*Arrogant ? Pretentious ? Maybe . . .*
*I do believe the world is filled with men who sadly believe that giving women a picture of your dick is what sexting all about.*
*Feel free to downvote me if you disagree , but at least listen to my case first.;*
I was thinking about her.
All I wanted to do that afternoon was filling some numbers into my spreadsheet. The image of her suddenly filled my mind and suddenly my dick show her some respect by standing up.
So I grab my phone, take a picture of it, and send it to her. With some caption.
ME : Look you’re doing to me.
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**Golden rule of sexting 1. Do not send a picture of your dick to someone you haven’t established a connection with.**
I don’t give a shit what your teenage dumbfuck friend or internet pick up gurus told you. Do not send a picture of your dick to a woman if she hasn’t feel comfortable with you on a deeper level.
They’ll easily look them up if they want to see some dick pics, and believe me you don’t want to compete with the things that they can find.
I can get away with it because I’ve been seeing her for a while.
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After sending it, I wait. Just enjoy the game, no need to rush anything. 3 minutes later, her text came.
Her : ???
It’s a very common response. But I have a good news for you. Unless she’s replying with a picture of another man’s dick or genuinely rant how it’s turning her off.
You can proceed.
ME : I’m thinking about you. What are you wearing ?
HER : Are you high ??
ME: No. Take a picture.
HER: I’m in my pajamas.
ME: I don’t care. . . . I want to see you.
HER: Fine . You’re being dumb. . .(sending her picture)
Getting her picture is not the point. The point is getting her engagement. After sending her picture, she’ll 100% want to hear your comment about it.
Which means you can push a little bit further.
ME: Good girl. . . you look pretty.
HER : Thank you . . . (some dumb emojis. Just ignore it if you hate them like I do. )
ME: Send another one. . . Lift up that shirt. I want to see those tits.
I’m pushing a bit further. If she respond to it like I want her to, I’m in full control.
HER: (Sending the picture as I asked)
ME: Good . . . Now the pants. I want to see a full body this time. Pose for me.
I remember It took a while for her to reply. Some women will spend some time to make sure she get the best picture for you. Don’t rush her. Just be patient when this happen.
HER: Like this ? (Sending picture of her nakedon all fours on top of her sofa)
ME: Good. That will be the last time you’re not addressing me properly. Do I make myself clear, Shannon ?
HER: Yes Daddy, I’m sorry. Do you like it ?
If she’s start asking whether you her picture or not. She is as invested in it as you do. She wants to please you. So, don’t be afraid to take control.
ME: What did I told you to do with that shirt, Shannon ?
HER: Lift it up and show my tits for you, Daddy.
ME: and what did you do ?
HER: removing all my clothes.
ME: So, you didn’t pay attention what I told you to do. Do you think a good girl will do that, Shannon?
HER: No Daddy . . .I’m Sorry.
ME: I know you didn’t mean to do that But you do understand you’re going to be punished for that. Right Shannon ?
HER : Yes daddy . . . I promise I’ll do what you ask from now on.
ME: I’ll be there in 15 minutes. When I get into the room, I want to see you on the bed, face down to bed floor, ass raised up in the air. Prepare that wooden ruler and place it next to you. Do I make myself clear, Shannon ?
HER: Yes Daddy. I’ll be waiting for you. (another kiss emojis)
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**Golden Rule of sexting 2. Sexting can be used to get off. But it’s better be used to set up the mood for when you meet her IRL.**
Why would you jack off to a text when you can give it to her IRL ? The fuck is wrong with you ? Go take care of your woman. Make her happy.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/k8gnp4/mf_sexting_done_properly
Good advise. Thank you so how would you approach a woman with shyness issues. Info my wife and are together for 20+yrs. Just trying to add more spice.
i want to share something. when i used to date my ex, most especially when quarantine struck our country, we would sext almost every night. one time, she suggested if i wanted voice messages of her moaning – because i sent my own string of vm’s to her already – and i was like, yes sure, and that’s when everything was spiced up. since we only started out our relationship, we would also moderate the “intensity” of the sexually-suggestive pics we would send out to each other. *(she also learned how to release her “little” side – a DDLG thing – and that’s when she got more engaging with our hot-ass moments – which also includes when we used to meet each other.)*