I [F] cheated on my husband [M] with a tatted coworker

31F here. This happened last week and I’m just now getting to the point where I’ve processed it enough to write this down. I’ve been experiencing a flurry of emotions from terrible crushing guilt to not being able to stop thinking about what happened.

My husband and I are happily married and I never saw myself as one who would cheat. It’s not something that ever appealed to me. Sex for me is mostly about the emotional connection so even if I pass a gorgeous guy on the street I don’t really have any desire to fuck him.

Unfortunately, I have one weakness, which is what eventually got me. I have a thing for the “bad boy” James Deen archetype, especially with tons of tats. Tall, skinny, messy blonde hair, sleeves and chest and back pieces, chiseled facial features, dirty mouth, out of control, smokes cigarettes and weed, musician. Individually none of these is enough to “hook” me. In fact on anyone else smoking is a turn off too. But all in one person and it just… triggers something that I can’t contain or control much.

My husband is very “square.” Solid career. Would make a great dad. Obsessed about the lawn at our new house. I love him and he’s exactly who I always wanted to marry. I don’t want to marry a rockstar. I don’t want to settle down with one, as if a rock star even settled down at any point. He turns me on immensely but it’s mostly through the strength of our connection.

I’m a teacher. Frankly, I’m square too. Most of my coworkers are incredibly boring, and I’m fine with that. Keeps life simple. A few years ago a new biology teacher started (so same department as me) who was younger — about 24. It was just first year teaching. I’ll call him Jake.

Jake immediately stood out to me because (1) he was way younger than most of my coworkers; (2) he had this larger than life, loud personality whenever it was just us faculty; and (3) he was pretty damn attractive. He fit a lot of that archetype. He was super tall (I’d guess 6’6), had long blonde hair that he clearly could t control well, skinny, chiseled, cursed left and right when no students were around. So I was intrigued, you could say, but it wasn’t enough to sink the hook in. Well, not at first anyway. And he had a girlfriend anyway it seemed.

We did become good friends, though. It was completely platonic for quite a while. I didn’t even desire him in any sexual or romantic way at first. I think he took a liking to me because I was 30ish instead of 40 or 50 like most other folks, and I still have some of that bubbly youthful personality left. I helped mentor him as a new teacher and listened to home gripe/rant a lot.

When he started his second year, our friendship escalated a bit. We hadn’t had hardly any contact that summer and I found myself surprised at how excited I was to see him. It was still platonic though until one specific interaction occurred. We were starving after work one day, and I knew my husband wasn’t going to be home for a few more hours, so Jake and I and a few other teachers decided to hit up happy hour at a nearby sushi place.

Jake actually went home first to do something and met us there about 15m later. When he showed up, he’s changed out of his work clothes and was wearing a wife beater. Before he walked in he had a cigarette dangling out of his mouth. When he sat down he had these sleeves on display all over his arms, and I could see hints of amazing large pieces on his chest and back. And frankly something about showing up in a wife beater… if it had been anyone else it would’ve seemed trashy. But when he sat down, I felt my pussy just fucking soak itself.

That is not something that happens often for me, not just from looking at some dude sitting down. He just ticked all those stupid boxes and I didn’t have control. I literally had to look away for a bit and try to ignore him. He was sitting across the table from me so it wasn’t too hard to not look his way, but I could tell my face got red because I was so embarrassed that my panties were drenched. I tried to talk to the coworker across from me and completely forget about sexy ass Jake over there but frankly it was just impossible. I had to sneak a glance every once in a while when I could do so discreetly.

Nothing happened that night. I went home to my husband and didn’t even really talk to Jake at the restaurant much. But from that day on, every time I saw him at work, I thought of that moment.

At that point I started finding ways to be around him more. Our friendship definitely took off and he was a core part of my work experience. Frankly I caught feelings to some degree, which on top of the physical attraction made me start to get weak in the knees around him sometimes. I didn’t feel guilty though because there was no real intent to act on any of this.

Looking back, though, I don’t think that was true. Everything I did was vaguely designed to push us closer. I must have done it on an almost subconscious level. It took 2 years really for the rest of this to develop and play out. That group outing to the sushi place became a 1:1 lunch or dinner between just me and Jake. Again, no guilt because we were just hungry and wanted to take advantage of cheap happy hour sushi.

The actual cheating happened when my husband went to visit his parents for a week. Because of COVID I tried to convince him not to, but it was a bit of a complicated situation. I couldn’t go due to work (he can work remotely). To play it safe he drove instead of flying, and that was like a 12-13 hour drive.

I felt lonely and don’t like being alone. This time I asked Jake if he wanted to get sushi… but later, at like 8PM. His response was basically “fuck it, let’s do it.” He actually came by and picked me up to take me there, which I thought was cute. I was shocked to see he was dressed up pretty nice. I wondered what he thought this was. Was this… a date?

We sat at the bar this time, which is in a pretty visible part of the restaurant. Anyone at tables nearby would see us sitting there. I found myself getting really turned on at the thought of “showing him off”. I absolutely loved that all these girls and young women around thought that I had pulled this sexy ass dude.

Now, I was wearing a small dress with nothing underneath but a thong. The thing is, this was 100% normal for me for dinner at a restaurant. It’s my go-to outfit. And I basically always wear thongs outside of work (don’t want to risk any kind of wardrobe malfunction there). Normally, I don’t think anything of it. But in this moment, sitting next to him at the bar, having all these people glance at us… I felt my pussy gush so much at some moments that evening that I was afraid the seat was going to get soaked.

I asked him about his tats, a topic I’d always avoided because it turned me on too much. He wanted to explain each one to me and the history, but it was hard without being able to see. We joked about how we needed to leave this place so he could just show me and I’d be able to see what he was referring to. Then something happened in my brain and I said, “hell, wanna go to your place?” I knew exactly where this was going and I didn’t care. My clit was literally throbbing just thinking of getting to look at his tatted body up close. I was trying my hardest to play it cool.

He lived in a piece of shit 1br in a sketchy area. And somehow that turned me on even more. There was some small talk and then he asked if I wanted to see the tats he was talking about. I was like “of course” and he just took off his shirt. God fucking damn I could barely restrain myself seeing those rippling abs. He had tats just all down his beautiful chest and groin. I actually let out an audible “fuck”, which I’m pretty sure he knew wasn’t just a comment purely on the artistry of his tats.

He actually did show me around all his tats and carefully explained all of them. We were just sitting on his couch next to each other during this. It was impressive, these weren’t just random bullshit and I thought it was cute. But more importantly I couldn’t even really pay attention because my clit was throbbing so hard.

What happened next still blows my mind. Keep in mind we hadn’t talked about sex at all. We hadn’t kissed. But this motherfucker looked straight into my soul, read me perfectly, out of nowhere just pushed me back, pulled my dress up, slid my thong to the side, and put his mouth RIGHT ON MY FUCKING PUSSY. Never in my life has anything like that happened before. I pretty much instantly came within 30 seconds and yelled out “fuck” more times than I remember.

At that point I was ready to be this dude’s slutty little fucktoy. I would’ve let him do anything to me. He kept eating my little pussy like his life depended on it and I kept cumming. I grabbed the back of his head and just rubbed his cute face all over my pussy. I fucking loved how his mouth was just drenched.

This motherfucker then lifted my groin up a bit and started eating my asshole. God fucking damn nobody had done that before and it was like being in heaven. I never wanted it to stop. I loved how dirty and naughty he was. My husband would never put his tongue deep in my asshole but this dude was literally tongue fucking my ass.

I made him stand up and slipped off my dress so I was only in a thong. Did I mention he was 6’6 and I’m 5’1? Fuck it was so bit feeling so small and short next to him. I stripped him down and his fucking cock was like twice as thick as my husband’s. And he was so tall it felt like I could almost suck it just standing up. I did get on my knees and fucking rammed that dick against the back of my throat. I kept looking up at him like his little slut and every time I looked over those abs and tats I thrust my throat onto that cock even harder.

He bent me over the couch and started spanking me while he pulled my hair back. He spanked my ass cheeks bright red and I literally came just from that as I rubbed myself. Then he shoved that thick dick in my pussy and just fucking wrecked me. I was just dripping down my legs and I could barely stand up because my legs were shaking. I’ve never been fucked like that before. He just stretched this pussy all out and I can still fucking feel it when I think about it.

When I could feel him about to cum I quickly spun around and took that load right down my throat. Sucked these cheeks in hard on that cock and sucked it dry. I literally said “god I love your cock daddy”. I have NEVER called someone “daddy” before. It just fucking came out.

I actually stayed the night and we had a good time just chilling. We had to rush in the morning so unfortunately there was no follow up morning sex. He took me to my place in the morning so I could get dressed and drive myself to work. Barely made it in time for the students. I felt like a dirty little slut the whole day. A week later I’ve still been processing this, and writing this is part of that. Hope you enjoyed, and let me know if you would like to know of anything else that might happen (this is it so far).

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ke53pw/i_f_cheated_on_my_husband_m_with_a_tatted_coworker

67 comments

  4. You have to not cheat. Worst pain you could put anyone through. Divorce your husband if you can’t keepyour knickers on and be faithful.

    You are broken, sorry.

  5. Lol what’s crazy is this guy did this and it’s a hot story and a turn yet, yet if when some celebrity does something similar his entire lividly hood is in jeopardy.

  6. Ok don’t listen to the horny fucks in the comments. Cheating is cheating. It is the worst pain in the world. If can’t be an adult or think of your husband’s feelings before being so impulsive then you shouldn’t be married. Divorce him if you can’t take the steps to be faithful. If you do infact love him and care about him then you cut ties with Jake and tell your husband. None of this is jakes fault, it’s 100% yours. Tell your husband and be completely honest. Show him that you live him and that your genuinely sorry. Then let him decide the best course of action. If you don’t tell him or don’t cut ties with Jake then this whole thing will blow up in your face and you’ll be ostracized as the woman that can’t keep her fucking legs shut. It’s not right at all. If you were not sexually satisfied then you should have taken the steps to spice up your sex life with your husband.

  7. Well written but the entire time I’m just internally weeping for your husband. He did nothing wrong, is loyal, faithful, decent, and emotionally connected. He just made the mistake of marrying someone who was okay ripping his heart out for some good tatted dick.

    And the way you subtly put your husband down in the post… Smh.

    Marrying someone like you is one of my greatest fears.

    If you ever had a heart, come clean with your husband.

  8. That’s not the spur of a moment and soon or later this will hit you back.
    So…now?
    Well, you have to be honest first and then, only then, try to understand if the perfected painted life you told us isn’t that perfect OR, as every human being, you simply committed a “once in life” mistake from which trying to recover and maybe regain your life back.
    What I don’t think possible is you pretending nothing has ever happened.

  9. i unironically hope you get AIDS

    provided this isn’t just some fapfic you cooked up please divorce your husband immediately and let him find someone to have a family with who isn’t a disgusting human being

  24. People like you are the reason why loyalty is not a desirable trait these days…and seriously, don’t pretend that you do…you actually DO NOT love your husband if you cheat on him like that…so stop saying you love him…bottom line your husband just seems to be the presentable guy for you…

    Your way of explaining this is like when an obviously racist person says “I am NOT a racist BUT…”…similiar to “I love him BUT…”, the same “but” that you use to portray yourself as a good person who got weak once…but seriously, in this case you are def not the good person you wished you would be!!

    If you had agreed on an open relationship it would be different thing now but in this certain case you are just an unloyal, unfaithful and a deceiving person.

    At least (the minimum you can do) confess and don’t play with him any longer…HE deserves to have a loyal partner! And consider to put yourself in your husband’s position for a sec…how would you feel if he had done exactely the same to you!

  25. *If this story is true*

    Your weakness isn’t that you have a thing for “bad boys,” **it is moreso that you are wholly weak as a wife to stay committed to your husband.**

    Any and all shame you have felt and will feel going forward is deserved. Hope your co-worker eating your ass was worth destroying your marriage.

  26. Mannnn women like this is the reason why i fear being in a relationship. You give them all, love, affection, and respect. Yet they don’t know how to value you or even have some respect to just not go behind your back.

  27. If this story is true then U r a sex Addict. U r harmful for a family. Shame on you. U call yourself a teacher but but wrong u r a real cheater and sex Addict. U destroy ur family and ur husband’s love and devotion for u. Again shame on you shame on you shame on you.

  28. Super hot. What color hair do you have? Can you describe your body a little more?

  29. This is a well-written but ultimately terrible story. You’re obviously missing something in life and it’s not just sex. You have a right to find that, maybe a need as you enter middle age, but hurting others on the path to self actualization isn’t acceptable.

    Your husband deserves a loyal wife. There are men who don’t mind if their wives have sex with others. My wife can have sex with whomever she wants. But this happens in an open, honest way that involves caring about the needs and feelings for one another, not sneaking around. [Digression, thanks to COVID this actually doesn’t happen at all anymore but that’s a different issue, lol.]

    Besides your husband, you were also a mentor to Jake. If (well, more typically when) things fall apart somebody will find some way to blame him at work and mess up his budding teaching career. That sucks not only for him but also for the young men who — as you surely know — tend to struggle in school without many role model teachers. Just like you can see he’s a bad boy teacher, so too could students and maybe one or more of them would also be inspired to pay more attention, to know that bad boys aren’t destined to dead-end jobs or jail.

  30. This is just a sick story thru and thru, you straight up dogged your husband when you described him, you even stated y’all got a new house, smh do him and yourself a favor and leave him let that glorious man go, and go get fucked over by the “bad boy” lmfao

  34. Just like Pam from The Office. Jim’s gone for five seconds and she’s all over another dude.

    Fucking Jody.

  35. First, thank you for writing it! Loved it!

    Second, the format of your writing was cleaned! Easy to read and follow

    And lastly it’s so easy to give in to temptations! All these haters on here! But do up date us please lol

  36. As someone who had this happen to him and ruined his 6 year marriage, this makes me feel internal pain for your husband. The fact you said unfortunately to no morning after sex and saying what might happen means you are not sorry and will cheat again.

    This wasnt a one time weakness this is a lifetime weakness to commitment. It is not fair to him that he comes home hugs you, kisses you, says i love you imagining everything is still wonderful, while you do all those things back knowing you fucked some other dude. I hope a divorce is imminent, and its your fault.

  37. You cheated on a good man who loves and provides for you, works at building a life with you to be some tated, foul mouthed thugs cum bucket, bravo! Great life choice.

  40. Hot story, but like others have said this is why men fear marriage. Your husband deserves better

  42. Can anyone find out where this bitch is? We need some internet justice. Husband deserves to know he’s married to a worthless whore.

  43. How do you bring yourself to stand in front of your students, acting as a positive role model, while you’re cheating on what you claim to be the perfect husband?

    I hope you’re not writing kids up for misbehaving.

    You’re a horrible human being.

  46. Sometimes I’m glad I’m 32 and not married so I never have to deal with the feeling of being cheated on by my wife who got raw-dogged by a coworker. What’s worse is this will likely be an ongoing thing. Your poor husband.

  48. I would love it if you asked him what he wants you to wear to work for him. Maybe naughty lingerie, plug, remote vibrater, under conservative clothes only you 2 know

  50. This was beautifully written, and I for one would love to read more. Happy to DM with you if you need a sympathetic ear, don’t listen to all the moralizing losers in the comments.

  53. “I felt lonely and I don’t like being alone” then find a hobby problem solved ??‍♂️

  55. There are so many negative comments here. It’s a pity. I can’t endorse your choice but I do endorse your writing, this was very well done. Such a lovely, sexy story. I’m wishing you the best.

  56. Each cheating stories are almost always commented with encouragements and cheers, yet on this one almost everybody made a point to trash her. Wonder where the difference is.

  57. I absolutely love how redditors still stand up for what is right and wrong, especially in these scenarios. Really warms the cockles of my heart to see this terrible human being get destroyed in the comments.

    If this story is true, please, divorce your husband because he deserves much better than you.

  58. Was that the beginning of a beautiful friendship? I can’t imagine you having that as one and done.

  60. Lol I bet u are a English teacher. That was a super hot story I feel sorry for your husband tho. Karma could come quickly if your husband regulars Reddit. It’s not my place to judge tho

  61. Jesus Christ the users in these are fucking awful. A woman has a friendly work relationship that she doesn’t expect to go so far, and when it does they fucking crucify her for it. She’s still trying to process what happened, how it happened, and what she’ll do next. But all you guys can do is tell her what a disgusting human she is because being a wife to her husband wasn’t enough in that single moment.

    OP, If you wanna talk at all and avoid these assholes, let me know. It was a good story and it was really hot. Unfortunately it seems Reddit has branded you with a scarlet letter today. Fuck the self-righteous pricks.

  64. A lot of double standards here. Most people that get cheated on are good loving spouses.

  65. Ready the divorce papers if you still love him. “I’m not really the type to cheat,,,but” I mean c’mon

    Next time, go on an open relationship if you want other people to break your back.

  66. I think it’s the way she described her husband and pretty much the perception she has of him the reason why she is getting so much backlash.
    He is a responsible and loyal guy, and she sees him just as a “Dad”. Someone that can provide and care for her as well as raise her children. Ironically, she describes how she wouldn’t marry a rockstar due to the lack of commitment from their part while lacking the commitment herself.
    Worst of all is the conclution. She stayed and expected morning sex and even maybe something more in the future. Even tho she wrote that she feels guilt a week afterwards (probably because her husband is back from visiting his parents), it means that she is now actively looking forward to it.

    The responsible thing to do would be to let him know and break up the relationship. The mistake wasn’t to fuck another guy, but to never talk to your partner about each other’s needs or the things that happen in both of your lives. From that point, it was just a matter of time.

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