Recently, my gf, one of my roommates and I had a 3some (live in house w/ bunch of other students from our college). my gf, him, and I were hanging out drinking the other night. My gf just (somewhat unexpectedly asked him if he wanted to. It was pretty awkward silence for a few seconds but he was down lol.
Well, this is my first 3some, and it was NOT how I expected ehich was that we’d both take part.. somewhat equally. Instead, he nearly shoved me over when I tried to join in. He’s almost bodybuilder level muscular and ima beta, so I wasn’t about to try and argue with him. He had us take a sec for a brief discussion, and said that he’s only ever the dominant one in a 3some and that he’s not interested otherwise, gave us a safe word to use and asked if we had anything else to add/any limit.
I didn’t realize how much this would destroy literally any masculinity I had when we started. He started talking shit and finally he told me I have a small dick and I stupidly snapped and told him to f*** off. This guy slapped tf outta me and then started fucking me in front of my gf. He hit every spot there was to hit as far as verbal emasculating goes, and I was to the point of nearly tears (it felt so good but hurt so bad at the same time).
Now it’s like I understand all of the rules, and I’m in a way looking forward to next time we do it but in a way anxious about it; because my gf didn’t necessarily expect this at first either, but afterwards she told me that she’s okay with it.
— So basically, I feel like I already gave up/giving up all my masculinity as far as how my gf sees me. But at the same time, I’m surprisingly really into it, and even though it’s hard to do I should embrace being a “beta” guy, Opinions appreciated
Also, girls, wha would you think about your bf doing this
Source: reddit.com/r/gonewildstories/comments/i2p710/3somewith_roommates_gf_apparently_meant_cuckold
Thats definitely not a guy id be letting fuck my GF if I wanted an actual relationship with her. She’s probably going to leave you for that guy cause she will catch feelings for him soon at least from my perspective that seems the likely outcome. My advice to you is to start hitting the gym and get some self confidence and don’t let people treat you like a doormat. I think that you might prefer just being dominated but that’s for you to figure out. But you can still do that without your roommate especially if he is going to be an asshole about it.