So, I’ve been thinking about making an onlyfans (still a lil too scared). I’ve only told two people, one being my friend who helped me take pics. I don’t know how/if he found out but almost a week ago her dad dm’ed saying “can’t believe you’re all grown up” and for my “big 18” he can take me to pick something out. I was really really dumb and said “like a sugar daddy?” and he responded “if you’re a good girl”. I didn’t think/know what to say so I wrote a <3. I didn’t mean to lead him on. He’s married. I wanted to tell my friend but I kinda feel like she’ll be mad at me. I ignored it and then two days later he sent me a text (suuuuuper weird) asking what I’m up to and that “no one is home”. I told him I’m playing Animal Crossing (I didn’t know what to say, I wasn’t even playing it I just made it up). He said “that’s cute send me a pic”. Now, this is where I got really stupid. I’d been taking lewd pics and I can’t show anyone I know, but I’ve sorta been really, really wanting to, and I have them on my phone and I kinda love them (I know that sounds bad) so I thought about it for like 10 seconds and KNEW I shouldn’t do it but I sent one where my t-shirt says “be a slut do whatever you want”. As soon as a I sent it I felt sick. He didn’t respond for like 30 min and I looked up how to unsend a text. Then he texted “good girl” and “that’s what I wanted”. Now he wants me to get a covid test and stay with him at a hotel on the 26th and he Venmo’d me $200 to “buy something cute”. I told him I’ve only been with three guys so I’m not sure what I’m doing. He said “that’s ok”. And ugh, I wanted him to respond with what he expects me to do. I’m scared/guilty feeling/flattered/super turned on/scared
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/kgag7q/my_friends_dad_sent_me_pervy_dms_not_sure_if_i
sounds like you found yourself a sugar daddy
Both feet first eh.. sounds like you secretly led yourself down this path for a reason… otherwise you’d of been straight up from the beginning….
Nothing you did or said was an accident. If you had no desire to, you wouldn’t have. Either meet him at the hotel or text him right now and tell him it’s not going to happen.
Sounds like you’re unsure, send him the money back and just end it now before things could get worse and you’re stuck in a position where you can’t leave/end it
He’s your friends dad , so most probably he is not gona kill you :P . But if he is a scum , maybe he is gonna use you ,under the presure of revealing at your dad ,that you fucked for money…
I wouldn’t go through with this. You’re super young, and there is a big difference between having an OnlyFans, vs actually being paid as an escort, sugar baby, or prostitute. You have every right to want to enjoy some flirting without it leading to something in real life.
You’re running a business now, and you need to think like a businesswoman and set your professional rules and boundaries. If you boundary is no meetups, or no meetups with people you know irl, then that is your personal ethical code for how you choose to run a business. And you get to stick to it and enforce that without ever letting anyone make you feel weird about it.
I speak from experience, sleeping with someone you aren’t attracted to, that you don’t even fully understand the dynamic, that you don’t even think you want, and being young and inexperienced can make for some really uncomfortable and difficult emotions and this can lead to some traumatic places. It doesn’t sound like you are in a good place yet with maintaining strong boundaries and tuning into your real desires with these situations in order to stay empowered and in control. He can absolutely manipulate you into situations that could cause you problems.
Also, I prefer not to encourage cheating. I would decline him politely. I don’t know if I would tell your friend or not, but I definitely would say that if you DO continue to speak to him or even meet him, consider if it’s worth losing your friendship over- if she finds out, the friendship is 100% over.
Do NOT tell her!!!!!!! I’m not kidding you!
Update and one more question. I told him I’m scared to meet up and he said sorry I didn’t mean to scare you. I told him I’m giving back the money and he said I should keep it. He said sorry a bunch of times for dm’ing me. I said its ok (didn’t know what to say) and sorry for sending hims pics (I sent 2 norm pics + one nsfw). He said not to be sorry and that I was cute. Would it be weird/wrong if as a thanks I send him pics of the outfit im going to buy and say its ok if he beats off to me? Im high key comfortable with that/think it would be super fun but is that bad/cheating?