressively and violently throat-fucking me without pause, from tip to nuts, over and over and over with no regard for herself whatsoever. Her throat made a loud, sloppy gagging sound that she didn’t make normally, and my cock and balls were coated with a thick layer of spit that was running down my ass and sloshing around on the sheets. Since I was still in that groggy “I just woke up” phase, my brain could literally not think or perform any function other than processing the profound sexual pleasure I was currently experiencing, which seemed to be magnified way beyond what I normally experienced while receiving head. My penis was rock hard and I was already trying to stop myself from cumming.

She was too good, and I might have lasted a minute tops. The intense stimulation, the thrill of waking up to a nasty blowjob, and the overall naughty feeling of the whole ordeal, I couldn’t hold back any longer. I grabbed the sheets, clenched my toes, and grunted as I shot an enormous and immensely satisfying load down her throat while she kept deepthroating me. It was simply the best orgasm of my life, it must have been at least 10 solid ropes and it was so good my entire body was warm and tingling and pulsated with the waves of pleasure. I danced in the clouds, saw angels, and literally felt a few years younger after I finished. Because she was asleep (which I didn’t know at the time), she couldn’t tell I had cum, and she kept sucking my limp member like this until I forcefully pulled it out of her mouth because I get very sensitive after I cum. I kissed her and thanked her, and went back to sleep wondering “what just happened, that’s not how she normally sucks my dick, did she get possessed by the goth demon of deepthroat dick sucking?”

The next morning, I woke up and made her breakfast to show my appreciation, and I thanked her again for the blowjob. Confused, she asked “wait, did I blow you last night?” I was like yeah, you woke me up at 4AM to suck my dick and it was incredible, don’t you remember? Her eyes widened as she realized what had happened “oh my god…I’m sorry, I should let you know…..I’m a sexsomniac, so sometimes I do stuff like that when I’m asleep. Is that a problem? Do you mind?” I had to ask her to repeat herself because I was having trouble processing what I just heard, but when I realized what she meant and that she had done that all in her sleep, it felt even hotter for some reason. ……….uhhh fuck no, I don’t mind babe, you can do it every night if you want. “Ok” she said, “it’ll probably happen from time to time then, it only happens when I’m really comfortable around my partner. Just enjoy it I guess.”

She blew me in her sleep several more times during our relationship. It was exciting falling asleep and never knowing if I’d wake up to her going down on me. We eventually ended things because we fought too much and it became mentally draining for both of us. But I miss her sexsomnia blowjobs and think about them all the time. We still stay in touch from time to time, so who knows what’ll happen in the future.

Covid has me lonely and going back through my memories, so I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I enjoyed reliving it :)

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/lcopqo/my_exgirlfriend_was_a_sexsomniac_fm

4 comments

  1. I think I might be one too… sometimes I wake up and we’re already going at it and later she insists that I woke her up and my groping her and stuff. I never remember the beginning so it’s an odd experience but very nice with a loving partner

  2. That happened to me once, but only once.

    With my first boyfriend I apparently started aggressively sucking his cock in my sleep. It was just like your girlfriend too, sloppy and almost violent just attacking his cock.

    This was strange for me because his dick was BIG like ten inches with a pronounced curve to the left.

    Apparently he figured out I wasn’t conscious or just tried to stop me cause he woke me up. Waking up with a dick in your throat is a starting experience let me tell you what.

    Once I realized what had happened I finished him off; never leave your man with blue balls.

    Wish it had happened again but it never did.

  3. The ex I’ve written about in a few of my true-life tales in this very subreddit had a few bouts of sexsomnia while we were together. Most of them were just me waking up to her aggressively jacking me off in her sleep while humping my leg or fingering herself, and one amazingly sloppy blowjob (seems to be a trend in these things?), but I once woke up to her riding me like some kind of demon-possessed beast, grunting and groaning to wake the dead. I just ran with it, and when she finally woke up (from her own orgasm), she just blinked at me, asked “did I just…?”

    I asked “Want me to return the favor?” rolled her over underneath me before she could answer, and railed her until we both came messily and noisily. She curled up in a little ball and slept more soundly than she had in weeks.

    Sometimes surprises can be good.

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