[MF] It’s all about the blow job!!!

I will apologize now if some stereotypes are mentioned in this story. It is not about offending, but to be more accurate as I remembered how things played out 15 or so years ago.

Marguerite was of Chinese descent. She was an over achiever in every sense of the word. Though she grew up in the States, her family kept a strict Chinese household where excellence is expected in everything they did thus explaining Marguerite’s personality. But don’t get me wrong. She was not uptight or nerdy. Actually quite the opposite. She was friendly, charming, witty and very approachable.

She was a very good friend and I was part of her inner circle which means… I was one of the guys that she practiced her blow job techniques on. But I am getting ahead of myself.

When Marguerite was in high school, a boyfriend told her that she was terrible at giving head. Instead of taking offense, she actually made it a goal to learn about giving the best head possible. I am not talking about practicing on a carrot like “Fast Times at Ridgemont High” or “Old School”. She actually read books and watched videos on how to improve her technique to achieve the best possible result. Her approach was very scientific, even going so far as to writing papers about it. She is the only woman I know that actually paid money to learn how to give a better blow job.

The obsession carried over to her collage years. To be in her inner circle, you had to be two things. A person that she knows can be discreet and you had to earn her trust. When you do earn her trust, her approach is more like propositioning you to be a guinea pig for a scientific experiment more than a sexual tryst. Looking back it was funny.

On my sophomore year, I was working my then job at the student center on a Friday night. Me and a friend were cleaning up getting ready to close the office when Marguerite showed up asking for one of the counselors. I told her the counselor she was looking for was out for the day and she looked disappointed. We were already friends since we belonged to a couple of student organizations together. Since I had no plans and we were closing the office in about 10 minutes, I offered to take her to dinner. She agreed.

We went dinner and ended up taking a walk around the campus and back to her apartment to watch a movie. This was before Netflix and chill was a thing and really I had no intention of sleeping with Marguerite. We were just hanging out. The movie finished and we sat on her couch making small talk trying to figure out what to do next. It was then that Marguerite propositioned me to be a part of her “study”. She was so matter a fact about it, that she mentioned “fellatio” several times and I nodded not knowing what “fellatio” meant. I know, not my proudest moment.

She goes “OK let’s get started. You can take off your pants or unzip your fly. Either way is fine, but I’d rather you take your pants off.”

“Wait, what?” I looked at her, confused.

“Take your penis out so we can get started.” she answered, a bit impatient.

Though I did not know that the term “fellatio” meant, I did kinda sorta get the gist of what she was talking about but everything made sense when she asked me to take my dick out.

I asked Marguerite if she was going to strip down and she replied that she will undress as we go on, but right now she needed to establish a baseline. Again very matter a fact.

Okay then. But here I was a horny college kid about to get a blow job, why would I care. I took off my pants and my underwear and Marguerite took my flaccid penis. She then said the first thing she needed to know is how fast I could get aroused and without warning, she put me in her mouth.

Her technique was good and it felt great, but seeing her looking at her watch, timing how long it would take for me to get hard was distracting. It took me about 45 seconds to get fully erect. Once I was, Marguerite stopped and asked me if I enjoyed it. I told her yes but her looking at her watch was distracting. She asked if I could get it up faster if I didn’t see her looking at her watch and she suggested I look away or even be blindfolded. I told her if I was going to be honest, part of the arousal is watching her. I also explained that in a real world scenario she would be focused on the act and not the time. She agreed. She asked if it was possible for us to stop and wait until I get flaccid so we can try again. This time she said she will do a mental countdown.

I agreed and I also tried to talk her into taking off her clothes. I told her that it would increase my arousal time tremendously. Though she was hesitant, we settled on her being in her bra and panties, but she wouldn’t strip until we were ready to get started.

After about 10 minutes, I was completely flaccid and Marguerite started to take off her clothes. I tried my best not to start getting aroused so I looked away and didn’t look at her again until I was in her mouth. Though her underwear was nothing special I did focus on her ass and I started to get hard. I knew it was less than 45 seconds and I expected Marguerite to stop. She didn’t. Instead she switched techniques. She started out with a long and slow stroke with some light tension in her mouth. As I got harder, her tempo and the tension of her mouth increased. As I got fully erect, she started taking faster, shallow strokes and used her hand, something I was not a fan off.

Thankfully she went back to her original technique which I really enjoyed. After a few minutes I told her I was going to cum and she substituted her mouth with her hand as I ejaculated. Marguerite showed me where the bathroom was so I can get cleaned up. When I went back to join her, Marguerite put a shirt on to cover herself and had her laptop on. She was waiting for me to sit back down and then started to ask me questions. It was almost like she was product testing.

“Which did you like better, method 1 or method 2? Method 2 or method 3? Method 1 or method 3?”

We came to the conclusion that so far method 1 (long slow stroke with light mouth tension) was what I preferred the most.

She also informed me that from the beginning to the end of the act (which is to the time she took me out of her mouth) was 4 minutes and 20-something seconds and she was establishing that as my baseline.

Because of her scientific approach, those in her inner circle were allowed to discuss their experience, compare notes with the condition that any and all “findings” must be shared with her, positive or negative. There were 5 other guys in her inner circle and I was friends with 3 of them. I also found out that I was guy #3. I was third on her “call list”. At first I was somewhat offended but knowing Marguerite it was probably scientific. At least that’s what I told myself, until I found out she later married guy #1. LOL.

For the next few months I had about five more sessions with Marguerite. My finish times varied from 3 minutes to almost 8 minutes. Aside from the method she used, the visual stimulation also contributed to my completion times. The last time we did it, she actually got naked and though she gave me permission to fondle any part of her, we did not have vaginal sex. We never did.

Over the whole experience, she tried about 12 methods on me but I always preferred method 1. It was interesting to talk to the other guys about our experience and though we tried to stay objective, we always veered off talking about Marguerite and what we wished she would do or how far she’ll let us go. Two guys did say that she let them go all the way with her and one said she got naked from the start.

Even though I stopped being in her “inner circle”, we remained good friends until shortly after college. Though she never told me the status of her “study”, as of senior year she did confirm she was still doing it. Since I was in a committed relationship, I never got invited back to her inner circle.

Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/i4cgro/mf_its_all_about_the_blow_job