How I [F] met my ex-dom [M] who was twice my age

I’ve only told a few friends about this and I don’t know if someone finds it interesting but I still think about it a lot so I wanted to share it.
(trigger warning: this story contains a mild form of consensual violence)

I had just turned 18 at that time, was single and wanted to gain some more experience with other men since I’ve just broken up with my ex at that time. I met someone online who was 36 but we both didn’t care about the age difference since it was legal anyway. We chatted for about a week or so and I admitted that I was into bdsm but didn’t have a lot of experience besides soft spanking and occasionally getting tied to the bed. He told me he was also into bdsm, quite experienced and would love to introduce me to his exciting world. He made me a list of a few rules I had to learn by heart and invited me over to his place to get to know me in real life. I was so nervous when I was on my way to him and a bit scared that he could be a serial killer (you never know…but fortunately he wasn’t). He opened the door, welcomed me and sat me down on his couch. I was wearing a short black dress and tights because I thought let’s make it sexy but not too sutty. He offered me a glass of wine and we started talking about our fantasies and nogos. After a while he got really quiet, looked me up and down and asked me: “What did you expect to happen tonight?” I had no idea what I should answer to that and just started to blush. He placed his hand on my leg and I remember my mind running all over the place from the mental cinema. I could feel how wet I was getting just by his touch and stuttered: “Nothing besides getting to know you” (which was true but I still hoped for more to happen of course). He asked me if I still rembered the sentences he told me to study and I recited the first two right away. I couldn’t remember the third one and had to confess that I couldn’t recall the rest and he just started to grin. Before he proceeded to his next move he told me in a serious but firm voice that if I wanted to leave it’s not too late and I could always say “red” if I ever felt uncomfortable. Something about this warning just turned me on even more and made me curious for what was about to happen next. He sat up straight and placed his hand on his lap signaling me that he wanted me to lay on his knees. I followed the silent order and he started to caress my body slowly working his way from my shoulders over my back down to my butt. He let his hand circle a few times and asked me if I still didn’t remember the third sentence and I shook my head. It didn’t even take 5 seconds till I felt a hard spank and I wanted to move my butt away but he grabed my waist and made sure I couldn’t escape his slap. He gave me a few more for moving away and told me that I’d only make it worse if I tried to soften the spanks. He pulled my dress up, my tights down and looked at my redned butt only covered in my slip. He slid his fingers between my legs and smirked because he could feel how much I liked getting spanked. He said: “You seem to enjoy forgetting your rules way too much” and started to slide his fingers inside me and continued to smack my ass alternating between my left and right cheek. He continued until I was close to cum and suddently stopped. I was so frustrated because I desperately wanted to cum and begged him to continue. His face showed no sign of mercy and he pushed me away from his lap, told me to wait and went into his room to get something. He returned with a vibrator and wooden clamps and told me I was only allowed to cum with the clamps on and that I’d have to ask before I cum. I nodded and he put them on my nipples which was fine in the beginning but after a short time I felt a little burn and him playing with them didn’t help at all. He turned the vibrator on and it didn’t even take me 30s to have one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had in my life. He turned the vibrator off, pushed me against the couch and told me in a stern voice: “If you ever cum again without my permission I’ll make you regret it”. I blushed and immediately apologized. He removed the clamps from my boobs and played with my nipples knowing exactly how sensitive they’d be by now. It was a nice feeling of pain just like the spanking but it still hurt so I squealed a little. He grabbed my hair, pulled down his pants and told me it’s his turn now. He pulled me closer to his cock and made me deep throat him. I started to suck his cock which made me even greedier for a second orgasm. He watched me trying to fit him all the way in and when I failed he told me: “You definitely need a proper blowjob lesson but don’t worry I’m gonna teach you soon enough”. I was a bit embarassed by this comment but also curious to see what he meant by that. He pulled my head towards his lips and gave me a long kiss. It felt sooo good to finally kiss him. After a while he got up and I followed him into his bedroom. He told me to go down on my knees, put on a condom and fucked me in doggy style until I was close to my second orgasm. When I felt I couldn’t hold it back anymore I just screamed: “Can I please cum, sir?” and he gave me permission and he followed aswell with an orgasm.
After that we cuddled for a bit, took some time for aftercare and I got dressed and went home. When I was at home he texted me that he’d love to see me again but I should better know my rules by then. I was so happy, satisfied and excited at the same time to meet him again.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/ji6o1e/how_i_f_met_my_exdom_m_who_was_twice_my_age