[MF] former coworker wants me to have sex with her…with some interesting conditions

So I get a text last week from a girl I used to work with a few years back. We were pretty close work friends, hung out a couple times outside of work, got drinks with the coworkers pretty often. But when she left for a different job we drifted pretty fast, you know how it goes. There wasn’t anything romantic or anything, she had a boyfriend the whole time I knew her (they got engaged just before she left), but we got along nicely.

I hadn’t talked to her in at least a year when she texted last weekend asking to catch up and do zoom coffee. This sounded nice to me, I did want to catch up. I’ve actually had a lot of these zoom catch-ups with people I haven’t seen in awhile during the pandemic, so I figured this was another one of those. Wrong!

We talked about the usual things old friends would, stuff at work, how the pandemic has been, relationships. She said a little about their wedding and I joked about being single. Normal coffee talk. She seemed to be in a good place and thriving and I told her as much. The conversation dwindled and I thought we were about to hang up when she brought her husband on to say hi.

I’ve met him a few times, seemed like a fine guy, though we didn’t have much to say to each other then or now. There was a moment of silence where I was sure we were about to hang up. I was watching her face and in retrospect it looked like she was contemplating something. Then she started talking.

She said before I hung up there was something they wanted to ask me. Then she asked if I was alone. When I said I was she continued, and asked me not to say anything until they were finished. She took a deep breath and said something like this, slowly and with a lot of pauses:

“I’m just gonna be as direct with this as I can. So, basically, we’re experimenting with our sex life. We’re thinking about involving a third person in certain specific contexts, and we wanted someone we… trusted. And wanted to gauge your interest in potentially.. being that person.”

And then he chimed in.

“Basically, this would involve you having sex with <her name> in controlled situations that we agree on. So there’s some other details to that we’d have to talk about. But we realize this is kinda a weird thing to ask..”

She seemed to want to reassure me.

“There is NO pressure here, I totally get it if it’s not your thing.”

“That being said…”

“Do you think you’d be potentially interested in this?”

Naturally my heart was pounding and I was completely dumbfounded. If you hadn’t guessed by now yes I’m attracted to her and yes I noticed back when we worked together. Definitely would have tried something if she hadn’t been taken. Did I mention how good she looked on this call? I rarely saw her even with her hair down back in the day but she was all made up for this. When I said she was thriving I meant it.

Anyway I was terrified this was some kind of joke or trap. She never struck me as the type that would pull a joke like this, and they seemed so serious about it. I asked in the flattest way possible if she was serious.

“Yes.”

I can feel my face flushing at this point because they can obviously see that I’m considering it, but I ask,

“Um… How do I know?”

They sat for a second and he leaned over and whispered in her ear. She looked at him for a second, then she looked back at the computer and pulled her shirt up. She flashed me right on camera for a solid two seconds and pulled her shirt back down. Definitely enjoyed that. Definitely some boobs I’d imagined seeing several times before. Definitely serious. Knowing her, there was no way this was a setup, this was way too far for a joke.

“We’re not joking about this <my name>.”

“…Clearly.”

“So what do you think? You interested?”

“Uh, yeah.”

“Cool. We gotta go, but I’ll text you later to start discussing.”

“Alright.”

Things had kinda taken on a serious tone but she perked up again at the end.

“Bye!”

“See ya.”

And they hung up.

This was last week, and there have definitely been developments since. It’s getting late but if people are interested at some point I’ll add what’s happened (the texting she mentioned and future plans). There’s some interesting things to share about the “certain specific contexts”. Suffice it to say I’ve been extremely turned on thinking about this, and can’t really share with anyone I know. In some ways it is in fact too good to be true, but it’s still really appealing (can explain later). Right now I’m pretty sure it’s gonna happen, and I’m gonna get to just randomly have sex with a girl I lowkey had a crush on for years. And she and her husband are totally cool about it. Not a bad deal, somebody please stop me if this is a terrible idea.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ktkdnj/mf_former_coworker_wants_me_to_have_sex_with

61 comments

  5. Could be a bad idea if you care about her and her relationship but from the sounds of it they are both into the idea of testing bounds. What would you have to lose if you do it? I have done it with conditions but they were not ever spoken to me and I crossed them. Go for it and write it out when you want to.

  8. Based on how she acted on the call when the subject came up, do you have any concerns that this is his idea more than hers, and she’s just going along with it for his sake? If I were in your position I’d make sure to get some time with her alone before anything happens, and really explore that thought with her. I wouldn’t want to go ahead unless there was 100% consent on her part.

  11. I would upvote this but don’t wanna ruin the great number so I’ll comment instead. Should definitely go for it by the way

  15. What are the specific rules? Sounds like those would be the “make or break” details.

  16. Gotta say that is awesome. Congrats on being the one she chose. Look forward to the updates!

  18. I would definitely do it. An experience for the both of you. And maybe she has a crush on you too

  19. My wife and I play with a very few selected friends like this. As long as you’re into it and you’re 100% sure both of them are into it then enjoy and have fun. It makes life more interesting for all of you and is also a good way to bond with friends.

    As for whether it was entirely his idea I very much doubt that. Why? Because he barely knew you so it must’ve been her who thought of you when they decided to open their sex life to others. Speaking from experience, that doesn’t happen out of the blue. You quietly noticed her and, in hindsight, she quietly noticed you.

  25. I’m currently in a situation like yours, having sex with a married woman with her husband’s enthusiastic consent.
    Just remember that it is about their relationship. You are there to help them explore their relationship, their desires, their fantasies. And you get to fuck a beautiful girl.

    Have fun!

  29. Looking forward to seeing the update with the specific conditions and how it goes. If you share it, could you please post a link here so we don’t miss it?

  30. As long as everybody’s in the same page and you’re all communicating honestly and open about it I don’t see why you wouldn’t do this.

  36. I’d go for it.
    Basically if you know her to not be an 8+ on the crazy scale, it could be a while lot of fun. If you don’t do it, you will wish you had later on

  39. Do eeeiiiiittttt!!!

    Some guys get all the luck!

    Wish you the best!

    Have fun & be safe!

  41. Sounds like fun. Could be the husband doesn’t quite measure up, ahem, and he just wants to give his wife a “fuller” experience. OP are you visibly packing or are there rumors of your tool? Are there pictures? Heeheehee.

    I say go for it but have your own hard boundaries. Since this is a new experience for you, it’s ok to reassess them periodically, but be very careful if you adjust them. Never underestimate the POWer of the pussy.

  45. Yolo playboi- if he ain’t trying to kill you in a weird fantasy scenario, you’re gravy

  50. Go for it. I’ve done with couples before and it’s great. Just remember your role — as a third — and try to both fuck/make love to her in a way that she loves, but also in a way that her husband loves to watch.

    “Include” him by doing the things he likes to watch, or doing in positions amenable to his watching. That’ll keep getting you invited back.

  52. This is a great idea! Please tell us more… YOLO my good, man. Have fun in this life cuz with the way things are going… you gotta have fun

  53. Go for it man. Your both consenting adults there is no sneaking around. Enjoy it. I would love to hear more the details. Via a part 2.

  54. You can’t just say there are a bunch more details and not give them..lol. I, like most of the responders, are very interested about what was said and the conditions.

  55. She trusted you enough to ask you, and her husband was present. The hesitation sounds to me like nerves. Just communicate any concerns and be open and honest.

    You’re one lucky fucker. ?

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