She cheated [MF]

I (26M) found out my wife (29F) is having an affair with an ex boyfriend of hers.

I had noticed lately that she seemed to be on her phone quite a bit lately and was always very protective about not leaving it out anywhere. A few weeks ago I woke up in the middle of the night and snuck off with her phone to see if I could dig anything up. I searched through her Snap and other social media, texts, emails and couldn’t find anything.

So I logged in to her old college email account that still for some reason is active. I looked all around and in the trash folder, there was an email that was asking for verification from only a few weeks prior. When I opened that trashed email it had listed a different email account and said her school email was listed as a backup account, was this correct?

So I took a mental note of what that email that was listed was, made sure I left her apps and websites exactly as she’d left them, and put everything back. I grabbed my phone and tried that email address.

My wife always uses one of two different passwords. Luckily, this was no exception and voila I was in. There tons of emails over the course of about 3 weeks of them writing very graphic things back and forth to each other and discussing meeting up, as well as several nude and sexual pics they’d linked in messages.

About a week and a half ago I traveled outside the state to buy something I’d found on Facebook Marketplace and she told him that night I would be gone all evening and they discussed hooking up at his place, followed up with several emails the next day or two of them discussing how hot it was.

Obviously I felt a kick in the stomach, but it was also hard for me to not be turned on reading such dirty things she’d written.

Obviously My first thought was wanting to confront her, but something dirty and twisted in my mind wants me to stand back and enjoy her dirtiness. In her emails she even stated she’s never thought of leaving me, but she missed a few things they used to do.

Is it wrong of me to be turned on finding out my wife is fucking her ex and hiding it from me?

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/i8jl9e/she_cheated_mf

4 comments

  1. Regardless of what your dick does, you can make a choice. If this is the life you want then roll with it. If not, then confront her. You still have your agency.

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