First time being a bondage bunny [F28] mild BDSM

>Pre-note, skip if you want the juicy stuff:
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>I have been in non-monogamous relationships since 2014. Am now 34, married, swinger and I like to write. Most of the stories are my experiences, wherever I can I’ll try to alter them to make them better. And maybe I get inspired to write about my fantasies.

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**Setting**: I’ve met a nice Dominant at a munch. We’ve started sending pm’s afterwards through the site where we found the munch. After some pm’s he asked if I wanted to come over. I’ve talked to my bf to lay down the new rules since we might not be monogamous after this. This was the year 2014

I ring the bell at his house and he opens the door. I’m nervous as hell, I’ve never done something like this and I’m not really one for normal dates either. He’s standing in the middle of the doorway with open arms. I give him a hug and although it doesn’t really calm my nerves, it does feel nice. For some reason we keep standing in the hallway, talking, and sometimes the conversation falls silent. In one of those silences he bends over to me with a big smile and says: “I would really like to kiss you!” I lean in as to answer that I would like that too.

It’s a good kiss with passion but no wandering hands yet. He leads me to the living room and we continue kissing. Sometimes when we just stop for a second to look at eachother he looks at me like: “Is this still okay?” He’s checking in on me, good Dom… But I’m shy, I don’t even dare to look my girlfriends in the eye. So I look away but try to somehow ensure him that everything is fine. He even tells me that if there is anything that bothers me, just say stop and he’ll stop. No questions asked. Well, questions asked, but the good ones: Do you want to continue? Do you need to pause? etc.

He asks me if he can tie me up. I know he’s good with the ropes, what he does is more like Shibari than bondage. To keep things slow I’ve decided and discussed with my bf that I did not mind getting tied up but I do not want to get completely naked. He’s walking into the next room to get his ropes and tells me casually to undress except for my panties. I start worrying in my head because I hadn’t planned on that. I tell him I don’t know yet how far I want to go. I decide on keeping the leggings I am wearing and a top, I remove my bra though. The underwires can dig in your skin when being tied, better to lose that. The leggings and top won’t be in the way of anything…

I’m standing in the middle of the room. He starts easy with just binding my wrists together, even quite loose so I could escape. He’s building trust and shows me he’s patient. He re-binds my wrists a little tighter and lifts my hands over my head towards my back as far as they’ll go. He pulls ropes around my chest just under my breasts and he’s definitely using all the opportunities to touch everything he can “accidentally” touch while getting the ropes around. He caresses the sides of my boobs, my neck and seductively gets my hair out of my face. He is so close to me while tying, I can feel him against my back and sometimes feel his breath on the bare skin at the start of my neck. My hands get tied to the ropes around my chest and there I am, I can’t use my hands. He has the power and it makes me wet to have no choice. Trusting him to treat me well.

He puts a rope between my legs and pulls it through so I can feel it against my lips through the clothing I’m still wearing. I can’t help it, I make a high sound. He laughs and continues to kiss and caress every part of me that isn’t directly sexual. But I have places that still make me react, inside of my legs, side of my boobs, my neck, my butt, my back and my sides. The goal is obviously to find every spot and way to make me squeak. He ends with suddenly putting his hand in my hair and pulling my head to the side to kiss me. It surprises me and let out a small scream. I seem to like feeling of getting my hair pulled. I would have never guessed that!

He also spanks me a little, I’ve never been spanked before so it’s all so new that it hurts a bit too much too fast. I say “Stop” and he stops and just pets my head for a while, which I really like. Good to know that 1: I’m able to say stop and 2: He listens when I do say it.

After a little break of talking he suggest we do one round of rope again before I have to leave to go home. He starts a chest harness and pulls it just tight enough. With every line of rope he touches my body and his hands flow over the parts of uncovered skin. He ties my hands behind my back. And then he does the most amazing thing ever: He commands me to kneel and I feel him holding the ropes of the harness. I have to lean forward and lie down on my belly. I can’t use my hands they are tied. And he just holds the harness and gently lowers me to the ground. I have never met a man who showed so much controlled strength.

He ties my ankles to the body, I’m hogtied. Nowhere to go and he starts to explore my body again. He caresses, squeezes and sometimes hits so many parts of my body. He grabs my buttocks and I moan softly. He kisses the top of my feet and I would have never guessed that I would like that so much. He starts caressing the inside of my legs and I like it so much that I place my knees further apart to let him touch me. He gets closer and closer to my lips but doesn’t touch me. My moans get more frustrated with every caress. At last he touches my pussy, I can feel that the fabric between his fingers and me is wet. I moan

And then he says: “I’m going to untie you now.”

After the ropes were gone I sat there on the floor completely sub-spaced. I feel high. When I try to stand on my legs, I’m wobbly. He sits me down on the couch and commands me to eat a piece of chocolate. It clears my head enough that I feel safe enough to drive home. He walks me to the door and with the last kiss goodbye he pulls me tight against his body and I can feel the bump in his pants. I pull up one leg to touch his erection and turn around to walk through the door.

He doesn’t let me off with dealing the last frustration. On the steps he grabs my hair with one hand and one hand around my throat and kisses me for the last time before I walk to my car.

Source: reddit.com/r/Erotica/comments/ih6wxf/first_time_being_a_bondage_bunny_f28_mild_bdsm