My first ONS in over 17 years – with a younger man! [F] 45 and [M] 36.

I had broken it off with my husband, for the final time, after approximately 17 years together. Things weren’t ever going to change. In fact, they had gotten worse.

I joined Bumble soon after, as I hadn’t wanted my ex to be the last man I had been with. I didn’t really expect much, the dead bedroom marriage I had been in left me feeling decidedly unsexy and unattractive. I’m a 45yo woman and I figured I was probably older, than the preference of most men on Bumble. To my surprise, I got a lot of likes. Ranging from their 20s to 50s. I had always been attracted to slightly younger men, so I thought – Hmm why not?

I swiped right on this gorgeous 36 year old (Let’s name him Dan), he was in neuro computing and he had a runners lean muscular body. I figured he wouldn’t swipe on me, but it was nice to dream, right? I have a bit of a thing for intelligent men, their minds tend to turn me on. And one wrapped in that package? I was eager to see if it could lead to what I wanted. I received a notification of a match and it was Dan!

We chatted a lot about everything from atheism, to how our brains and computing work, to different views on politics and art. He was very impressed with my career and I was with his. I was definitely attracted. Things started taking a bit of a dirtier turn, I sent him voice messages and he loved how I sounded. We talked about what we would like in bed and we seemed compatible. We made plans to meet one evening, he owned an apartment in Sydney city.

I got myself ready, nervously. Shaved, did my hair and make up and my favourite tight black dress, underneath was some racy red lingerie. I wore black and white sneakers with it for comfort, as I had wanted to walk around the city a little at first. I bought some bottle of my favourite Soju, as I needed a little Dutch courage. It was going to be the first time, in a long time to be seeing a new naked male in front of me. Especially one so hot!

He rang me to ask where I was, whilst I was walking near the art gallery. A homeless man asked for money and as I had a few dollars, I gave them to him. He asked what I was doing that night? Was I going to a club? I laughed and said no, I’m too old for that. He looked surprised and said you’re only 35 aren’t you? I laughed again and said I wish, but I’m 45, see you later. As I walked away I smiled.

Dan came up the path towards me, as soon as we met, we kissed. It was so hot. I was 5’2 to his 6’, I felt so small. We walked over to this ivy covered small building. I leaned against it as he pointed his apartment out, it had a green light glowing inside. Then he turned around, pressing his body to mine and kissed me hungrily. His hands on my waist at first, then gently roaming over one breast and the other to my hips. He told me he had a fantasy of having sex there. I was far too shy, I put my head down, blushing and said maybe we should go inside. I was too nervous in such a public spot.

We walked over the road, holding hands. It was sweet. We got inside his building and up the elevator to his floor and then his apartment. I’d had a few gulps of Soju on my way through the park and it was warming me up.

I had also brought my bag of sex toys. Just some butt plugs, my small clit vibe and a vibrator, just in case. Along with plenty of lubricant and condoms. I put the black bag on his chair and he helped me to take my coat off. We kissed again, it was electric. I took my shoes off and pulled my black dress over my body. I was so nervous still. I wondered if he would still find me attractive as I stood there in my red cut-out lingerie. My breasts spilled over the top and the material was cut out from the sides, matching the curves of my waist and hips. It was also crotchless. I decided I wanted to keep it on and he was happy to for me to do so.

He took his clothes off quickly, his smooth body, naked before me. And an 8” cock, fully erect pointing at me! I got on my knees and took as much of him into my mouth as I could. It was beautiful. I licked up from his balls to the tip, swirled my tongue around the head and enclosed him inside my wet mouth again. I sucked and licked for a while. He closed his eyes and groaned, then grabbed my arms. He pulled me up to kiss me deeply, once again and lifted me easily, to put me down on his bed. I had grabbed the condom and I tried to put it on his erect cock, but it was too tight so he had to get one of his own. I laid there, with my legs spread and watched him. I was already soaking and so excited for what was to come.

He rejoined me on the bed, kissing, there was so much kissing. I stroked his body with my hands and we rolled, until I was on top. Fuck I was wet. It surprised him how tight my little pussy was, as he entered me. He pulled my large breasts out of the top of my lingerie and devoured them, with his eager mouth. I rode him and rode him and rode him until he came, for the first time with me.

We took a small break, laying on the bed entwined. I was enjoying just touching him. The taut muscle on the type of body, that only runners have. I kissed his chest, his neck and his mouth again, he told me he loved how sensuous I was. He also got a kick out of me being 45, to his 36 years. I admit, I got a slight kick out of it too. Then he took over and brought me to the side of the bed, so he could kneel on the floor to taste and lick me. His tongue sensually gliding from my arse, dipping inside my pussy and onto my clit. He softly sucked there, alternating with flicks and swirls. It was good, but I knew I wouldn’t be able to cum. I brought him back up to me and we kissed again. I could taste myself on his soft lips and tongue. He grabbed another condom and we started fucking in missionary style, but with my legs up. My favourite position. He started slowly, until I started talking dirty to him. “Fuck me Dan, hard with that big cock of yours” I moaned. He loved it, picking up his pace. “Do you love fucking an older woman Dan? Do you love being the first new man in 17 years?” He looked into my eyes and kissed me hard, we had so much desire for each other. “I love your hot cock Dan, inside my tight wet pussy, is it good?” He groaned and nodded his head, and came again.

Again we cuddled. Kissing and touching each other and talking. We decided we would need dinner, before round three. He ordered in a gourmet pizza and we drank the Soju, I finished mine off.

I had douched myself earlier in the evening at home, as I had anticipated getting anal. My ex was a lot smaller, so I wasn’t sure how I’d go. I got my small butt plug out and inserted it, with lashings of lube. He positioned himself so he could see the strokes of me pushing and pulling it out, his fingers rubbing my clit. Another condom on and he entered my wetness, as I put my tiny vibe on my clit. I tightened and I could hear him say “Oh fuck”. It was obvious just how much he was enjoying the sensations. He asked if he could put his cock in my arse and I smiled, hoping he would want to. I removed the plug slowly and put it on some plastic I had nearby. His cock was coated in my juices.

I told him that he needed to take it slowly at first, as I’d never had anything so big up there. I was being stretched, inch by inch. He moved gently, sliding in and out as my arse took more and more of him in and I moaned. It felt wonderful. I put my vibe against my little button, letting the pulses excite me. I was able to start pushing against him and push I did. He was moaning about how hot it was, to be able to take his whole length in. We were insatiable, thrusting our bodies against each other, with such passion until he came.

Although I didn’t cum, I thoroughly enjoyed the night. I think it will have to take someone special, to make me cum. The ONS was a one off, to mark the beginning of a new chapter in my life.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/knmhsu/my_first_ons_in_over_17_years_with_a_younger_man