My [F] first swingers party & 3some

Right out of college when I was renting a room in a major city with an inconsistent job, I would regularly visit a good friend in a nearby metropolis on long weekends and other breaks. One year I happened to be on an extended couch crash spanning her birthday weekend. I didn’t realize at the time that I’d be intruding on her personal plans.

As it was normal for me to stay without a communicated end date, it seemed odd when she asked me straight out when I planned to leave. I told her I could go anytime and asked if she had a birthday date. She said not necessarily, that she was attending a party and I could go with her if I wanted. I said sure, might as well.

Before heading to the party she let me know I needed to register on a website. Thought it seemed weird but fine. Turned out to be a swingers website, and I had to make a profile. Suddenly I was embarrassed and anxious. I didn’t want to go anymore, but also didn’t want to make her feel ashamed or weird. When I was young I almost always took people up on out-of-the-ordinary experiences. I also do like kinky sex. In the end I decided to stick it out.

I had no idea what to wear, how to imagine how I would engage with swingers, platonically or sexually, or what to expect generally. I did my makeup, threw a cotton dress on because it was hot as fuck and brought my own bottle.

It was like a normal but large house party for the first couple of hours. Everyone, 75-100 people, congregated in an outdoor pool area and bar, a few open rooms inside downstairs including kitchen and living. We ate and drank. Then a couple got into the hot tub naked and the crowd gradually grew smaller and people tapered off.

I was trying to keep tabs on my friend for comfort but also give her space bc obviously she was tryna fuck for her birthday so I wanted to give her that. I was getting hit up by strangers quite a bit throughout and it was kind of turning me on to imagine fucking some of them. The crowd was extremely friendly as you may expect.

At one point while I was drinking and dancing outdoors by the pool, a few hours into the party, my friend came to grab me for a house tour given by the host. The host walked us upstairs through a hot dark hallway that smelled like sex with whispered moans coming from different directions. She led us into rooms where we just stood in the doorways watching shadows of people fucking. It was dark but I could see doggy style action, multiple blow jobs and one pussy eater going on in separate beds all in the same room.

She led us to another room with only one bed and a chair but just as many people. All I could see in the dark was entanglement.

She led us down a flight of stairs into a room where a very petite woman who looked to be in her 50s or 60s was riding a Sybian naked. I had never seen machine sex before that and it looked so intense it’d be painful, but I was really turned on seeing her enjoy it. I tried to stand behind my friend so she couldn’t notice how into watching the woman I was – at this point in my life I didn’t realize how damn bi (nearly just plain fuckin gay) I am and the feelings were hot and uncomfortable.

After the tour my friend and I mutually lost track of one another. I returned to my natural habitat in uncomfortable situations, the bar, to drink and preen when I was approached by a young couple. We started talking about how it was all of our first times being at a place like that. She was 19 and he and I were around 22-23 at the time.

I am introverted , and when I’m forced to be social in a crowded environment, sometimes it’s almost like an out of body experience. I just become very confident and in charge in the moment, like I can just do anything because it’s not even real anyway. If that makes sense. I ended up commandeering the conversation and dragging the wife into the pool house. I was comfortable leading her because she was truly inexperienced. The husband was basically a random lucky dude.

Turns out the pool house was made for that sort of thing. There was a bed and a macrame sex swing waiting for us. The wife and I spent a few minutes talking about how strange this would be. I had experience with women but she did not. A few minutes in I started kissing her neck and lips while stroking her hair with my hands. I grabbed her waist and fondled her ass over her jeans while continuing to make out with her upper body.

I took off my shirt and lifted her on to the sex swing. For reference, she was small and thin and I am average height and chubby. Her husband undressed her until she was laying there with her tiny titties out and her legs spread with her wet spot showing through her panties.

I got on my knees and started mouthing her pussy over her panties, letting my breath do the work before using my tongue. She was squirming with anticipation and I inhaled and exhaled funneling all the pressure of my breath and hot and cold air on her clit. Her husband found a way to get his dick in her mouth while I was working on her. I could tell she was nervous and insecure because she was trying to cover herself up at the same time as she was gasping and enjoying the attention.

Well, we forgot to lock the door behind us. I ate the girl for about 5 minutes until her husband jumped in to fuck her. She was getting fucked and sucking on my titties when another couple barged in. Even though it was a party rooted in public sex, we were n00bs and it kind of killed the mood for us. I put my shirt back on, he came and we bounced.

After joining back up with the main party I felt so hot like when I would make eye contact with the girl. I started getting obsessive thoughts about being upstairs in the public sex rooms but definitely didn’t have the comfort level for that. I found my friend soon after and she was ready to leave.

In the car ride home we didn’t say much to each other about what happened. A few days later it slipped out that she got her titties sucked each by different people at the same time but I don’t know if she fucked . I assume she did. Ever since then I’m like damn I want to try multiple sucker fish at the same time too.

I stayed on the website for a year or two after that party trying to see if I could find a good connection with another couple but never did. I’ve had threesomes since but honestly never enjoyed it that much. The women are always so shy it becomes tiresome. I think they’d be less shy without their man around. Or maybe they haven’t really wanted to be with women and they were doing it for their significant others. The only threesome that interests me anymore is forced bi with a special submissive male who I have yet to find!

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/iilwik/my_f_first_swingers_party_3some