I’ve been reading your stories for a while now and decided to post one of my own. We’re a heterosexual couple in late 20’s. To most people, including myself, experiencing simultaneous orgasm has always been a long shot. That is until I met a girl who was willing to open up to me as much as I wanted to make it work with her. She’s my lovely sweetheart and we absolutely love pleasing each other. We have sex every other day and about 90% of the time she orgasms at the same time as me. To be correct, I orgasm at the same time as her.
BACKGROUND
Full disclosure here, both of us have never been particularly crazy about sex until we met each other. We’ve had our fair share of partners but definitely weren’t pros. What’s different about this relationship is that from day one we both have been open and honest with each other. That played a huge role on our journey of sexual exploration. I told her what I liked best and she told me what made her feel good. Her blowjobs, for example, are absolutely mind-blowing. I’ve had numerous ladies suck my cock but none of them came close to the way she does it. I’m also able to make her cum consistently while eating her out. Here’s what I do to make sure we always cum together. These orgasms are the best.
1. PREP
First and foremost I make sure to get the basics down. Unlike men, women need to be mentally present to reach climax. That means making sure that she is physically and mentally comfortable. I make sure the room temperature is right, the bed is clean, the chores are done, both of us have showered and are not too full. Much better to have sex hungry than after eating.
2. FOREPLAY
I usually start by pleasing her and not the other way around. This is important when she’s not in the right mood. I start by kissing her lips. If they’re dry I lick my lips and then wet kiss her. These are always a turn on. Then I kiss her body, her neck, her back, her stomach, her thighs and feet. I can tell when she gets turned on by seeing how anxious she is for me to go down on her. I start kissing her inner thighs and outer labia. Then I start licking her vagina and moistening her clit with my saliva while moving my tongue in circular motion. That way I make her wet on the outside while she’s already wet on the inside. After a few minutes of enjoying myself down there I lick my middle finger and stick it inside her pussy. I bend it up and start massaging her G-spot while my tongue is glued to her clit. I keep going for a few more minutes. This whole time I’m monitoring her body language and checking her face as she moans with her eyes closed. Eventually she stops me because she’s too close to having an orgasm and she doesn’t want to finish yet. So she asks me to fuck her instead. I pull my finger out, lick it and let her suck it so she can taste herself too. As I reach for the condom she leans forward and wraps her mouth around my cock. I tell her that I don’t want her to suck me too much because I wanna last longer when I get to enter her. That turns her on even more and she begins sucking me harder, trying to put my whole shaft in her mouth until it reaches her throat. I moan from pleasure of having my tip reach the back of her throat.
3. PENETRATION
Then I pull out of her mouth, put a condom on and grab her body tightly as I slowly enter her pussy. I accelerate and begin thrusting harder and deeper. She starts moaning again and I lean over and start making out with her. The harder I thrust the more passionately we make out. I can feel her tongue in my mouth. I alternate between sucking on her tongue and licking it while pressing my body against hers. She looks me in the eyes and whispers how amazing I make her feel. I grab her boobs and tell her she’s the sexiest lady I have ever seen. I squeeze her ass and tell her how much I love the fact that she’s my baby girl. As I keep thrusting deep insider her I see her touching her clit. I tell her that I love seeing her play with herself and she responds that she’s about to cum. That turns me on so much I tell her than I’m cumming as well. She releases a loud moan and I feel her pussy squeezing my cock as I cum inside her. We both finish and I slowly pull out.
4. CUDDLING
She asks me to cuddle her. I hug her and we lie down, exhausted and feeling totally liberated. I kiss her gently and we lie there quiet for a few minutes. Those few minutes allow me to realize that sex is what you make of it. Never stop experimenting. Never be embarrassed to communicate with your partner because this is the only way to get the best of your sex life.
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/i6d15d/mf_heres_how_my_girl_and_i_manage_to_cum_at_the
I was a bit surpriced when I (F52) found out that it is not that common to cum simultaniusly – my partner (M58) through 30 years and I had joint orgasms 95% of the time the first 25 or so years (100% in missionary)
The resent years he has become “slower” and I quicker to come – I am the kind of person who just want to roll over and sleep/rest after orgasm, so to awoid being “lifeless” and uninterresting in the sex – I “restrain” my self to not come until he finishes. The result is that I can’t get “back on track” when he is about to come, so now he often finish me after PIV/him comming, with breastsucking/finger.(and that takes him 2-3 min)
That was how I found out that it wasn’t that normal to always orgasm at the same time, because I began googling what was “wrong” with me/us/him since we didn’t “match” anymore.
I have now settled with the fact that these days are over, but, boy, do I miss it!
My wife and I are pretty good at cumming around the same time. Foreplay IS key. Any time she announces she is going to cum, I lose my mind. We don’t use condoms and if she really wants me to go nuts, she’ll beg for me to cum inside her. She doesn’t really want me to, she just knows I like it. I always pull out. After being together for so long, we are just super tuned into each others bodies.